Why does Degang Guo always emphasize proper collocation? Is it really important?

Degang Guo mentioned the concept of "matching" many times in the program. When he was young, he always thought that only two people, two of a kind, could be together, but the more he got to the back, the more he realized the importance of "matching".

He gave a simple and rude example. If the son of the richest man in the world marries the daughter of Tianjin Crosstalk, the two families eat together and speak Mandarin, but they can't always talk together.

The man wants to buy several countries and the woman wants to pack today's leftovers.

Although sitting at the same table, we can't talk together. This is the importance of fitness.

Thirty-three layers of heaven, one layer of heaven realm, unless it is in place, it will not understand that realm.

Therefore, no matter in his own marriage, or in the future marriage of his son Guo Qilin, Degang Guo insisted on being suitable. Love is not just a simple love between you and two people of the same kind. True love is related to identity, status, purpose and intention.

Not only Degang Guo has this feeling, but even his beloved Luan has this requirement.

Then why on earth does Degang Guo value appropriateness so much? What's wrong with the wrong marriage?

People who don't feel this way can't understand, and even if outsiders give explanations, they won't really understand. In fact, watching the hit drama "The Last Romance" can intuitively feel the importance of "being suitable for each other" and understand what Degang Guo said, which can only be said to be too realistic!

Although Zhang Anren and Jiang are lovers, there are great differences in origin, values and world outlook.

Zhang Anren was born in an ordinary family. In his world, he is more of a real life and works hard for his career.

But for Jiang, who comes from a superior family and is held in the palm of his hand by his family, life is to please himself and pay more attention to some spiritual needs in his life.

Therefore, no matter from which aspect, Jiang and Zhang Anren are wrong. From a small point of view, it is even more out of place. Once the love period is over, generate will have many problems, and the collision between ideal and reality will also split this relationship.

Born in a big family, Jiang pays attention to food, clothing, housing and transportation in his living habits. He lives in the center of Shanghai, wearing all kinds of famous brands and carrying a big bag. His seemingly casual clothes have their own value.

In terms of food, the Chiang family is even more unambiguous.

There are 90 different dishes every day. Whether there are guests or not, a table is full. Pay attention not only to the dishes, but also to the dishes.

You can't make fish with long plates. Be sure to use a CD-ROM, even if the nanny has installed it, it should be replaced.

When Zhang Anren from different backgrounds was a guest, it was also a shock to see such a scene.

I thought he was welcome to cook so many dishes, but it was actually Jiang Jiaping's home cooking, only a lion's head was added on this basis.

In Jiang's family, every meal has to wait for the oldest grandmother to arrive before moving chopsticks. If it doesn't arrive, nothing on the table can be moved. Zhang Anren, who was not sensible, tried to pour ginger wine before grandma arrived at the dinner table, but was stopped by a joke.

Drinking yellow wine to drive away the cold when eating drunken crabs is a habit of the Jiang family, and it is also a bit particular about the thermal storage of yellow wine. Nanny will use a special small wine cup, put yellow wine in the middle container, and let the water temperature wine go around.

However, because it was the first time to use it, Zhang Anren didn't know there was warm water in it, so he lifted the hip flask and poured wine, causing yellow rice wine and water to spill all over the table.

The scene was awkward and suffocating.

Halfway through the meal, the nanny changed him a warm drink. Zhang Anren thought he would add wine to him, so he quickly refused and made another joke.

The untimely and even embarrassing eating of this meal also shows the eating habits and pressures of two completely different classes. We can also see that Zhang Anren and Jiang belong to two different worlds in family background and living habits.

Although Jiang is used to the life of a young lady on the surface, he really wants to pursue a different way of life, and he has never abandoned Zhang Anren, but from the details, Jiang can't change the subtle influence brought to him by his small family.

On the construction site, a big bowl is delicious for the workers, but for Jiang, even if he is hungry, he won't eat the big bowl of noodles in the small noodle restaurant.

First, because she doesn't like it, and second, because she never mistreats her stomach. Just as her family always has a table full of dishes at every meal, she never treats herself badly in diet.

Zhang Anren brought her delicious chicken rice, but after a few bites, the chicken was not tender. Much like her grandmother, she can taste the grade of bird's nest with a sip.

Under the nourishment of love, Jiang realized that she and Zhang Anren were incompatible. Even if she doesn't have any antipathy, what is subtly influenced by her family background cannot be changed.

If there is no love, only a life of daily necessities, then can Jiang and Zhang Anren still walk together?

Jiang's mother is a shrewd shopkeeper. She doesn't have to worry about money every day, and she won't be bound by trivial things in life. In her opinion, girls should not do housework but please themselves, be beautiful and be little princesses, and not be spoiled by trifles.

So her daily life is playing mahjong with her rich wife, leaving early and returning late.

Does Jiang have these qualities under the influence of his mother all the year round? Actually, there is.

When working on the construction site, she knew that as long as she completed this project, it would be helpful to her studies, but for her own mood, she chose to give up. Even if she is discouraged behind her back, she will still be defeated by minor difficulties and fatigue.

There is no wayward and unruly young lady, but the influence brought by family background cannot be easily changed.

Jiang has been pampered in values since he was a child, and will not value material things, nor will he be troubled by money. She likes high-end hotels and expensive steaks. But all this is a luxurious life for Zhang Anren.

Zhang Anren eats fast food in the school cafeteria every day, because he thinks school meals are cheap and hygienic, far better than eating out at high prices. He not only eats the canteen every day, but also keeps Jiang with him.

Jiang, who eats in the canteen, is unwilling, but she is willing to wronged herself for love.

Even if the appetite is small, she will order many kinds of dishes, even if she can't finish them, because it has become the normal state of her subconscious to see a table full of dishes at home since childhood.

Every time Zhang Anren sees so many dishes ordered by Jiang, he will feel distressed about money because he doesn't want to talk about her during the love period.

Similarly, whether Jiang eats steak, stays in a hotel or does a SPA, Zhang Anren will feel bad about money. He feels that it is not cost-effective to spend money in this area, but it is better to save money.

Accompanying Zhang Anren to eat in the canteen, not willing to scold Jiang for wasting money, can also see the problems between them. Two people with completely different values, because the sweetness of love has not passed, they still give in to each other.

In other words, support this relationship with the passion of love. As this passion dissipates, their contradictions will gradually emerge. Two people with completely different values, together for a long time, the problem will be exposed sooner or later, just a matter of time.

Their horizons and values will not change with time, nor will they change with love.

Zhang Anren thinks it's great to buy a house in the suburbs of Shanghai, but for the Chiang family, buying a house in the suburbs is not a house.

These are two worlds, not at the same level, not at the same level, and there is no * * * same language.

In dealing with people, "people must know what their ultimate goal is, and all actions must be subordinate to their ultimate goal."

Zhang Anren said this himself, and he did it.

In order to win the only place to stay in school, Zhang Anren made a lot of "efforts".

When eating in the canteen, you have to listen to all directions and take the initiative to say hello to the dean. When he learned that Jiang knew Professor Dong's daughter Lillian, his eyes sparkled and he tried to get close to her.

Ask her to play ball, invite her to dinner, and try every means to curry favor with her. Even at the dinner table, he has been Professor cue Dong's boutique hotel project and wants to participate in the project through Lilian's relationship.

Climbing relationships and finding channels to achieve their goals can also be seen that Zhang Anren is a person who will do whatever it takes to achieve his goals. I'm afraid I can't stay in school. I'm afraid I'll lose to Wang Yongzheng. I'm afraid I can't find a good job.

In terms of ginger, it is completely simple. He doesn't know how to curry favor with or climb relationships, and his purpose is not as strong as Zhang Anren's.

In order to spend college life safely, to leave a good impression on Professor Dong, and to leave a quota, Zhang Anren is more like a coward who is passive to Nuo Nuo.

Satire by Wang Yong, he would not resist, but chose to let nature take its course. After Jiang was bullied, Zhang Anren also chose forbearance for fear of causing trouble, which left a bad impression on Professor Dong.

Jiang was called a waste when he worked on the construction site. Boyfriend Zhang Anren was not angry, but also used "don't argue with him" to discourage Jiang.

When Jiang chose to resist, all Zhang Anren could do was to persuade her to do more than one thing, and this attitude will never change. In his world, the so-called wonderful life is just step by step.

Forbear, dare not make trouble, dare not tell the truth, which is just the opposite of Jiang.

From living habits to values to the way of treating people, there are two channels. The reason why there are few contradictions is that they are still in the honey pot of love. Once this honey pot is broken, all kinds of "glass dregs" fly about.

Children who come out of two completely different families have completely different attitudes and ways of doing things. This is exactly what I said. Zhang Anren and Jiang are two inappropriate people.

Life can't always be love, always be daily necessities. At that time, all the differences between Zhang Anren and Jiang will be exposed, which is a realistic problem.

As Degang Guo said, the richest man is thinking about where to buy a piece of land, while Tianjin crosstalk performers are thinking about how to clean up the leftovers. Not at the same level, even if it is full of people, it is like a wall.

Jiang's spiritual needs and Zhang Anren's realistic pursuit will always be a bridge they can't cross.