A stingy person always feels that he is too shabby. How stingy can people around you be?

Some people think that stingy people are too shabby. In fact, everyone has their own way of life, and everyone treats themselves and their money standards. As for being stingy or generous, it's just that everyone's behavior varies according to different standards. So I don't think it's necessary to laugh at other people's poverty or attitude towards money. Everyone has a good life, but it's perfect. There is really no need to look at one's life advantages by looking at others' lives. Maybe others' lives are happier than one's own. Therefore, there is really no need to look at those stingy people from an outsider's perspective.

Before, a friend owed tens of thousands of dollars to others. Later, he scrimped and saved and paid it off in a year or two. I didn't buy clothes, didn't want to order takeout, and accumulated my hard-earned salary. In this more than a year, I have spent all the money I owe others. At this time, some people will think that you are unwilling to eat anything and buy anything during this period. Why are you so mean to yourself?

Some people will think that he can pay it back later. "You can pay back the money you owe others in a short time." But as a friend, he felt that the money owed to others should be paid back early, and should not be owed all the time. He'll feel embarrassed. So he worked hard to make money and spent it early. But some people feel that they are too stingy, and they seem to suffer a lot.

But in fact, this friend himself didn't feel how painful it was. He works hard for his goal, which he thinks is happiness. Because his goal was to pay back the money he owed to others early in a short time, he did it. So, for him, this thing is happy. To others, he is mean to himself. So this is that everyone's living standard is different, everyone's goals are different, and their views are different. Many times we look at others from our own point of view, but in fact, others have their own attitudes and views on the world from his point of view.