Can the education of children be based on parenting knowledge in books?

The education of children may not depend on the parenting knowledge in books. After all, education is a very practical subject. How can I copy books? And each child's personality, social background and family environment are different. Isn't copying books dogmatic?

The most important thing in educating children is to teach them in accordance with their aptitude. We can't be superstitious about a theory or an expert, but we should spend our time and love on raising children. First of all, we need to understand children, second, understand children, and third, love children.

Understanding children takes time and energy, and companionship is the longest confession. High-quality companionship can raise healthy children. If a parent doesn't even have time to spend with his children, how can he give them proper help and guidance when they need it? How can you understand children if you don't know them? It takes time and energy to raise children. Maybe the fierce competition in society will affect you and make you anxious. But the growth of children is urgent. Need to slow down. At this time, the rhythm of raising children can't copy the parenting knowledge in books.

Secondly, we can't believe all the books. What we need is enough observation, and then we can determine the child's parenting style and style according to the child's situation. The most taboo in educating children is to follow the book. Because this is also a sign that you don't treat children as independent individuals. We need to treat children as a unique individual, and we need to accompany them to grow up. When children grow up, be a caring parent.

The growth of children is urgent. Children's growth cannot be scripted. Simply put, it is better to believe in books than to have no books. We need to pay attention, time and energy to educate children and love them well in order to cultivate excellent children.