What does plastic couple mean? How can we avoid becoming plastic lovers after marriage?

There is no age for marriage, only love for marriage. In the face of marriage, we should adopt a temporary rather than excessive attitude. After all, this is a lifetime thing. If you just find someone to marry casually, it is irresponsible for marriage and irresponsible for yourself. However, there are such a group of people in life who don't expect much from marriage and muddle along. Although they are married, there is always some estrangement between them. It is not difficult to get married, but it is difficult to find the right person to get married.

If you don't have a deep emotional foundation for each other, and you don't even know what kind of person the other person is, if you get married just because of marriage, then what you can feel most between two people is torture and pain, and you are loved in a perfect relationship. In a relationship, if two people don't share these three things after marriage, then you are just "plastic lovers". After marriage, you didn't share these three things, which means you are just "plastic lovers".

Some netizens shared a paragraph before: A couple went to the bank to withdraw money, and the wife entered the first three bank card passwords, and then turned to her husband and said, "Well, now it's your turn." I saw my husband delete all the passwords entered by his wife, and then re-entered the six-digit password. Many jokes actually come from life. Husband and wife should be honest with each other, but this calculation and calculation of money proves that their marriage does not involve happiness and sweetness at all.

Lu Xun wrote such a sentence in the book "Re-discussion on the Collapse of Leifeng Tower": "Tragedy destroys the valuable things in life, and comedy tears the worthless things to people." It's a tragedy that marriage has become like this. Marriage is different from love. All rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are related to money, but feelings are meaningless if they are not implemented. The reason why husband and wife become the closest relationship in the world is that they are absolutely honest about their own interests, not because they are wary and suspicious of each other as mentioned in the previous paragraph.

Although the payment password is only a simple string of numbers, it is enough to test the marriage that many people are experiencing. "AA system" is usually used in love relationships, because at this time, two people are not bound by any interests, and they are not sure whether they can enter the marriage hall. In order to avoid mutual debts, it is more advantageous to calculate the division of interests by AA system economically. But I don't know when "AA couples" and "AA marriages" began to enter sexual relations more and more. Although they are the closest people in the world, in terms of money, they will remain absolutely separated. For example, both husband and wife are in charge of their own wages, and when they need to spend together when they get married, they will pay together and share the expenses equally.