When a woman says "I'm going to bed", those who reply "good night" are stupid men. How should high EQ respond?

When I was not in love before, I always felt that I had to tell the other person whatever I was thinking in my heart. After falling in love, I discovered that after falling in love, girls seem to change. It’s like I’ve fallen in love with someone. Sometimes I think this way in my heart, and I might even say it that way on purpose.

I read this paragraph on the Internet:

A girl said to a boy: "You just don't understand me!"

The boy said: "How will I know if you don't tell me?"

The girl said: "You should understand if I don't tell you."

The boy said: "If you tell me, I won't know." That’s it!”

The girl said, “What’s the point of saying it?”

After hearing the girl’s reply, the boy collapsed holding his head.

So sometimes women are like this and may not tell the other person their true inner thoughts, especially when they are in love, they often say what they mean.

When a man is chatting with a woman, if you find that the woman's reply is: "I'm going to sleep."

At this time, if the man replies to the woman: "Good night".

At this time, the woman must be unhappy, because she must be thinking that even if I want to sleep, the man will still be thinking about me and doesn't want me to sleep.

Such words can prove that a man loves a woman. If a woman only hears the words "good night", she will feel sad and complain about the other person, but she will not show it.

So to be a woman with high emotional intelligence, you must learn to talk about the other person’s heart when the woman replies that you want to sleep. Sometimes, even if you can’t talk about the other person’s heart, Go ahead and don't make the other person angry.

01.

I want to talk for a while

When a man hears a woman say that she is going to sleep, at this time, the man can give the woman Say:

"I want to sleep for a while."

Just like when two people first fall in love, you find that if a woman wants to go home, at this time, A man will express his attachment to a woman, and will also hold a woman’s hand and say to her:

“Actually, I want to stay with you for a while longer.”

Maybe At the beginning, women don't have that much enthusiasm for men, so when men say this, they don't feel deeply.

But later on, the woman will find that the man is becoming more and more indifferent to her. At this time, the woman thinks of the words the man used to treat her, and also thinks of the man’s desire to be with her. At this time, the woman will be a little sad.

So when you are chatting with a woman, if the woman says that she is going to sleep, you can tell her that you want to talk for a while. At this time, if the woman refuses to chat with you, you actually think it is possible. What you said is not appropriate, but it is particularly appropriate in a woman's heart.

Just like sometimes when a woman proposes to break up with a man, she actually still wants the man to keep her. Unlike a man who really proposes to break up, he may think of breaking off with the other person.

So when women are in love, they often hope that the other party can retain them. Even if sometimes they don’t want to talk to the other party, at this time, the woman still wants the other party to retain her. This is very important for women. It is a kind of happiness to say.

02.

You need to have a good rest

If a man chats with a woman and the woman tells her that she is going to sleep, at this time , a man should tell a woman:

"You need to have a good rest."

When a man says this, a woman will feel that the other person cares about her, and some Sometimes it's like this. After chatting with the other person, if the other person says a few words coldly and then leaves, the woman will actually feel very uncomfortable at this time.

But if after chatting, a man still expresses his care and concern for the woman, he will feel that the man is not chatting with him because he is bored, and he will feel that the other party loves him. .

So even when two people end their chat, the other party will care about them.

Just like when some people are chatting with a woman, the two may have just started to fall in love. At this time, the man wants to say a lot to the woman, hold her back, and make her stay up for a long time. At this time, the woman will feel that the other person does not care about her body and will have some opinions about the other person.

03.

Let’s sleep together

If a woman expresses that she wants to sleep, and if a man says that he wants to sleep with a woman at this time, the woman will I feel a special warmth.

If two people are in different places, they actually miss each other very much. If they put down their mobile phones after chatting, they still sleep alone, which is also a kind of torture for themselves.

So when you finish chatting, you hear the other person say to you: "Let's sleep together."

At this time, even if the two people are not together, but in their hearts You will still feel special happiness in front of you, because you will feel that the other person's heart is in your body, so you will still feel the taste of love at this moment.

Sometimes if two people are not together often, the relationship may fade, but if you say some sweet words and some warm words, then the other person will still think that you are a good person. , and this relationship will remain fresh.

So sometimes you should say warm words to women. Only in this way will women feel very happy.

04.

I’ll call you tomorrow morning

After a man and a woman finish chatting, women actually care more about the man’s future performance, so If a man tells a woman that he will call you tomorrow morning, the woman will feel that the man is thinking of her all the time. Even if he goes to bed tonight, he will still chat with her tomorrow morning.

Some women are relatively clingy in relationships, so they want to chat with each other until midnight. Therefore, at this time, if a man says such a sentence, women will often look forward to the next day. In the morning, I look forward to talking to the other party the next morning.

So a man must know this little thought in a woman’s heart, and he must know to send a message to the other party the next morning. Don’t let the other party think that you will send a message when you need him. No. You may not be there when you need it, which is a bad situation.

Men may feel that if they love someone, they should speak out boldly, if they have opinions about someone, they should speak out boldly, and when they need something, they should speak out boldly.

But women are not like this. Women always want to make men guess, and also let men guess their innermost feelings. Otherwise, women may get angry.

So sometimes some men feel that a woman broke up with them, and they don’t even know why the other party broke up with them, and they are still confused.

On the surface, women seem to want to keep distance from men, but sometimes deep down they still want to stick to each other, so when a woman says she wants to end chatting with a man and go to bed At this time, men should also have higher emotional intelligence. Don't just say good night, which will make women angry.