Pregnant with the third child, should I give birth or not?

This is determined by three aspects. First of all, whether the husband and wife face this reality and intend to accept this new life is the premise, although it is an accidental pregnancy of three children. If this condition is rejected, then the second and third aspects need not be discussed. Second, economic affordability. Whether the income of both husband and wife is allowed, such as living in poverty, has not eaten the last meal, which is probably not a problem that can be solved by tightening the belt for a year or two. Finally, we have to face legal risks and the risk of being fired and re-employed. The "Population and Family Planning Law" has clear penalties for over-births. In case of super-life, they may be demoted or fired and fined. Once you are fired, you will face the possibility of being laid off and find yourself a job. Therefore, super-life is not something that ordinary people can bear. Therefore, people who want to have three, four or even more children now are elites in shopping malls, entertainers, small businessmen and some farmers who get rich first. Therefore, if you accidentally give birth to three children, you should think twice before you act.

Some people are dinks, some people don't want a second child anyway, and some people have three children in a row. In fact, this is a personal choice, but if you have children, you must pay attention to education, no matter how many children you have. Having children is not just about "living", but "education" is actually the premise of having children.

Why do you say that?

May I ask, what do we need children for? Carry on the family line? Raising children for old age? This is what the older generation said, and I have always disagreed.

On the Zhihu, there was a question about "Why do people want children?" One of them replied enthusiastically: "In order to participate in the growth of a life, you don't have to fight for me, carry on the family line for me, and help me support the elderly." I only hope that this kind of life exists, and walking in this beautiful world will give me a chance to walk with her (him) ... "

This answer is in my heart and I always remember it.

When I really have children, I think giving birth is a process. In this process, I cultivate and care with my heart. As a parent, I am not disappointed, which is enough.

Many friends will ask, do you want a second/third child? I think no matter how many children you have, if your family can meet these four conditions, then you can consider it.

1. Someone helps take care of it.

2. Economic conditions permit

3. Physical license

Both husband and wife can take care of the education of several children.

Different times have different ideas. It is everyone's choice to choose which road to take. I hope you don't take the road of regret.

Hello: Do I think so? Are the children in our countryside? It's not too much to have three children ... but you need financial strength to have a third child. If you don't have financial strength, it's no use having more children. The most important thing now is to stay with your children, take them outside to see the outside world, or enlighten them more. The more people you bring them out to contact, the less introverted they are, and the more children you contact, the more relaxed you are. She will be happier if she talks more, and it will be better for you adults ... children will be more introverted if they have less contact with people, and you adults only care about making money and rarely contact with children! It should be the old people at home who take care of your children, so the children will be more introverted.

The old man is like this. He will definitely ask you to have more children. Because they gave birth to seven or eight or five or six children, and later gave birth to more children, he felt that it was enough to support them to grow up, but now this era is different. When they are born, they should receive a good education, receive school education and give them a bright future.

No matter how many others have, just be yourself, and you can have children with that financial strength.

Sambo, born last year1February, just found out that I had your tangled thoughts when I was pregnant with my third child. Because Dabao was over 6 years old and Bauer was 4 years old, a son and a daughter had already made up the words of life, but they struggled for several days and finally decided to stay. After all, it is my own child and life. It is also fate that children choose me as their mother! It's been four months since Sambo, and we get along very well.

Your biggest worry at the moment should not be having three children, but being afraid of having three children and ignoring the boss, or lowering the quality of life of the boss.

Listen to your inner thoughts, ask your husband's thoughts and ask your children. I told my eldest brother and my second child when I was born, so my brothers and sisters are very happy with the arrival of my third child.

Yes Now the country calls for three children, and there will be rewards.

At present, the population in China is aging seriously and the birth rate is declining. It is necessary to have more children to alleviate this trend. To realize the great rejuvenation of the nation, we must first make the population strong and the nation strong. Having three children is a contribution to the country and the nation. These children will enjoy all kinds of preferential treatment in the future.

People are the most precious in the world. With people, we can create any miracle on the earth. Becoming the second largest economy in the world is inseparable from becoming the most populous country. Appropriate population structure and population size are the most basic conditions for economic development.

I personally tend to eat more rice for dinner and less rice for porridge. If personal energy and family energy can't be attached, please remember to wear a .......... and don't hurt the willing woman and the unmasked elf.

Do not recommend more. Even if the family has money. Don't gamble on your health. Some problems don't show up when you are young. But with the increase of age. There will be different changes in the body, and two children are enough.

Yes, I'm the third, too. The expiration date of this month is 1 1. As long as someone at home helps you take care of it, it will be born. First of all, abortion is bad for women's health. Besides, good or bad is a life. Now that he has come, it is a kind of fate! I am, but after giving birth, I have to go to the ring. There can be no more accidents. There will be pressure on the three, but I believe I will never regret my decision now when I am old!

Your life is your own decision! Why should you consider your family, in-laws? Life is only a few decades. Who do you live for? If you feel energetic and financially capable, and both you and your husband like children, they want to have children. If it is under pressure or just to please others, it will not be born! Why live in someone else's world Remember to live the life you want, don't let others think ... but you think ...