After marriage, why don't you want to give your wife your salary card? These three people told the truth.

For ordinary people, the salary card is a symbol of ability and a manifestation of proving their own value. Women especially like to use a logic to verify men's love for themselves, that is, "where is a man's heart, where is the money." So in the early days of marriage, no matter whether the husband is willing or passive, most wives can successfully control the man's economy, and since then the man has lived a "happy" life with pocket money.

But not all men are so obedient. Some men with strong self-esteem and male chauvinism will never compromise. In his view, the man is the head of the family, and the woman obviously wants to usurp power. There are also some clever ways for heroes not to suffer immediate losses, first to make their wives happy, and then to find various excuses to get their salary cards back.

So what makes men reluctant to give their salary cards to their wives for safekeeping? These three people told the truth.

Mr. Zhang: I am 39 years old. Couples who are married for the second time must keep it in mind. Some things will be known after experience.

In the first marriage, I foolishly gave my ex-wife, and even the bonus calculated separately, I took it home and gave it to her, thinking that this was enough to prove how much I loved her, but who knows that our marriage didn't go to the end? When my ex-wife divorced the year before last, I returned the salary card to me. When I saw that there were only tens of dollars left on it, I gave myself two big slaps, and then I ate instant noodles for a month.

After this, I can't trust women anymore. Even if I marry my present wife, I still insist on this view. Life is full of too much uncertainty. Although I love my present job very much, I will buy her gifts and give her living expenses, but I can't do it if I want to hand over all my property. Fortunately, she can understand me.

Mr. Liu: I am 28 years old. My friends have more social activities. It's too difficult to give my wife a salary card and ask her for money.

After marriage, my wife kept nagging in my ear all day, saying that everyone around me had handed in their salary cards. I'm too noisy, so I'm noisy. It wasn't long before I regretted it. My friends are well connected. We occasionally get together for a drink to protect our brothers' feelings. However, since the salary card was handed in, my wife only gave 500 yuan of pocket money every month, except for breakfast and gas for the car. There is no balance at all. Every time I invite a friend to dinner and ask her for money, I will say a laundry list of nice words and kneel down directly.

Because of this, I was laughed at by my friends as henpecked. I know it's not a good thing to spend money indiscriminately, but at least give me a gradual process. I can't get married without meeting all my friends. I can't accept the pain of having no money in my pocket. No one's pocket is cleaner than his face. So when my wife wasn't paying attention, I secretly took the salary card back and locked it in the unit. She was angry and there was nothing she could do about it.

Mr. Lin: 42 years old, my wife spends too much money and won't give it to her.

In fact, few men want to manage money. It's tiring to go to work every day, and I have to worry about small things like spending money. But I don't care. My wife is a typical prodigal bitch. As soon as the money arrived in her hand, she spent it immediately. She is not an ordinary tiger. She can spend more than 10 thousand on shopping in the supermarket. She was tricked into setting up a beauty salon VIP card at the entrance of the supermarket and bought a bunch of useless three-no products at home. She doesn't listen to any advice, and she simply lacks the ability to distinguish right from wrong.

I have to take charge of my family's economy personally. I give her 100 yuan to buy rice and vegetables every day. It's much better to control her expenses. Although I am occasionally fooled into buying things, at least it is not expensive. The wife herself said that her ears are too soft to be easily persuaded and not suitable for financial management.

Emotional conclusion: In fact, in marriage, a man paying a salary card is only a way to express his feelings, and he can't love his wife and family just because he says he doesn't pay a salary card. Not all men like to spend money lavishly. Sometimes a man advocates keeping his salary card just because he has a sense of pride when he sees the amount on the card increase, which can be the driving force for him to earn money. In the final analysis, as long as the man can disclose the balance in the card and the consumption is well documented, the wife can agree to his request and keep the salary card herself.

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