What if the child doesn't listen to what he says?

1, reduce nagging. Both children and adults may be bored by others' nagging, and they will also be anxious to listen to others' nagging. Especially for some children, parents' nagging may be like a lullaby, and it is difficult to calm down and listen to what their parents have said. Therefore, if parents want to say something to their children, just concentrate and try not to repeat a sentence or an opinion, which will give them a sense of chatter. A child is a creature who is interested in new things, or a child has a grumpy personality since childhood, so all these situations will cause children to hate listening to their parents, so there is a problem that many parents care about now: children are disobedient. We always label our children as "disobedient", but in fact, sometimes it's not that children don't like being obedient, but that parents' nagging makes them not obedient. Therefore, parents should first be themselves and be good parents.

2. Communicate with children more. Communication is a bridge to solve all contradictions. The communication between parents and children can make children and parents establish good feelings. Parents can effectively understand their children's thoughts when communicating with them. Communication is very important for the cultivation of feelings, especially for some children in the rebellious period. Communication can soften children's rebellious attitude and effectively help Bao Ma solve the problem of disobedience.

3. Take more children to play. Every child wants to keep a good mood at all times, and for children, playing is the best way to keep a good mood. Because children love to play by nature, they can play hard whether they are playing outdoors, parent-child activities or playing alone. When children are in a happy mood, they will become more easygoing and reduce the chance of losing their temper. When the child is in a happy state for a long time, then the child will rarely lose his temper, and he will be able to get along with his parents peacefully and will not be so disgusted with what his parents say.

4. Speak in a humorous tone. Many children are disgusted with their parents' words, because they are boring, so they won't listen. So parents must pay attention to their tone of voice and bring more sense of humor. For example, keep smiling when talking to children, or make some funny expressions, or interspersed with some jokes to enliven the atmosphere. When children are in a humorous atmosphere for a long time, they will become more positive and optimistic, which will also help children develop a humorous character and be more beneficial to future interpersonal communication. Parents' educational methods determine children's attitudes. When a child's attitude deviates, parents should first pay attention to their tone and attitude, and then standardize their attitude.