Is it right to tolerate each other in love?

I don't think this is right. Loving a person can contain everything about the other person, but there is a limit! Too much tolerance will only make you modest. Besides, tolerance is only for small mistakes. If it includes betraying each other or seriously hurting yourself, then you will become a humble poor man without self. Therefore, the tolerance of loving a person absolutely needs a limit, and the definition of this limit must be within an acceptable range.

When you want to lose your temper, learn to put yourself in others' shoes.

Everyone has his own temper, and in some places it will break out. This is more obvious in the process of love. The other person's words, behaviors and actions may make you want to lose your temper. This is normal psychology. However, in love, if you know nothing about tolerance and temper, you will not only feel uncomfortable, but also the other person will feel uncomfortable after you lose your temper. Love is mutual, so is injury, which can be avoided and should be avoided as much as possible. Both men and women should remember that this way of thinking is formed when you are in a mood to lose your temper and stop for a few seconds to think elsewhere. When you realize that your temper may lead to conflict between two people, you will naturally insist on losing your temper, which is actually tolerance.

When you want to quarrel, you should learn to think of each other.

This situation is different from quarreling, only one person is angry. At this point, people who are not angry should know how to put themselves in other's shoes and don't criticize the teaching assistants. Instead, we should guide, communicate and solve problems slowly, otherwise it may escalate into a quarrel. This is a kind of reverse tolerance. First of all, we mentioned that "when we want to lose our temper, we need to think somewhere else". The other party is very angry, which means it wasn't the teaching assistant. At this point, another person who is not angry needs more tolerance to turn contradictions into invisibility.

Facing the person you love, you have a tolerant heart, which others really admire and affirm. After all, we all know that we will strive for the greatest happiness for what we want. However, the happiness we win is not exchanged with humble status, but let the other party respond to us with the same value. So I think it's definitely wrong to love someone and tolerate everything. There must be a limit. The above is just my personal opinion.