My husband said I was a joke.

To tell the truth, the maintenance of marriage needs wisdom. Don't get emotional. Look at it calmly and rationally My own way of dealing with people, I don't do the benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom of traditional culture. Learn to observe. Observe what? Did I do something wrong, do something wrong, say the wrong word? If there is, I will correct it. If not, I didn't comment on each other's mistakes and didn't take it to heart. That's right. I sympathize with your situation. It's really not easy, but also very wronged. After all, people's ability is limited, and their wisdom and ability are not perfect. But buddhas and bodhisattvas can, and avalokitesvara can. Guanyin bodhisattva is merciful, and all beings are in trouble and responsive. Some people will say, it's so difficult for me, why doesn't the Bodhisattva come to help me? It's not that I don't help. I didn't ask the Bodhisattva to help me. Why? It is correct to make your own decisions and think that what you are doing is ok. Bodhisattva's compassion will not bring troubles to all sentient beings. Since she wants to solve it herself, she naturally won't force all sentient beings. Sincerely read Guanyin Bodhisattva and pray for the help and blessing of Bodhisattva. I'm sure you'll be fine. Because I believe in avalokitesvara.