Dad put on handcuffs with a wry smile at that moment: unexpectedly, I lent money to your mother's house and lent out hatred.

This incident in my family is bizarre and worrying. After all these years, I still don't feel worthy of my father.

I have blacked out my mother, including all my mother's relatives.

Now, I will still remember the moment when I was a child: after my father hacked someone, his hands were covered with blood and he was taken away in handcuffs.

At that time, I was still doing my homework on the edge of the kang, which is the kind of kang in the countryside. I was doing my homework on grandma's edge of the kang.

Afterwards, I learned that my father had cut someone, and people came to arrest him. My father begged people to say, take one last look at me.

Dad's hands were covered with blood, and his eyes looked at me, and that kind of guilt. ...

Then, my mother stood aside, too scared to speak. Father shook his head: unexpectedly, I lent money to your mother's house and lent out hatred! Then he turned and left.

At the moment of turning around, my father turned around and tried to touch my head with his hand, but he reached out and shrank back. Maybe he was afraid of getting blood on his hands and scared me. He left with a smile.

When my father left, my mother didn't cry or scream, like a creature without feelings.

To sum up in one sentence, the tragedy of my family is that my parents are proud of their lives and miserable.

My father is an honest man, pulling coal and engaging in transportation. In those days, it was very profitable to engage in transportation. Then, my mother's relatives lined up to borrow money from my house. I am not exaggerating at all.

At that time, rural people were old-fashioned and unwilling to break the rules. My father is the first person in the village to eat crabs. His comrades-in-arms saw that my father didn't earn money by farming and introduced him to transportation.

My father is an honest man. He doesn't lie, so he gives my mother money. Relatives asked my dad how much money he could earn by pulling a bus, and my dad said ... he grew up. ...

Then, my family began to have bad luck.

Because of borrowing money, my mother is angry and quarreling every day, and the atmosphere at home is very tense. Because my mother is angry, she sometimes takes it out on me. Beating or cursing, at that time, I felt that life was hell.

The reason why my mother hit me is not because my father doesn't borrow money, and my father doesn't care about money. That is, when my mother borrowed money abroad, the tweezers could not be opened, that is, they could not be opened.

My dad is sulking: I make money, you borrow money from relatives, you can't get away with it, and you have to eat me! I drive alone, so I can't break two people to work!

My mother saw that she was unreasonable, so she hit me and said that my homework was not good either.

Actually, it's just hitting me. This is for my father. Father dared not say anything, but he felt sorry for me.

At that time, China's New Year was coming. My family has lent more than 50,000 yuan (not a small sum in those days) to my mother's brother's family, and now I want to borrow it again.

My father is the kind of person who attaches great importance to feelings. My uncle came to borrow it, and my dad was ashamed to say that it was all lent out. At that time, my mother was in hospital and my father was in charge of money.

Then, my grandmother came to the door in person and said that my father was partial ... as if all my money had been scraped away.

After grandma left, dad felt even more guilty, because after all, dad had been treated well by grandma before. Grandma helped dad before mom and dad got married.

My father used to be a poor man and often went to grandma's house to beg for food. Either beggars beg, or unmarried young people in rural areas have no place to eat and go to the elderly to make a living. In the past, rural people were so simple and simple.

Grandma, it's worth it. ...

My father has two sisters and one brother, and my mother has one brother and one brother.

The relationship between my mother and my grandmother is very stiff. When I used to live in my grandmother's house, my mother was often beaten back by her grandmother.

Compared with grandma, grandma really knows more about performance, which dad himself admits.

My mother may be influenced by the people around her and is committed to getting along well with her mother-in-law, but grandma just despises my mother.

My grandmother is partial to two aunts. Although I am the only grandson (I will know why later, and I will talk about it later), my grandmother is more inclined to her granddaughter.

Later, my family moved to my grandmother's house (an extra house, no cohabitation).

About 90 years ago (I forgot the details), my aunt found a business opportunity, and the capital turnover was slow. She asked two aunts to borrow money, but people refused to borrow it.

Ask my mother. My mother borrowed it.

My aunt made money to give my mother dividends, and then she buried my aunt in the village.

My two aunts are very dissatisfied with my mother's borrowing money.

Father reminded mother that you can't do this. No borrowing, no discrimination. (My uncle's family is poor, my aunt comes to borrow it, but my mother doesn't. )

That's my mother's temper. She borrows what is good and doesn't borrow what is bad, regardless of the thickness of her relatives.

Besides, my two uncles, to be honest, neither of them is very disappointing. My big uncle idles around all day, and so does my little uncle.

My uncle and aunt divorced.

Let me add here that my aunt and uncle divorced a long time ago, so my mother lent her money, not for my uncle, but for money.

To my uncle's disgust, my mother did not lend him money, but lent it to an outsider (aunt).

My brother-in-law comes knocking on my door as soon as he gets drunk.

Father can't sleep, and his courage is still weak. Almost every time he gets drunk, my uncle will come to my house with a kitchen knife and chop down the door, which scares my father's heart.

On several occasions, my father almost had an accident driving a cart and couldn't sleep well. As soon as he closed his eyes, he was afraid that someone would cut the door with a kitchen knife. (This may also be a foreshadowing)

What happened later was that my aunt's business failed, and this account would not come back. Then, my uncle has been slashing wildly at the door to borrow money.

My mother doesn't care. Anyway, my mother knows that my brother won't hurt her. My father suffered. He can't sleep well every day and even dares not go home.

My father's relatives are also quite excessive.

I never thought about how to make money when I had no money, so I just wanted to borrow it from you. My dad is so soft-hearted, he always feels indebted to his brothers and sisters, and he is almost responsive.

As long as I can remember, either my uncle (not my own uncle) borrowed it or my aunt borrowed it. Uncle can forgive me. His family is really poor, so he borrowed it once or twice and paid it back.

My father would rather starve himself than lend them money.

I didn't understand when I was a child, but these relatives became more and more extravagant when I grew up. I really don't understand why my dad can unconditionally promise these vampires every time!

My mother quarreled with my father because of these stupid things, and my father's relatives (aunts, excluding uncles) also knew that my mother was not easy to mess with.

Every time my father's relatives (aunts) secretly look for my father, they rob him and ask for his money.

Then he flaunted us with a bunch of robber logic ... and said how he helped my family in those days. Actually, my aunt just washed my clothes. ...

The house where Mr. Zhang's father lives

My aunt's family is very rich, but she managed to borrow money from my father. My aunt just doesn't like my mother, for fear that she will lend all her money to her family.

My aunt's son had no money to buy a van himself, so he asked my father to chip in to buy him a car. (Actually, her family has money. )

My dad borrowed it secretly.

My sister-in-law saw my father lend money to her sister-in-law, and she felt that it would be a loss if she didn't lend it (later, after my father died, I heard from my neighbors and my sister-in-law said it herself)

Her son also wants my dad to buy a house, which worries my dad. ...

Finally, my mother gave me a machete and broke off my father's relationship! Even if my father lent money to his relatives, I would never borrow it again.

Leading to problems in parents' marriage. Although my father didn't quarrel, at that time, there was a crack in my parents' marriage.

Later, there was really no money at home, and my uncle and aunt still borrowed without a lower limit! I think my home is like an ATM.

My mother probably borrowed it for fear that my uncle would go crazy. My aunt lost money in business, and my mother borrowed it. I really don't understand now.

Later, when we moved, all the borrowers in our family became rich. Their children are in two or three suites in the county, and our family can't even afford half a suite, so we borrowed it.

My mother always thinks she is a saint, so she gives it every time. A distant relative of my mother borrowed money because the child wanted to buy a house and wanted to borrow 30 thousand, and later borrowed 20 thousand when she got married.

My father worked hard to earn money from pulling coal, but his mother lent it to my mother's relatives and friends when he could buy a house in town.

Father can't bear to eat or wear himself, so he feels inferior. I feel inferior, too.

On the other hand, people who borrow money from our family eat and wear well, and their children are confident and cheerful. ...

What worried my father was that my grandmother was ill and needed money badly.

My father asked my mother to take the money. My mother was impatient when she saw my father's eyes were red. My mother was afraid.

My father said the money at home.

My mom said it was all lent out. At this time, all the money lent by my father's family was recovered by my mother.

My father thought she saved it, and my mother lent it all to relatives.

My dad said, there is no money to cross the river.

My mom said no.

My dad said, then go out and get it for me.

At this time, my father sat on a stool, holding a kitchen knife in his hand, without saying a word, and his eyes were fierce.

My mother came back from a tour, followed by my uncle.

My great-uncle is a notorious bossy bastard. As soon as I entered the room, I gave my dad a big mouth: It cost you two dollars, but you still fight and kill, giving you skills, how dare you kill!

My father said that the old lady asked for money in the hospital. ...

My uncle said no, not a penny, and then left.

In the house, my mother shrank aside, and my father threw the kitchen knife into the yard and told my mother that if you don't come back, I want it, and if you don't come back, no one will live. ...

At this time, my grandmother was in the rescue, and my aunts pointed to my father to pay for it, not a penny. My aunt is very bad, just say that my mother has money to send flowers to her family, but not to her father's family. )

Later, I learned that when my mother borrowed money, she basically gave it to her family as much as she wanted. When she wants to return it, she never rushes. She even went to the bank to mortgage my uncle and lent them money according to her fingerprints ... these vampires.

My grandmother died, and my father put the bill on my mother.

From then on, my mother and I separated, and he lived alone in the house. When they met in the village, they didn't speak except to look at me.

One of my father's comrades-in-arms, his daughter-in-law got cancer money in Shandong, and people spoke for the first time.

Father asked his mother for tens of thousands of dollars, saying that he would go to Shandong to thank others, that is, the comrades who introduced transportation to his father that year.

My mother said, I haven't talked for years. Lend it to him No money!

My dad went to ask my uncle for money, and my uncle hit him in the face and came back. Father borrowed money from his aunt, but she didn't.

Then, my father went to Shandong alone, and my comrade-in-arms' daughter-in-law died.

My father didn't talk for a few days after he came back, and he squatted in the yard and smoked every day (my father seldom smoked before).

My uncle's children talked about a girlfriend and asked for a bride price of 80 thousand. Borrow money from my mother.

As long as I can remember, relatives have nothing to do but borrow money from our house.

My mother conveniently took out 50 thousand from the box and said that was all, and then my uncle took the money and left. At this time, the younger generation moved to the county, and the adults still lived in the village. )

My dad went up and was stopped by my uncle: put the money on the kang!

My uncle ignored my father and left.

My father asked my mother: The old lady is dying. You said she had no money. My comrade-in-arms wife died. You said she had no money. Where did you get your money?

My dad thought my mom would say that the money was later recovered.

But my mother said that people left and borrowed money, so why go back?

It is this sentence that pushed my father's emotions to the extreme, even pushed my father to a dead end of life, a dead end of dignity … this sentence of my mother.

My dad said that this is the way of our life, and I won't hurt you, but I want my money back and send it to my comrades in Shandong. If he doesn't give it, don't blame me!

Then my dad left.

When my father came back, his hands were covered with blood and handcuffed.

Later, I heard that my dad cut my uncle, in front of my uncle's in-laws.

There is a simple reason. Dad just wants to repay others. It is said that when his comrade-in-arms lover died, he really lacked surgery expenses. My father left without any money.

Dad came back and regretted it every day, hammering his head hard.

After my father went to prison, all my mother's relatives regarded my home as an enemy and stopped moving during the New Year.

I want that relative to pay back the money, but my mother won't let me.

My mother's distant cousin borrowed 10 thousand yuan from my father to see a doctor. My father has left and has not paid back the money yet.

My mother's money was left to my mother by my father when my parents divorced.

Selfishness is a good life these days My uncle's son is buying a BMW now ... I'm trying to save money for my children now. ...

My mother lent tens of thousands of dollars without an iou. She is almost the kind of person who won't come back, so I'm sad. My father bought it with his life.

Now, my little brother's son has the money to drive a Porsche and buy a high-end residential area in the city, but he can still borrow money from my mother for various reasons. I can't believe my mother is still impressed. ...

My mother and I don't talk anymore. Getting married didn't cost her a penny.

I said, you can lend money to whoever you like, and I won't spend any money with you. You can keep it for later.

In the years after my father's death, no one visited the grave except my uncle (not my own uncle).

I completely hacked my mother's family, and my father had no contact with them. In short, there is nothing between my relatives except money.

Grandma's old house has changed hands.

Due to the emotional narrator, director Zhao concluded:

1. Mr. Zhang's mother is a stepmother, but her stepmother is also very kind to him. Mr Zhang just doesn't like his stepmother's behavior. Grandma is not good to him.

Dad once told him that he hated his mother, but he couldn't do it, and he still expected others to support him.

The fact is cruel, sometimes the so-called relatives can only * * have money, which is not the same trouble. If you have money, you rob to hold you! If you have no money, when you beg in the street, you are afraid you can't get rid of it.

In my memory, among many relatives, my sister always helps my brother, and my mother helps her family ... without asking for anything in return. To tell the truth, I pay very little in return, I care very much, and I don't feel bad for my sister and mother.

This is a common phenomenon.

It is not uncommon to push a husband into the abyss for his family. Teacher Zhang once said that in this world, there are always more people who watch your jokes than those who care about you.

Sometimes, if you treat her as a relative, she won't treat you as a relative, just because you are useful. I quite agree with this sentence.

Father's comrades came to see his father's old house.

I summed up the revelation brought by the tragedy of Mr. Zhang's family:

1. If you borrow money and don't pay it back, keep borrowing. Please don't borrow any more.

If you have money and big assets, you can still borrow money, and you should borrow it carefully.

Please don't borrow money for emotional reasons.

It is not easy to find a daughter-in-law who gives endless help to the family, so as to avoid tragedy.

I think kinship should be like this:

Immediate family, just do your duty, not too lenient. Don't pity others, live your own life. Collateral relatives can get together during the New Year, especially without too many economic ties.

There is a lot of money, and the enlightenment of this story is that borrowing money is a disaster.

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