Auntie

She can't make up, dress up, spend money, rarely buy new clothes, and run around and do stupid things every day. But she said that she didn't like herself like this. She turned "natural beauty" into a "giant panda", taking dark circles as the standard.

This person's name is Cherry, and I met her at STP. In STP, some people call her Miss Cao, others call her. Now they are all called "Auntie". As for the origin of "auntie", she said she didn't know. Everyone is used to shouting, but calling her that when going out is always a lot of jokes. "Aunt, what do you eat? Do you think this is ok? " There are always passers-by with a surprised face.

I talked with her for five hours in the star cafe.

What did you play when you were a child?

-Climb houses, climb trees, build small houses on mountains and bake sweet potatoes in the fields. Angry with my parents, I climbed to the willow tree by the stream and lay down, thinking that they wouldn't find me, but I usually lie down until the sun goes down and go back by myself, and I get scared, haha. Sometimes I pull a sheep to play.

Shanghai is around the turning point. What do you think you are pursuing?

I studied hard before and got good grades. When I came to college, I didn't know what I wanted, and I couldn't think clearly after thinking about it, so I tried more and did a lot of thankless things. I especially remember that my mother said that I was tone deaf, so I wanted to learn. I took a music class and was totally abused. . After the course, my roommate looked at the photos of our class and said that so many of them were in the top ten of our school. At that moment, I almost didn't cry myself

Everyone usually looks at you seriously, so what stupid things have you done?

-That's a bit much. . . For example, I was cheated by a liar, but I didn't give up sending messages to others asking "Why did you lie to me" and conducting in-depth education, one a day, until my mobile phone fell into the water and could no longer be turned on. Also, when the school went out for dinner on New Year's Day and saw the old man in the street, I bought him a soup bag. I guess people will think this child is mentally retarded, haha. Then in front of people I know very well, I see dolls, delicious food and motorcycles become mentally retarded in a second, but so far people like me should not exceed 10, so the basic impression of others is that I am quite rational.

-no rebellious period?

-it seems that there is really no such thing. Family life is so happy, the whole family is spoiled, and I am devoted to my study. There's nothing to rebel about.

-What does family bring you besides happiness?

-All my excellent qualities and the only specialty I can get at present-presentation, I really like being on the stage, and I am also very happy to get a host to earn some extra money or make a report occasionally.

I recently read that Yang Zhiping said that when we are young, we all need a mentor who can help us grow up. How do you think people can find such a mentor?

I'm really lucky, whether it's my professor at school or my boss who works outside, it's really super good for me. As for how to find it, I think you should be reliable first. Everyone likes reliable young people. Here, I want to vomit a little, I am unreliable. I promised a boss to write something for others, and then I let it go. Anyway, I just don't agree casually.

You said now was a good turning point for you. What do you mean?

-I just thought I was pretty good before. I came to the metropolis from a small county and did something that looked quite tall, thinking that I would get ahead one day, and so did my good friends at home. We all envy you being there. Recently, I feel more and more that what Shanghai needs most is a young man like me, who has ideals and is willing to work hard, but everyone is just fighting for their own time. If it is easier to take a step back, I will probably take a step back at the right time. The only thing I can't turn around is that I know money is important, but I still have no idea. I don't know where my money comes from. Anyway, I always have enough money. If my friend needs it, I will lend it out. If I lend it out, I will forget it. Of course, friends will remember to pay it back, haha.

Take a step back at the right time. Recently, I saw you joking about going home and getting married. What do you think the other half you love will look like?

I don't know what kind of person he is, but I just think I have to make him happy. After all, I went to the hall and the kitchen, and I will support you if necessary. My friends will say that I definitely don't want to be a housewife, but I'm not, because once I get emotional, my basic IQ will be off-line and super romantic. A very traditional person is content to be spoiled, haha.

Her real name is Cao, Fudan 12 Philosophy, 16 Journalism and Communication (the direction of financial news), and STP Shanghai is in charge. Recently, she has been thinking about how to transform STP into a social enterprise.

-"Do you want to advertise for your organization?"

-"no, entering STP, life is STP, so it won't hurt people. Haha, you shouldn't make people thunder. We must make money seriously. "

It was nearly midnight when she came out of the coffee shop. She said she was going to buy a midnight snack and made an appointment to stay up late together.

Doesn't look like someone who wants to take a step back.

By the way, she also asked me to delete a lot of labels and experiences, because people in this era are not short of self-introduction and resumes.