How to deal with cold and violent men

First, create an environment for men who deal with cold violence. If your man is prone to cold violence, don't choose to paint the walls in cold colors. You should choose warm colors such as orange and light yellow, abandon metallic glass and white light, and choose a warm decoration style, which has a subtle effect on your mood. Second, timely humor to deal with cold violence Men usually collect humorous jokes. When men are prone to cold violence, they can send some humor, jokes, funny text messages and emails to each other. Prepare a humorous cartoon of you or him at home, write a big period on it, and then draw a big cross. When a man insults you, you can take it out and stop it. Third, sensational bombing men who deal with cold violence When there is cold violence, men can use all their strength to send cards, flowers and gifts. When sending text messages and emails, you can recall sweet times and express your admiration for him. Fourth, a man who uses external force to deal with cold violence can have a baby without it. If you don't want to borrow children, you can borrow another parent. If the other parent is unreasonable, you can borrow the man's friend. In short, you can borrow whatever you can. Going is the best way to deal with cold violence. If you encounter any kind of cold violence from men, you can roll up your bedding and swim freely. During this period, any contact information is interrupted, so that he doesn't know where you are. In the process of thinking about you, suddenly come back, as if nothing had happened, give him the gift he wants most, hug him and kiss him. 6. The man who was crying to cope with cold violence suddenly sobbed alone, as if he had suffered a catastrophe. He must show his true feelings. If he can't cry, he can think that he has seen the worst movie and experienced the worst experience. Time must be long enough for him to bear. When he wants to comfort you, tell him that you can't help crying at the thought of him dying and leaving you alone. The effect is absolutely good! Seven, cultivate a new interest in dealing with cold violence When a woman gets married, a heart hangs around a man's neck. But when this man is cold and violent to you, your heart immediately falls into a cliff. People are not afraid to live without money and food and clothing, and they are afraid that your spirit will not be pinned and become a living dead. In fact, women can try to cultivate new interests and divert their attention after cold violence at home. In this way, perhaps the pain of family cold violence will be less and the happiness will be more. 8. Pessimistic and world-weary, men who deal with cold violence say, "One boat every ten years, one pillow every hundred years." It's true. But when a woman encounters cold violence from a man, whether she should stay or not depends on the clouds rolling in the sky and the flowers blooming in front of the court. Although husband and wife are destined to be together, when there is no fate, we should look down on the love between men and women. In fact, many words in Buddhist scriptures are correct, so don't insist on everything. A woman should not live her whole life for a man and a love, but should live a wonderful life for herself. Nine, decisive divorce to deal with cold violence A man who encounters cold violence in his family can only choose divorce if he feels hopeless. Men's cold violence against women is just like the tortured concubines in the emperor's cold palace. Without emotional hope and sustenance, the warm family will no longer be replaced by a prison like an ice house. Since there is no affection between husband and wife, it is better to divorce. Why should husband and wife become enemies or strangers? Get together and leave. How to deal with a cold and violent man 2 1? Don't communicate with him coldly. Cold is a passive way to deal with problems. This will not only solve any problems, but will make both sides hate each other more, thus deepening the contradiction. Smart women will never retaliate against men in the same way, but will take the initiative to communicate with men. As long as he is willing to communicate with you, your contradiction will be solved soon. If you ask him, he still won't talk, that's all right. Try to pry his mouth open, try a few more times, and he will be embarrassed to talk to you. Second, if a man slams the door and goes out, don't always send him messages and call him. After quarreling, the man slammed the door and went out. Don't always send him messages and make phone calls, or even send dozens of messages and make dozens of phone calls. If you want to send, you only need to send a message. The content can be: I know you are angry. Let's all calm down. When you come back in the evening, we'll talk it over. Just this simple sentence, don't repeat it. If the other person sees your reason, he will definitely go home and make up with you after calming down. Third, don't be defeated by cold violence, and strive to be an independent and confident woman. In the initial stage of cold violence, you should bravely say no to a man and tell him "I don't like the cold war". This is also to protect yourself in the future and let him know that you will not condone his behavior. At the same time, don't forget to constantly improve your abilities in all aspects, whether in life or at work, so that you can become an independent and confident woman. Fourth, cultivate a new interest in dealing with cold violence. When a woman gets married, she seems to work at home all day and always forgets to be nice to herself. At this time, try to cultivate new interests and divert your attention. You can take this opportunity to buy more beautiful clothes, go to steaming hot springs and dress up beautifully! It may be a good idea to change the image style of the past. Fifth, if you can't stand it, you will decisively divorce. In fact, if a woman feels hopeless when she encounters cold domestic violence, she can only choose divorce to solve the cold violence. Men's cold violence against women is just like the concubines of ancient emperors who entered the cold palace. Without emotional hope and spiritual sustenance, a warm family no longer appears, but a prison that feels like icehouse. Since there is no affection between husband and wife, it is better to divorce happily. Why should husband and wife become enemies and torture each other? We might as well get together before we go.