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Northeast custom, a family sleeps in a bed, isn't it embarrassing?

I'm from the south and my girlfriend is from the northeast. When I first met my parents, I went to the countryside to see my grandparents. My girlfriend let me sleep on a kang with my grandparents at night, which scared me. My girlfriend told me that her father has two sisters, a younger brother and a younger sister. When he was a child, his family was poor, and a family of seven lived on it. After listening, I immediately sat up and said that I was still so sleepy. Although seven people say they can sleep, aren't men and women embarrassed?

The girlfriend said, what's so embarrassing about this? It's all like this. You and I are going to sleep with grandparents tonight. I immediately refused, saying that I could not sleep on the underground floor. Girlfriend said that according to their rules here, when the South comes for the first time, it must sleep on the kang with grandparents, otherwise it is insincere. When I heard my girlfriend say this, I was scared at once. Fortunately, my grandparents solved the problem later.

A family in the northeast sleeps in a kang. Aren't the couple or anyone else embarrassed? I was also very concerned about this problem, because at that time, I couldn't accept that a family grew up with children, or that newlyweds were embarrassed to be crowded together, but it was not as bad as I thought. Mainly because of the following three reasons:

Reason one: The kang in the northeast is really big. Personally, the kang I saw was long, two or three times larger than the double bed in the hotel. This means that even if the family sleeps together, everyone has their own space, no physical contact, and everyone has their own quilt.

Reason two: children will be divided into rooms when they grow up. Sleeping together as a family is not the three generations we imagined sleeping together. Usually, parents and their children sleep there. And generally speaking, if it is a daughter, there is a mother in the middle, and if it is a son, there is a father in the middle. When children grow up, or have newlyweds, they will naturally open new houses.

Reason 3: There will be curtains between kang and kang. If there is really no condition to open a new house alone, the family will temporarily squeeze together and set up a curtain between people. Put it down when you sleep at night, which is equivalent to a private space. Roll it up during the day, and everyone will live and live, and gradually get used to it.