How to attract the boy you like to chase you?

1. Don’t take the initiative to chase a man, you must attract him to chase you

This is what the love expert in my college dormitory told me. She can handle two men at the same time and after being exposed, She can also marry one of the people she chooses, her methods are very powerful, and her appearance is really not beautiful (she is a good friend of mine, but I also judge it objectively).

My own feeling when using this trick is that you exude attraction but don’t need to make it obvious that you like him. In other words, he feels that he just has a chance, and then finally makes him think that he is chasing you. to you, rather than you chasing him. I can't quite explain the techniques here, so you have to adapt to circumstances. But it’s best not to answer his too explicit and ambiguous words, don’t show any joy or joy, and don’t let him think he can easily get you. In fact, most of these words are just to test you, and you will lose if you take them seriously.

Attractiveness is femininity, and it is best to use it together with innocence, otherwise it will be easy to become romantic. Shyness, reserve, and innocence are all good signs. In short, it is absolutely necessary to make some changes for some people. It does not change your nature, but makes your temperament more lovable, so in the cartoon lz posted above I don’t agree with many of the statements. A lot of what Yi Shu said was very reasonable and practical.

For example, this girl probably did it unintentionally. She was very cold towards her boyfriend. She was still in college at the time. She was afraid that dating her boyfriend would affect her studies, so she didn’t study with her boyfriend every night. Study together without even telling her boyfriend which classroom she will go to. Her boyfriend often flies between several teaching buildings at night hoping to find her. He is so infatuated. Also, when her classmates go on a trip, she doesn’t take her boyfriend with her (the boyfriend is not theirs). Later, her boyfriend couldn't bear it anymore and took the initiative to break up with her. But two or three years later, even if he had a girlfriend who was a school beauty, he still said that in fact, that girl was very good and pure, and he should not have broken up with her in the first place. (Just talking, I haven’t gone back to pursue it, but at least it makes people remember it)

Actually, this girl has gone too far, but she has a little bit of herself when getting along with her, and she can make her boyfriend feel Your concern is still conducive to the long-term relationship.

2. Women are passive. If you use attraction tactics but he doesn’t take the bait, you have to give up. I won't fall in love with a man who doesn't like me, but I have to choose carefully if he likes me. So no matter how good he is, as long as you use attraction tactics but he doesn't come after you, don't pester him anymore. There will always be people who don't like you. It's not your fault, nor his fault.

3. The relationship between men and women should also include after they are together. I have been married for a long time, and I feel that getting along between two people still requires skills. As the emotional leader of the family, women must make some changes. A colleague who is about 40 years old told me that she has seen many marriages, the kind where the husband and wife have been in a harmonious relationship for more than ten years. It is not that the woman is beautiful (how can you maintain your beauty in your 40s?), but they are all The woman is good at complimenting her husband. For example: Baby, look at how delicious the food daddy cooks! We ate them all; hubby, you are really good at taking care of a baby. He likes you telling him stories the most, and he doesn’t even want me to tell him!

I think this makes sense. In fact, it is not easy for two people to get along with each other for a lifetime, because everyone has highs and lows, and moods have ups and downs, but women’s feelings are more tenacious, so their emotions for the family must be strong. Playing a leading role, praising the husband in this way is actually asking the husband to share the housework in disguise. The more a person contributes to the family, the more he values ??the family. Which one is better, those fathers who have been busy working and neglecting to take care of their children since they were young, or fathers who never miss any stage of their children's growth and psychology?