When educating children, parents must pay attention to the way their children speak.

Children's words are unscrupulous, and many times they are more joyful.

"Mom, mom, will uncles and aunts on TV fight in bed?"

"No, they are doing sports." My best friend Xiao Qiao blushed and immediately changed the channel with the remote control. She doesn't know when this Xiong Haizi ran to the living room.

"So, mom, do you and dad often exercise?"

"Yes, diligent exercise is good for physical and mental health. Xiaoguang should go out for a walk and run more during the day, and his body will grow healthily! "

"Well ..."

"Ah, Xiaoguang, what are you doing undressing? How cold is it? " Xiao Qiao stood on the spot, grabbed the sweater on the ground and put it on the child.

"But ... I peeked in front of the door last night, and my parents were naked when they exercised."

Hearing Xiao Qiao's complaint, Douma was immediately sprayed with salt and soda, but she immediately deliberately kept a straight face and said with a smile, "Sister, you should wear clothes for the next exercise!" "

0-6 years old, psychologically, the child is in infancy, and the thinking mode stays at a specific image level. As the name implies, in this period, children's thinking materials are mainly concrete images or representations, that is, the pictures in front of them.

Just like the thinking material in the brain is that parents take off their clothes and exercise in bed, his primary material is that parents take off their clothes, followed by what they do-exercise.

In infancy, children's thinking will only stay here, and logical thinking is only the bud, and will not consider the real meaning behind the incident.

Because of this, what children say in infancy often brings us laughter. We also call these words "children's words are unreasonable".

Although children's thinking only stays at the specific image level, because of this, their brain circuits always bring us unexpected laughter.

Children's words are not reckless, and may also lead to tragedy.

But! With the progress of modern society and the development of science and technology, today's children should accept new things earlier than before, and some influences of these new things make children think carefully and fear!

A few years ago, such a tragedy happened to a family.

Xiao Qiang (a pseudonym) likes watching the cartoon "Bears Come and Go" very much. There is a passage in the play that describes Xiong Da Xiong Er's rock climbing.

Xiao Qiang excitedly asked his mother, "Mom, if I make a rope, can I climb the rock?"

The latter just smiled and nodded, without asking the children too much.

After that, the tragedy happened.

Seven-year-old Xiao Qiang secretly spliced a rope and dragged it back from the balcony, but he slipped from the seventh floor to the balcony on the second floor. After three days of hospital rescue, he died.

The same is "children don't speak clearly", but it brings two different results to parents.

If I make a rope, can I climb the rock? This is the question that Xiao Qiang came up with when watching cartoons. This shows that at this moment, he has a strong interest in rock climbing and a desire to practice.

This means that what he said may not be a joke.

However, Xiao Qiang's mother didn't realize the meaning of the child's words, only thought it was a joke of the child, or said it casually.

If Xiao Qiang's mother changed her mind, she replied, "That's right. In that case, Xiao Qiang can rock climb, but rock climbing is a very dangerous sport. Xiao Qiang is too young to try now. When you grow up, mom will take you to play, okay? "

The life-saving straw in Xiao Qiang's last words was not caught by his mother. Childlike heart is still alive, and sometimes parents don't pay attention to it, which will also lead to tragedy.

Although children talk nonsense, the way children express themselves is very important.

Xiao Ting fiercely stared at the black cat on the bed, gnashing her teeth. "Mom, I want to kill this cat."

Douma's cousin is a reorganized family, and her daughter Xiao Ting is only 7 years old. Because of family turmoil, her daughter didn't get enough love and warmth.

Cousin also felt that she was not good enough to be a mother, so she bought a black cat and wanted it to replace herself and spend more time with her daughter.

However, one day when my cousin came home to lie in bed, she saw Xiao Ting walk to the bed with a cold face and looked at the black cat with fierce eyes. "Mom, I want to kill this cat."

Most parents will think that what children say is "unreasonable" and will not take it seriously. However, my cousin is a clever man. She immediately squatted down and asked Xiao Ting why she wanted to kill the cat.

Later, I learned that this cat is in estrus and always likes to bite and scream. After the cousin sent the black cat away, she felt that her daughter should accompany her.

A month later, Xiao Ting became much more cheerful. My cousin bought another black cat, and this time Xiao Ting became very close to it.

Hearing this, the stone hanging on Mama Dou's chest fell quietly. As we all know, what will happen if my cousin thinks that Xiao Ting is just joking, or simply criticizing a few words?

Probably, Xiao Ting will really kill the cat, right?

What children say can really be regarded as "childlike innocence", but as parents, we should carefully observe the expression, manner and tone of children when they speak, that is, the expression of children.

Xiao Ting's expression: deep tone, indifferent expression, serious attitude. At this time, if parents don't find out the real reason why children talk like this, or think that what she said is a joke, it will be absolutely unfavorable for Xiao Ting's future physical and mental development.

Children talk nonsense, parents can't let their guard down.

Dou's mother took adzuki bean to the shopping mall. A group of coser just gathered outside the mall. Xiaodou pointed to one of the girls who was wearing JK uniform.

"The skirt worn by this girl is so ugly."

Adzuki's voice was so loud that the girl heard it, so Mama Douma nodded apologetically to her and immediately took the child home for "aesthetic and polite" education.

When Douma's colleagues found out, they all said that Douma had made a mountain out of a molehill. "What are you doing so seriously?" ? Let's talk about it briefly at the scene. "

Is it really childlike? Adzuki's voice is loud and aggressive, which means it's Adzuki's voice. He's not lying.

If parents tell their children, they will prevaricate with childish words, which is absolutely not good for their growth.

Some words can be laughed off as childish words. But some words, parents must not relax their vigilance, or ruin their children's future or their lives.