In the Name of the Family was also abandoned. Why is Qiu Zi naive and mature?

In In the Name of the Family, Ling Xiao and Qiu Zi have completely different personalities. Qiu Zi's thinking is simple, and he is emotional and emotional. Whoever is kind to him will double the reward, and sometimes he is humble and sensitive. Compared with Ling Xiao, he is a little naive. Ling Xiao was mature and sensible from an early age, with a delicate mind and little emotion. Everything is treated with rational thinking. They were also abandoned by their mother. Why is Qiu Zi naive and mature?

Being born in a family has a very important influence. Ling Xiao has lived in a hot family environment since childhood. His mother was mentally abnormal, his father was widowed, and his sister's death was related to himself. Parents fight all day, and any child will be forced to grow up in such an environment, so this determines his psychological maturity from an early age.

Qiu Zi grew up without a father, abandoned by his mother and thrown back to his grandmother's house, so he felt insecure and worried that he would be abandoned again. Even though Sharp and Li's father are very kind to themselves, he always feels that he is relying on others, and his flattering character is formed. He was patient with Sharp and even gave Ling Xiao three points. These childhood experiences led him to constantly deny himself and made him immature and naive.

When they grow up, reality gives them a painful blow. As Ling Xiao said? Growth is always a flash, okay? At the age of eighteen, he was forced to grow up and went to Singapore to take care of Chen Ting and young oranges. No one around helped him, so he formed? I am a person who won't get sick? His idea is more mature in thought, because he knows that no one can help himself, including his father.

On the contrary, experience made Qiu Zi more naive. In Qiu Zi's life, only those years at home were the happiest time, which gradually filled with inner inferiority and anxiety. However, with the arrival of Zhao, all this vanished, and he had to wander overseas without friends. Under the pressure of Zhao, he was abandoned again. The sense of security and self-confidence that was finally established collapsed, and was abandoned again and again, completely denying his life, so he cried and said that sentence? Why am I always abandoned? .

And all this has also caused Ling Xiao's emotional precocity and ideological maturity. Qiu Zi's emotion is late, and his thought is naive. Ling Xiao can always see through the minds of people around him at a glance. Qiu Zi said he didn't want He Mei, but he understood Qiu Zi's idea very well. Ling Xiao was the first person to realize that Qiu Zi's economy was in trouble. He gave half of his money to buy food, lent him clothes to wear, secretly helped him and maintained his self-esteem. When I went to the coffee shop, everyone thought he was rich, only Ling Xiao was worried about whether he could make money.

Qiu Zi, by contrast, is a little naive. She has opened a dessert shop with all her money, just because Sharp loves food and chose the best materials, because she is close to high school. All this seems very affectionate, but it is a little too emotional. The location is too hasty, there are traffic jams in the morning and evening rush hours, and there is no parking space. The main consumers of coffee are office workers and students are all around the school, so the consumption level is not high, not to mention the first-class raw materials, and the price is even more expensive.

Emotionally, Ling Xiao is particularly precocious. He formed a sense of gender from the moment he was in high school. He didn't let Tippy go to his bed, realized Tippy's physiological changes and bought her underwear. In the face of sharp jokes, did you say it seriously? I'll marry you? In this case, before studying abroad, I promise Jianjian: When you grow up, will we be together for life? .

As she has never been in contact with a complete family, Qiu Zi doesn't know what love is. She is very ignorant of love. In high school, I couldn't see that Yue Ming liked herself, and she was worried that she would drink her own drinks. Under the instigation of Zhuang Bei, he easily misunderstood his feelings for Jian Peijun and could not tell the difference between affection and love. He must enlighten Jian Peijun himself.

In fact, in the final analysis, Qiu Zi's naivety comes from cherishing this family and inner anxiety. I haven't seen him abroad for nine years. He has been trying to make up for this family. Taking good care of Li's father is something he has always insisted on, for fear that his only happiness will be gone as soon as he lets go. So even if he hears a shrill voice? You are not my brother. You don't have to do anything to me. I'm particularly sad. The next day, I will make breakfast for Sharp as usual. Sharp will coax him as soon as possible when he is angry.

He opened this dessert shop only to protect the precious memories of his childhood, just like the night before he went abroad to study, in front of a pointed house, naively thinking that as long as he stayed here, everything around him would not change and he was too afraid of being abandoned. So what? Household registration book? The temptation to him is great, and the protection of the law makes up for the lack of security to some extent. As can be seen from Sharp's confession, what is his point of view? We are together, so the family structure will not change now? , he can be justified and lee's father become a family.

To solve this problem, you must untie the bell and the person who tied it. Qiu Zi's innocence needs He Mei to heal. As long as he really makes up for his inner insecurity, he won't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. For Ling Xiao, maturity is not a blessing, which also means that he has too many things to bear alone. If he can be as naive as Qiu Zi sometimes, his nine-year overseas life will not be so gloomy.