I have a male friend who is lovelorn. How can I comfort him?

1: Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Everything can be washed away except tears, that is time, and the longer it takes to convey feelings. The weaker the conflict. Like diluted tea. 3. Complaining is God's greatest offering from human beings, and it is also the most sincere part of human prayer. 4. The price of wisdom is contradiction, and contradiction is a joke of life on outlook on life. 5. Girls in the world always think that they are proud princesses ~ ~ (except the extremely ugly and intelligent girls) 6. If the enemy makes you angry. That means you haven't beaten him yet. 7: Some things are beyond our control, so we should learn to control ourselves. 9: Maybe some people are mean, but we only know if we put ourselves in their shoes. He is more pitiful than us, so please forgive me ~ including good people and bad people. 10: Happiness should be accompanied by sadness. Only after rain comes a calm, if sorrow remains after sorrow. Please face this parting and look for the next possible you with a smile ~ 1 1: Death will teach people everything, just like the results announced after the exam. Although you suddenly realize, it is too late ~~ 12: You were crying when you were born, but people around you were laughing. You were smiling when you died. But everyone around you is crying, and everything is reincarnation. We are all in samsara. Good and evil are rewarded. Not without a report. Not yet. 13: Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily covered by habit and blurred by time. Consumed by inertia. 15: When fantasy confronts reality. It's always painful, or you are knocked down by pain. Either your step hurts. 16: true love does not lie in excitement, ostentation and extravagance, or prosperity. Excuse me, I don't pay attention to howling. 17: Regret is an emotion that wastes the spirit and a greater loss than loss. A bigger mistake than a mistake. Please don't regret. 18: If your friends make you angry ~ It means that you still care about your friendship ~ 19: The sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, and you will be sad/happy for a day. Don't get into trouble when you encounter difficulties, people will be comfortable and your heart will be comfortable. Girls who have never experienced lovelorn love will say that their love seems to be a walnut that others can break open without their own hands. Although it doesn't have much strength to eat, it also loses the meaning of breaking walnuts by itself. Just like a girl who has never experienced lovelorn love, without lovelorn love, there will be no attachment and affection for the boy she likes. Being such a girl is actually quite boring. Because there is no such extreme state of love in love, it is a pity to just enjoy love lightly. Girls who are lovelorn must not have sexual entanglements, because it will make them take the breakup too seriously, and girls will feel that they have suffered losses, and they will have to take some extreme measure, or be wronged by others, or let boys they don't like leave an inextricable knot in their hearts. Breaking up with the girl you love is the most painful thing for men, because falling out of love means that all love investments will become vacant and meaningless at this moment. You can't imagine how you can live without her. But real men don't look at this problem like this. Because if the pain of lovelorn is when the other person doesn't imagine whether you can accept it or not, then there will be no lovelorn, because when the exclusive love is unwilling to invest in yourself, then any material contribution becomes meaningless. Of course, in the face of lovelorn love, a sensible girl must know not to hurt the boy who once loved her, because that will make you feel scared in front of men, which just exposes your kindness weakness. So this experience will become a memorable love capital in the future marriage life, because when a man no longer loves you, you will definitely tell your man in the most effective way how our first love made our successful love. Is lovelorn really losing face? After what happened, no matter how you feel, no matter whether you are lonely, heartbroken or sad, someone has to clean up the mess. Don't think that being lovelorn is a disgrace. Even if it is true that you are no longer loved, why do others think so? Losing love is no big deal, let alone losing face. You can't be together again, of course you have to be apart and be proud of your decision. At the same time, you must firmly believe that the previous love was just a dream, and the lovelorn is a dream. Once you're gone, whether you have passion or not, don't be tempted by desire. Sometimes I have hallucinations, as if the nightmare is over and everything can be fine again. If she leaves, she has shown her attitude with facts, and it is not worth your efforts to change anything at all. If you continue to associate, you will get stuck in the mud. Who doesn't know that the deeper the relationship between lovers after breaking up, the worse the situation? When the consciousness is not firm, do you still remember the scene when she turned away in your tears? Even if a naked woman proposes to break up, she likes to put a thread and say, "If there is fate, we may still be together." Don't be cheated. The so-called chance of survival is just a joke told by a pig. Although you look relaxed, she is actually playing cat and mouse. The subtext is, you poor man, don't be depressed. I may need your help! Admit right away that your relationship is over. A naked mind is always refreshing. Fearless, tell yourself the truth: people are often afraid. If you pursue her, you will be afraid of losing her. When you get her, you will be afraid that she doesn't love empathy. When the lovelorn volcano erupts, you should relax mentally, and then relax. The so-called courage is nothing more than that. Just a woman, why be afraid! From the first day after being silent and lovelorn, you must make up your mind to shut up. Although I am surrounded by kind friends, telling her shortcomings gives you comfort. At this time, you must never speak out in response to damage your ex-girlfriend's reputation, at least don't force yourself to "deny her". Everyone's pity can only make your trauma worse, and the most serious thing is that you will become the object of pity. This is fatal to your man image. It is meaningless to pretend not to care, but silence is better than gold!