Classic Quote: If you are not cherished, why bother to maintain it?

1. There is no need to make many friends, because not everyone will stand up when you need them. On the contrary, many superficial feelings will cause trouble. The older you get, the smaller the circle you care about becomes smaller. This is not a bad thing. You just need to protect the people you should protect. It's this small group of people who have already stepped forward and stood there when you thought they would be alone. ——Yuan Ziwen

2. Facing the sea, I am infinitely ashamed. My years have been wasted and I am tired. Like all poets who use dreams as horses, the years will pass away without leaving a drop. ——Haizi "Dreams as Horses"

3. The interesting thing about life is that your greatest pain yesterday is likely to create your greatest strength tomorrow. ——Drew Barrymore

4. The shortest distance is from hand to mouth, and the longest distance is from speaking to doing.

5. It is impossible for a person to have many friends. The so-called friends all over the world is either a poetic exaggeration or a shallow conceit. People who are keen on socializing often boast that they have many friends. In fact, they know in their hearts that friendship is not the dominant force in the social field, but fashion, interests or boredom. True friendship is without fuss. ——Zhou Guoping's "Love and Loneliness"

6. I don't care if you have fallen, I only care if you will rise. ——Lincoln

7. The process of shaping yourself is painful, but in the end you can gain a better self.

8. If you only read books that suit your own taste, you will always only know what you already know. ——Tsai Kangyong

9. In fact, there is no such thing as empathy in the world. Unless the needle pricks others, they will not know how painful it is. ——Canoe "Stars in the Deep Sea"

10. If you are not happy, everything I do will be in vain. —— Keigo Higashino, "The Devotion of Suspect There are more shortcomings on the body. —— Tolstoy

12. There is no need to be too happy or too sad, as long as you are honest and follow your own path step by step.

13. If you are always ignored, why bother yourself; if you are not cherished, why bother to maintain it.

14. You must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life. ——Wang Shuo's classic quotations from "A Letter to My Daughter" Mood-talking phrases: If you are not cherished, why bother to maintain it

Collection of mood-talking phrases:

1. Sometimes, All one wants is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

2. The bravest thing I have ever done is to smile and listen to people talking about your love for her.

3. How many people keep changing their signatures, but actually they just want to make someone feel something?

4. The reason for alienation is probably when I need you. And you happen to be not here.

5. At the beginning, I always felt that I would have a chance to grow in the future, but I didn’t realize that life is a process of subtraction. Every time I see you, I will lose one.

6. The most painful thing is the closest relationship in the past. has become the strangest person now

7. If you have not experienced my journey, please do not criticize the path I take

8. Friendships often end in love And love can never end in friendship

9. If you do something wrong, it will be difficult for people to remember your good deeds

10. If I say this The song is very nice, please listen carefully to the lyrics, because that is the mood I want you to understand.

11. I am not a good person, but I am not bad either. I just follow my temper and do what I like.

12. I don’t quite understand our relationship. Sometimes we are Friends sometimes go beyond friends and sometimes I am just a stranger to you

13. Everyone in this world is an island standing alone and no one is an exception

14. If you are not cherished, why bother to maintain it?

15. When you give your heart away, you should know that it is impossible to get it back unscathed.

16. Your parents are still working hard for you. This is the reason why you are strong today.

17. Sometimes a person doesn’t seem to love you very much, but in fact he really doesn’t love you very much. 18. The distance from thought to action is as short as the distance from tongue to nose. Near yet far

19. There is a person in front of whom you don’t need to maintain an image. You don’t need to have any scruples. You don’t need to be promising. Don’t look for that person. That person is yourself

20. Shower The rainy air, tired sadness, and the fairy tale in my memory have slowly melted away.

Latest mood-talking phrases:

1. If possible, I would rather not see you, so that I can’t help but look at you.

2. How many shallow turns are the depth of love that others don’t know.

3. You are the star that I can never reach. I can only watch you from a distance.

4. I am addicted to loving you, I know.

5. Let me stand at the place where my heart is broken, and gently tie a knot, a kind of mending, to prevent the pain from flowing out again.

6. I know that forgetting is an easy thing. As long as you don't look at it, don't think about it, don't remember it, you will forget it, just like the sky after the fireworks.

7. Sometimes it’s not that the other person doesn’t care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously. Sometimes you always feel that others ignore you. In fact, it may be that you are too idle.

8. The most painful kind of goodbye is one that has never been said, but one knows in one’s heart that everything is over.

9. There are some people you think you can meet. There are some things that you think you can go on forever. Then, maybe at the moment you turn around. Some people you will never see again. When the sun sets and rises again, everything has changed. If you are not careful, you will never be able to go back.

10. I really wish I could be a child again, because a broken knee is easier to mend than a broken heart.

11. Love is like a bubble, it bursts in an instant.

12. You won’t laugh at the same joke over and over again, but why do you keep crying for the same person over and over again?

13. If life gives me countless faces, I will Always choose the most painful one to touch.

14. Some people will always be engraved in our memory. Even if we forget his voice, his smile, and his face, the feeling every time I think of him is That will never change.

15. The cruelest thing in the world is that you clearly know that I like you, but you pretend that you don’t know.

16. If we have too much tears, we will laugh heartlessly. Who would want to be independent if there was someone to rely on.

17. Loneliness means there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when there is someone in your heart but not around you.

18. If you don’t shout the pain, it doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t feel it. The pain is too deep and drowns out the echo.

19. Not disturbing is my gentleness.

20. The longing in my heart spreads into a sea of ??suffering. When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it?

1. Wounds are the shame given by others and the illusion that you insist on.

2. Some people leave and never come back. Therefore, waiting and hesitation are the most ruthless killers in the world.

3. Life is a gorgeous firework. We don’t want to stop and linger in the same place, even if the sky is full of fireworks above our heads; pursue dreams and follow the songs all the way forward.

4. From now on, I am just alone, guarding my loneliness, taking off all the burdens, hobbling forward, looking forward to the next happy reincarnation.

5. When you are passionately in love, you promise to have a good relationship in the next life; after getting married, you often suspect that you made a bad relationship in your previous life!

6. I know that there is a kind of love called giving up, which is the deepest love for you.

7. For whom is love left, and when will the dream end? The meaning is unresolved, and this life no longer exists.

8. A hundred generations of looking back, passing by in a flash, the lost years were originally a mistake, scattered in the ups and downs corners, surrounded by the silence of youth, thinking of fishing alone in a piece of ink under the moon, my heart It echoes with the intoxicating and charming love songs, expressing the deep feelings before waking up, and being drunk and sleeping without realizing it.

9. Maybe my heart has become cold, or maybe I am beyond redemption, but the scene of me turning around, did you feel touched at all, dream? It's all a dream! Wind and rain remain the same.

10. I care about everything about you. It's just that you and I are not destined to be together.

11. Once upon a time, when we looked at the brilliant stars above our heads, the starry night still filled our hearts, but there were no tears of sadness for the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl. Because I grew up and no longer believed in fairy tales.

12. Humble oaths always make me feel stuck, even if they are said over and over again.

13. Thinking about sorrow every day, sketching with ink to piece together a picture. Thick black mist rose up from the burned cigarette in my hand, and I wanted to be intoxicated by the taste of nicotine. Perhaps, only in this way can I add a few more scars.

14. Time flies by, like a lifetime ago. Who records the broken beauty in rustling paper, who arranges the affectionate diary in the messy fonts into chapters, how the heartbroken handwriting wears out the tender time, and the pain always lingers in the fading memory.

15. If there is happiness, happiness is only a momentary fragment, a small section, a small section.

16. The night is getting late. I can't sleep tonight, I listen to the cold wind blowing outside the window, letting it disturb every inch of my love, feeling the helplessness and desolation, the cold wind and the cold moon sing the sadness. The cold wind pricks my worried face, and the cold moon hangs on the branches. Who will sing my loneliness with me in the wind and dust?

17. When loving you has become your burden, then I choose to give up.

18. Time, just like this, goes round and round in looking back and looking forward; the fleeting years, just like this, go round and round in the midst of looking back and looking forward, never to return.

19. Now I finally understand that if I love you, I shouldn’t restrain you.

20. I don’t understand. Others say that painful memories can slowly change over time, but in my heart, they always sneak up on me late at night, spreading and spreading. repeat.

21. If even short-term love cannot exist between you and me, it is better to let go of each other.

22. I once thought that love was beautiful. For that far-off happiness, I gave up everything and worked hard to protect and look forward to it; but now, I just want to live simply, look at the world with cold eyes, and take care of the world. All the past is lost in memory.

23. I don’t want you to see my tears, because you will be soft-hearted, but you will not be happy.

24. The ending of the story is like this, a kind of loneliness is causing trouble, everything is like fireworks, after blooming, there is endless loneliness. Along the direction you left, there was a scar, full of emptiness and powerlessness...

25. It has nothing to do with beauty, glory, or commitment. I just waited blindly, quietly performing a one-man show with no audience, no director, and just me, unswervingly throughout my life.

26. The falling veil covers the prosperity. The morning cry awakens the heart.

27. No more questioning, no more searching, love, what did you give me?

28. Young children are innocent and ignorant angels, so kind that they are lovable. He will learn to raise his head very high, just to prevent tears from falling in his eyes. Even though he is very hurt, he will turn around pretending to be strong, smile, and then tell you: I am fine, really fine.

29. Sunshine, wind, rain, ice and snow, stars and moon are all condensed into short days and nights. With your eyes open, you watch the hurried interpretation of fairy tales that have been repeated for thousands of years. There are no clouds falling in the sky. There is a trace of drifting; when winter turns to spring, the geese no longer fly north, blooming a season of life in the hot and humid south, unwilling to pursue exhaustion blindly.

30. The combination of "heart" and "truth" is shen, and the arrangement is "sincerity". Remember these two words before taking the road of love!

31. One day, at a certain moment, if you can still remember it, it is just a vague scenery, a pain that cannot be recalled. Looking forward and looking back, in the endless universe, how can there be a reference object to find the direction forward and backward? Suddenly looking back, without any surprise or anger, the direction became unfixed words, typing randomly on the keyboard. If the years are still there, I will continue to rise and fall in these years, close the eye I don’t want to see, Detach.

32. The distant dream has never woken up, the blurred morning light, the afterglow of the clear moon, the sadness that bypasses the heart, falls into the flower-scented bush, never stops, obsessively pursues that dreamlike dream. tenderness.

33. I smile. Whenever I'm sad or happy, I just smile.

34. Has your heart ever been broken? Does love belong to me? These problems are no longer important to me, because I have already stayed with them until the end and passively let them go. After my heart was broken by love, I gave up helplessly; my heart no longer waited patiently for love. This feeling is like a memory that I want to throw away. Some things have been lost long ago even though I didn’t have them yet.

35. When love is a thing of the past, why bother to pursue it?

36. I have always thought that as long as I try my best to love someone, as long as we love each other deeply, we can be happy. However, reality cruelly tears our wishes into pieces little by little, letting me know that in this world In addition to happiness, love can also become a burden and a pressure. After falling deeply in love, you have no choice but to give up and leave your heart in memory. In such an environment, I slowly learned to cool down.

37. Parting ways, the sky is far apart, the silk rain blows in the wind and the mood melts into the melancholy dreamland, parting and seeing each other again, the lonely moon reflects on the water.

38. Thousands of miles away, wind, rain and clouds along the way, dyed with the beauty of the world, painted with drunken beauty, addicted to madness, and went crazy in the picturesque Jiangnan! The worldly scenery described in the painting is pale and confusing, and all the scenery is alienated, which only adds to the lingering confusion in the mind. I don’t know where the flowers bloom in October?

39. Time flies like an arrow, and years are like water. But I don’t know when, my heart seems to be old and numb. Although he is only 20 years old, he seems to be frighteningly old. His life seems to have no vitality, and only his heartbeat is left to repeat the unchanging melody.

40. We are still kind. When the dust around us fills our hearts, we wave our hands to wipe it away, but we have to endure the unbearable pain in our hearts. We are young and ignorant, and we do not understand the rules of the adult world.

41. The moment we wake up from the fairy tale, we pretend to be strong and face the world, lonely and cold. The poverty of our family and the pressure of life spur our hearts, no matter that the road ahead is muddy, bumpy, and full of thorns.

42. I once thought you were a kite. I hold the string in my hand. No matter where you fly, I will eventually belong to you.

43. The love never ends, continue to write poems on paper, in the quiet night, listen to the dreams fly away, the breeze and drizzle continue, the soul is broken and chaotic, those passing years are no longer exciting, but affectionate The expectation will definitely last forever!

44. Where are you in the huge crowd? Like a cowherd on the other side of the river. Stepping into a familiar street and walking through the place where we first met, your smile at that time was deeply imprinted in my mind. Does my pounding heartbeat affect your heart? Does the initial beauty depend on each other in the heart? If he is not the right person, why bother thinking about him

Stone man Li Chen has given heart-shaped stones to many ex-girlfriends. It is a thing of the past. Even if he is occasionally called a scumbag by netizens, he will not stop it. Can't wait to see the progress of his relationship with Fan Bingbing. Scumbags are a theory of relativity. They are arsenic to me and honey to others. Those scumbags who have controversial pasts and are passed down by word of mouth turn out to be another warm man that women can trust and rely on.

Since the emergence of the culture of complaining about scumbag men, women have seemed to have a step, and they can quickly stand on the moral high ground and cry and accuse those men who do not follow through.

Friend Y is a good-looking man who graduated from a prestigious university. For her boyfriend, she gave up the opportunity to study abroad and stayed in the imperial capital to work hard. My boyfriend is also a very talented person. Both of them work well. We have known each other for less than half a year, and everything that should happen and should not happen happens anyway. Even the parents of both parties have seen it. From time to time, Y will post two pictures of her boyfriend in her circle of friends. beautiful photos.

However, I don’t know when, Y started to post some inexplicable status on WeChat Moments. After asking, everyone found out that it was the boy who broke up with her. After that, no matter how she cried every night, The boys were unmoved and didn't even say a word to say hello to Y when he was sick and hospitalized.

Friends said that in fact, the two had begun to disagree before they broke up, and they had more and more quarrels. Y himself also conducted a private investigation and found that her boyfriend had no other close female friends. When asked further about the reason for the breakup, the boy simply said that it turned out that he just couldn't stand Y for a long time, and that meeting her parents and taking photos was just to satisfy her request.

It has been 4 years since the two broke up. The boy is now married and the wife is pregnant. They seem to be a happy little family. They occasionally post photos of their house and car. Little Y is still living a wonderful single life, and when she occasionally mentions her ex-boyfriend, she grits her teeth and calls him a scumbag. Stories like this abound in life. Sometimes the thing about a scumbag is very simple. He just doesn't love him anymore, so he no longer cares about him or wants to talk to him. It is happy and responsible to end it cruelly.

If you continue to get along, you are maintaining the superficial peace and dignity. When you can't bear it any longer and take the initiative to break up, the man will still have some room for maneuver morally, saying something that he doesn't want to hurt you. , just want to bear less responsibility for the breakup, and make you feel guilty about whether you did not do well enough.

No one can prove how long the shelf life of love is. A lifetime, ten thousand years? Or a day? It’s not guaranteed. The love God gave you this time is an inferior product with a short shelf life. Once you taste it, It will expire before you can taste it carefully. Sometimes you can't accept not being in love anymore, not because you can't accept the loss of love, but because you can't hold up the shattered glass heart. Madam Ma in "Dragon" was trying her best to punish Xiao Feng, but she just thought that I am so gorgeous and admired by thousands of people, how could you not love me.

In fact, I figured it out, these are just clouds. No matter how good abalone or bird's nest is, some people only like it with simple meals. No matter how great a scumbag you meet, you will eventually meet the person who can hold him down. Reciting the poem about holding your son's hand and growing old with your son, he will enter the palace of marriage and live a life of tea, rice and oil. In the life of salt, he becomes a good husband and father to others, and is labeled as loyal and reliable.

Why is he not the one who lives with him? This is Y’s confusion, and it’s also the confusion of you, me and her. In real life, many ex-boyfriends of goddesses and neuroses get married and have children, and from then on live a happy life of showing affection and showing off their children. However, goddesses and neuroses are still alone, continuing to pretend to be single aristocrats, posting photos, and occasionally pO themselves. Screenshots of messages that people follow, silently tracking the status of ex-boyfriends behind their backs, or feeling sad while mentioning their names in their own messages.

We used to think that we could be together by working hard, managing love with heart, and serving breakfast with love. Maybe we have read too many stories like Yuan Xiangqin and Zhao Mosheng. I also gradually began to believe that there really is such a thing as personality discord. No matter how much my heart beats, it can’t compete with the torture of each other due to wrong personalities. It can’t withstand the constant wear and tear. People are always creatures that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. In the end, they will always be the same. You want to spend this long life with the right person.

Maybe one day you will meet such a person inadvertently. After he meets you, all his potential will be stimulated and he will become omnipotent in your life. He can do anything for you. Whatever happens, becomes the focus of your life and the warm man in your life. To put it bluntly, if you are not the right person, why bother thinking about him? Stop nagging about the stories about how he hurt you and let him go and illuminate others.