I found that my colleagues have always had a crush on me. How can I refuse him without hurting him?

Nowadays, many female friends in the workplace will be favored and recognized by many male colleagues because of their beauty or personality after working in the company for a period of time. However, some female friends don't want to fall in love in the company at all because they are afraid of violating company regulations or even losing their jobs. However, some male colleagues always pursue these female friends as always, which will bring great trouble to female friends. So how to deal with it? The author also gives you the following suggestions.

First, it should be a direct refusal, and the tone is very firm.

In fact, many female friends will encounter similar problems and troubles in the workplace, but this matter should not be delayed for too long. You should directly refuse all kinds of demands on you or invite you to dinner. Don't be too friendly to them, because if you don't make it clear, you will find that you will bring a lot of trouble in the future, and the man will think that you have cheated his feelings. So young female friends should take the initiative to keep a very long distance from these male colleagues and make you tough.

Second, use friends or boyfriends as a shield.

When many boys pursue girls, they always feel that they still have many opportunities, but it is precisely because these female friends in the workplace are single that they are embarrassed to refuse colleagues and leaders in the company.

The author also suggests that you can actually use your friends or boyfriends as a shield, and never give your male colleagues any chance. This is not a matter of hurting feelings. Although your colleagues may feel sad after rejecting your gay man, it is only temporary and may be relieved soon, and they may become good friends or colleagues with you in the future. However, if you are always unwilling to refuse, you will find that they will pester you and even harass you, so everyone should leave them in time.