After breaking up, do you hope the other person will live better than you, or do you want the other person to live better without you?

Disclaimer: I am not a selfish person, but I am not bad. After the breakup, he can live a good life, but there is no way he can live a better life than me. Unless he is eating soft rice, then I am barely worse than him. It's not that I want to make things worse for him, but our relationship was a bit awkward and even hostile. He can actually live a good life without me. Is this the way he wants to piss me off? I'm not a big shot, but I still want to stand in front of you one day, ready to appreciate the look on your face when you see me doing well. How could I miss this great show? Yeah, my ex-ex-ex.

I have already thought of the lines. Hey, isn't that who it is? This brand-name outfit must have cost a lot of money. Even if this good outfit is wasted, I think this person relies on his clothes and his horse relies on his saddle. It also depends on whether the horse is a good horse. This hair is blowing in a pretty style, is it blown by the northeast wind or the northwest wind? Hey, have you already put on the ring? I feel like you're trying to trick me into seeing this clearly? How many carats is this? This watch is also a famous watch. The key is, can you understand it? Sorry, the beautiful woman next to you is your wife. Yes, she is a talented and beautiful woman, a perfect match. It's no pity at all that you are so handsome.

Actually, I just thought about it. If I really said it, I might not be able to say a word. I didn’t use courage, but I need my confidence to be strong enough. I must prove that I can leave. He made the right choice, but I still want to slap him in the face hard, at least not make him feel better. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I haven't let go yet, I just can't let him live a better life than me. He can be rich, but only if he has a son-in-law; he can marry a beautiful wife, but they don't like the marriage; he can have a cute baby, yes, he can have one. After all, there is no need for the conflicts of our previous generation to involve the next generation, let alone , I think she should be his aunt, so I should give him a big red envelope.

We are actually narrow-minded and unwilling to let each other live a better life than me. What's even worse is that after I was gone, he was living a prosperous life without me. At that time, I hoped that I could be high-minded, send my blessings generously, and then send a red envelope to express my feelings. I'm sorry, thank you for taking care of me during that time. I was actually very willful. I said you had a better life than me. I was just jealous. Don't blame me. You also know that I am a hard-spoken but soft-hearted person. Don’t forget, let me know when your child is one month old and I will definitely give you a big red envelope.

Whether I live well or not has little to do with me, after all, we have nothing to do with each other. There will be very few opportunities for us to meet each other in the future. After all, I am already married and you are already married to a wife, so let’s just say goodbye. I once saw a joke. A woman hugged her son and said, if he and I had not broken up, then I would be the wife of the director. The child looked confused, and the woman smiled and gave up. Why is this joke so sad? After breaking up, his honor and disgrace have nothing to do with you anymore. What you are doing is just being sentimental, not to mention that the person on your pillow is not him, and the fragrance of your daughter in his arms is not you.