Can't a married daughter go back to her family for the New Year?

Originated from the personal dependence of feudal society, in feudal society, men and women were not only unequal, but more seriously, women were regarded as a living thing, not a person. This is why there is a phenomenon of buying and selling wives to buy maids. The handmaiden of Qing Dynasty is the embodiment of personal attachment. It's an ancient custom that you can't go back to your mother's house on New Year's Eve. Our happily married daughter can't go back to her parents' home for the New Year. In that era when men were superior to women and men were inferior to women, married women were like spilled water that could not be recovered.

Both men and women agree that their daughters can't go back to their parents' home for the New Year. Even if there are several sisters and brothers at home, my daughter wants to go home for the New Year. It is said that it is unlucky for a married daughter to go back to her family for the New Year, which is a legacy of feudal thought.

In our big socialist family, men and women are the same. Now I know nothing about girls, but I have been divorced for seven years, and I spent seven New Year's Eve at home. I thank my parents. I have no idea of not letting my daughter go home for the New Year. Theoretically, it is not possible, but if your mother's house is very close, there are only a few of you in your husband's house, so you can spend it together or walk around your mother's house after dinner without asking.

In the past, a married daughter spent New Year's Eve at her in-laws' house, and usually left her parents' house on the second and third days of the following year. But now there are many differences in these years, and many young couples don't have to spend New Year's Eve at their in-laws' house. At present, there are the following situations in the Spring Festival. Each family has its own laws according to its own situation.

China has a vast territory with a history of 5,000 years, and attaches great importance to tradition. Although the time when men are superior to women has passed, in thousands of years of ancient times, the requirements for women cannot be underestimated. Not to mention those three cardinal guides and five permanent members, in fact, many rules in daily life are fetters for ancient women, especially during the New Year.