My parents want 20 thousand bride price. Today, I chatted with my future mother-in-law. She said there was no bride price. I told my partner that if I didn't pay the bride price, I would pay it myself

My parents want 20 thousand bride price. Today, I chatted with my future mother-in-law. She said there was no bride price. I told my partner that if I didn't pay the bride price, I would pay it myself, but get married. The bride price is too little. That family is too stingy. Do you think you can find someone else? Is it still bad for others? Do you still have this right when you are married? The bride price should be at least 200 thousand, or it will be settled if it is not given. Besides, I won't give you or your family the money I want. Yes, you two use it, but you have the right to control the money. Don't let people go back in a few days, it will be boring.