When I was a teacher, I hung out with scum ...

The hot event in these two days is the child abuse incident in Ctrip Parent-child Park.

Filling mustard, beating children, changing diapers rudely, ignoring diarrhea six times an hour, and feeding sleeping pills to children. ..................................................................................................................................................

Ctrip said that this was supervised by the Shanghai Women's Federation, and the child abuser was a cleaner, and ... in short, there was no sincere apology, no timely and effective handling, no heartfelt distress, and even the responsibility could not be borne. Therefore, netizens want to hit people more!

Some people on the Internet have summarized the shocking incidents of child abuse in kindergartens in recent years: pushing the child's head to the floor, poking the child with a needle and urinating on the child. ................................................................................................................................

It's not strangers, psychopaths, thugs, criminals who do these things, but teachers!

I know that most teachers are not like this.

However, we have to admit that there are always such scum in the teaching staff. Due to the strong network and parents' strong awareness of protecting children, we know that many teachers abuse children now. However, despite this, every time things get too big, we can't see the severe punishment and the fate of the wicked. What we see most is irrelevant words such as "dismissal" and "investigation".

Scum or scum, mixed into the teaching staff, demonically abused children, and then, without any unbearable consequences, left the teaching staff, or a free scum.

The most terrible thing is that there are too many unexposed scum, in the ranks of teachers, dressed in wolf skin, wantonly ravaging the lamb.

Those teachers who are conscientious and dedicated to their children, and those who really pay for their children, have been discredited by this group of scum, lost their trust, and are treading on thin ice in front of their children, and even the teaching they should have has become trembling.

I am lucky that my children have good teachers and nurses who are full of love and patience in kindergarten.

I am very distressed. Children who have suffered in the dark and are still suffering from the slag teacher, so hard to forget, this cruel process?

Because, I know, I can't forget.

I met such a teacher when I was in the fifth grade.

In the fifth grade, the class changed to a math teacher. Female, about forty years old, with buck teeth, prominent eyes and pointed chin, looks daunting. I got good grades at that time, and she knew about it in advance. A few days after school started, she assigned me the task of copying the blackboard. Every day before math class, let me take her lesson preparation notebook and copy the key contents she will teach on the blackboard word for word.

Although her handwriting is scrawled, I can't fully understand it, and I dare not ask her. I was yelled back. "You don't know this yourself! If you don't recognize it, just stand there and always recognize it for me! " I dare not ask her again. Finally, copy the unknown words on the blackboard according to the gourd painting. Finally, one day, I made a mistake.

I will always remember that morning, after I copied the blackboard, she went into the classroom to prepare for class, glanced at the dense blackboard, suddenly paused for three seconds, then called my name coldly and called me to the blackboard. Then, caught off guard, in front of the whole class, she grabbed my ear, bared her teeth and twisted my ear 720 degrees with all her strength.

I still remember the feeling that her hands twisted my ears with all their strength, and she was beaten in front of the whole class to doubt the pain of life, with a ferocious expression, and the students below dared not come out. More than 20 years have passed, and I still remember it clearly.

I dare not cry, but I can't help crying.

I don't know how long she twisted me. Later, I was numb with pain. She finally let go of her hand and asked me viciously, "Do you know why I twisted you?" I was afraid to answer "I copied the wrong word on the blackboard", and she sharply asked "which word?" I couldn't answer, so a new round of twisting began again.

I don't remember how I got back to my seat that day, but I remember that from that day on, until now, I forbid anyone to touch my ear. Anyone who accidentally touches my ear will make me feel like an enemy and full of fear.

But I'm not the first or the last.

Even because of my good grades, I was the lightest one to be beaten.

All the students in our class were beaten by her.

Inadvertently answered a wrong question: dozens of masks began, pulled hard until the corners of the mouth bled.

Several boys didn't come home in time after school and played table tennis at school for a while. She rushed up to grab the ping-pong racket and drew her bow left and right. Everyone was slapped by a ping-pong bat for dozens of times and instantly swollen into a pig's head.

The weak and petite female math class representative didn't get the ideal score. She slapped her nearly a hundred times in front of the whole class.

Both men and women, regardless of their grades, have not been beaten half to death by her, nor have they attended this class.

Apart from beating people, not to mention other vicious punishments. I failed the exam, and I copied the paper 1000 times in one night, and my hand cramped when I couldn't finish it. I can't answer questions in class. I have been standing in class for a month.

Children go home and tell their parents that parents advise their children that "teachers are good to you, so we can let teachers learn from them". ...

After a lapse of 20 years, 10-year-old children are all adults. When they mentioned this in the WeChat group, they all remembered it clearly and even remembered the details clearly. Even the pain and humiliation seemed to happen yesterday.

Who says this kind of violent treatment has no effect on children?

Twenty years later, no, in another twenty years, we won't forget.

I thought I had forgotten such a memory, but I never forgot it. It was deeply imprinted on me.

I remember the despair, the fear, the ferocious face, and the madness that she tried her best to tear off my ear.

At that time, I already knew how to hate, and the seeds of hate were buried in my heart, which made me imagine how to kill her several times in my heart for many years.

Fortunately, I didn't grow up to be a bad boy or become dark and violent. In the process of growth and self-repair, I gradually realized that most teachers are good people.

But I still can't forgive the teacher. After many years, I still hate her and want to find her and have a good fight.

The classmate who was beaten worse smiled and said, If you meet her one day, we will beat her together. She can't beat us anymore.

Many years later, I heard that she suffered from hyperthyroidism all the year round and had a bad temper.

The person who said this to me means "she didn't mean it."

I can't help but be speechless: Can hyperthyroidism be a reason to treat students so violently? Hit the child as you want if you have a bad temper. Obviously, he is impatient with children, has no professional ethics, is dark and abnormal, and is clearly playing the role of "teacher" to cover up the essence of his scum.

Now that I think about it, it's a good thing that she teaches primary school. If she is a kindergarten teacher, a child of three to five years old, who is not as crazy as her, who can guarantee that the child will just "hate" her when she grows up?

When I was very young, I naively thought that teachers were the most mysterious and awesome profession in the world. A teacher, like a heavenly soldier sent by the Jade Emperor, is extremely powerful and upright, without selfishness or anger, and only has students in his eyes.

Even if I have met such a violent teacher, I only know inexplicable fear and disgust in my heart, but I still think this teacher is not a personality problem, but too harsh.

In the eyes of children, how can teachers have personality problems?

How can a person who can be a teacher have problems with his personality?

A person who can be a teacher should not be the most just, caring and considerate person in the world.

When I was a child, one of my biggest dreams was to be a teacher when I grew up, to teach students wholeheartedly, to be dignified, kind, patient and caring.

I believe that most children once had a small wish to be a teacher when they grow up.

However, when I grow up, I understand that teachers are just ordinary people, with good and bad personalities, emotions, selfish desires, preferences and fears ... But even so, I am willing to believe that the profession of teachers is different, and the requirements for morality and personality are far higher than those of other industries. I once believed that the education industry really set the threshold for recruiting teachers in strict accordance with such requirements. After all, they are facing the future of the country, the hope of every family, and the small and weak children. Even if it is only for the sake of children's "smallness", as a person with basic conscience and morality, one should not do anything excessive.

Obviously, I am naive.

After working for many years, I found that many schools only look at academic qualifications and honors, not personality and temperament. Like all other professions, "conscience and morality" have no threshold.

Just like all other industries, most people are kind and ordinary people with basic morality, but there must be some abnormal, violent and dark scum.

However, how can this be the same?

There are everyone in this world, and there are all kinds of birds when the Woods are big! That's right!

But such a "bird" must not exist in the teaching staff.

Every time I see news about child abuse and teachers beating students on the Internet, as a mother, I mostly can't bear to watch videos. My heart will be twisted when I see those children helpless and desperate. I often think, what's wrong with this society? What's wrong with these scum If you don't love children so much, why should you be a teacher? Born to be human, how can they do it?

There are more and more child abuse in this society, and I often feel confused and disappointed. Fortunately, there are many comments under every news. Every time, I can see that netizens who are teachers are extremely angry in the comments. On the one hand, I can't understand why scum is so scum. On the other hand, angry scum has ruined the reputation of most teachers and the trust that parents and society should have in teachers. At the same time: never associate with such scum!

I think of what my son's kindergarten teacher said: I just want to do my best to make my children have a happy childhood as much as possible.

I hope that scum can be completely eliminated from the teaching staff one day.

I hope all children can meet a good person who deserves the title of "teacher".