When the child's mood collapses, how should he calm his mood?

At 5: 30 in the evening, when I was on the night shift, a child named Xiao Kai sat in his seat crying. He knocked on the table with his hand and shouted, "Ah-". Other children also looked at him in surprise, and some children began to whisper, "What's wrong with him?" "Is this crazy?"

Before dinner, I remembered that he was still fine, so I asked my aunt who cooked rice what was going on. As a result, my aunt told me that Mr. Feng asked him to finish the dishes on his plate, and he really didn't want to eat them. Finally, all the students left, leaving him alone, and he cried. It was another math teacher who took him out of the canteen.

I saw that Xiao Kai's emotional breakdown had affected the students' study, so I quickly took Xiao Kai to the spare classroom next door.

I comforted him and said, "Xiao Kai stopped crying. We are usually fine. Do you know why Mr. Feng wants you to finish your meal today? " It's because a child didn't eat much dinner here. He came home at eight and ate two bowls of rice. His father found Mr. Feng. Why don't the children in your school have enough to eat? That's why Mr. Feng will let the babies eat all their meals today. But as you can see, there are two children who have not finished eating. Teacher Feng just asked them to eat as much as possible. Don't think you have to finish it. "In the future, no matter what you do, you must try your best to do it. If you really can't do it, tell the teacher clearly. The teacher will understand you, ok? "

I saw that he was in a slightly better mood. I touched his head, gave him a lollipop, and continued: "Then you lost your temper in the classroom, and the students were scared by you. Let's do our homework in this classroom for a while before we go there. Learn to control your emotions in the future. Oh, we make a little progress every day compared with yesterday, ok? If you don't lose your temper for a week, the teacher will write on your certificate that Xiao Kai learned to control his emotions! ! "

After appeasing Xiao Kai, I went back to my original class and began to do ideological work for the children: "Dear, you just saw Xiao Kai crying, why did you laugh at him?" Do you know that such a joke will make him feel more inferior and lift his head? When everyone makes mistakes, we must learn to help others and forgive their mistakes. "

Student Xiaoyi replied, "Teacher, are all the students in the school like this?"

"I don't care what your classmates do at school. I hope you know that you don't want others to laugh at you when you make mistakes, and you don't want others to correct your mistakes. Then we should treat others with this mentality. We should forgive others and extend our hand to help others when appropriate, so that our life will be better. I hope we will have similar behavior in the future. When Kay comes back to class tomorrow, I also hope we won't have any discussion. Can everyone do it? "

"Yes, teacher, we understand!"

"Thank you! The baby is great! The teacher is really happy to make progress with you! "