How to deal with being disheartened by others on the way to prepare for the public examination?

Hello, the civil service exam is highly competitive, and preparing for the exam is also a variety of internal papers. It is very likely that all kinds of people throw cold water on the preparation for the exam on the road. There are roughly several ways of thinking of these people, and the corresponding methods are not the same. Here's an explanation:

1, vicious competition, deliberately.

Such people want to test the public themselves, but they can't treat them correctly. They choose vicious competition to throw cold water on others. The best way to deal with this situation is to ignore it or throw cold water on it. This requires a rational and vigilant attitude, and remember not to be influenced by a few words. Warning! Such people also tend to pour cold water on things through infiltration and say some sarcastic words. In this case, let them calm down.

Step 2 be pessimistic

This kind of people are mainly parents and relatives, not necessarily malicious, but pessimistic, that is, to pour cold water on the preparation for the exam, so they will not be too disappointed if they fail the exam. This is a strange way of thinking, but it is hard to understand how many old people believe it is true. So in this case, because parents and relatives can't ignore it, there are only two ways: ① You have enough brains to master the review and won't be influenced by your own words. In this case, it is easy to nod perfunctory. (2) I don't have enough in my heart, and my review is also very uneasy. Their mentality after being poured with a pot of cold water and their collapsed mentality can only cry. On the one hand, they vent their emotions, on the other hand, they give their parents a reverse warning to let them know that this is your minefield. (If the mood is not extreme and parents can communicate with each other in a friendly way, it is not recommended. )

To sum up, I met with cold water on the way to prepare for the public exam, so I need to analyze and deal with it in detail. In fact, everyone will encounter cold water on the way forward. Fundamentally speaking, instead of changing others, it is better to change yourself, or to enhance self-confidence and hard work from the business ability, so as to truly become a cloak. Careful preparation is the most important.

Tip: Scientific and reasonable review is the key. Ebbinghaus memory method can be used, which can greatly improve the efficiency of memory. For example, if you remember a knowledge point, your memory will soon be forgotten, so you should review it at this time, and it is best to study excessively within one hour. Then review it once a day and again three days later to get the strongest memory. Finally, I wish you all the best.