At the wedding reception, how does the bride gracefully and calmly deal with a group of strange relatives?

For the bride-to-be, although there are all kinds of expectations for marriage, as the days draw near, there will always be an "unspeakable" worry.

That is: on the wedding day, in the face of so many relatives who don't know or don't know at all,

What to do?

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Eight sisters saw such a message in Bazaar community.

Ms Luo Meilan: On our wedding day, a very, very embarrassing thing happened.

My husband's grandmother died long ago, but there were too many relatives that day. Although I spent 120, I still made a big mistake and called a sweet "grandma ~" to an elderly relative. . .

Then, you can imagine how embarrassing the scene was. . .

This incident even made me afraid to look up at everyone in the later wedding process. I really regret it!

Therefore, I am here to advise my sisters that they must do their homework and make arrangements in advance, otherwise they will regret it!

So you see, it is a very embarrassing and common problem not to know how to deal with unfamiliar relatives when you get married.

Bamei's eyes have seen through too much, so I've helped you figure out a solution.

First, learn to ask your partner or family for help.

Before the wedding, you can tell your husband's family in advance to find out which relatives are coming on the wedding day. Prepare yourself in advance so that you won't panic that day.

At the same time, tell your husband that the relatives of the man have arrived that day, so be sure to say hello first. This can avoid getting stuck on the spot or dialing the wrong number because of unclear memory.

Similarly, you should greet all the relatives of the woman before her husband on that day to avoid her husband's possible embarrassment.

At the same time, we must communicate with our parents in advance and get to know our relatives. Otherwise, our relatives are unfamiliar, and the probability of embarrassing events will greatly increase.

Of course, if my husband is too busy that day and ignores these for the time being, don't be too messy. It is also possible to give my husband some "little moves" such as pinching his arm and reminding him quietly.

In short, as a bride, it is most important that you keep a relaxed and happy mood.

Secondly, learn some etiquette when toasting in advance.

Many brides will be nervous, mostly because they are afraid that their wedding day will be irregular and make jokes. Therefore, it will be very helpful to master some etiquette of entertaining relatives and toasting in advance to maintain elegant and generous manners that day.

1. Toast time: After eating the cold dishes and the first course at the main table, the couple can start toasting at the main table.

2. Toast order: When the couple toasts, they must start with the parents at the main table, then the relatives and their parents' colleagues and friends, and finally the peers, classmates and colleagues. Moreover, every table should propose a toast to the new, and every guest should make a toast one by one. It's not rude.

3. Toast etiquette: When toasting, you should fill the glass with your own hands and hold it for the guests, but don't force the guests to drink it all at once. After the guest puts down the glass, the new couple should say "thank you", fill the glass for the guest again, and then propose a toast to the next guest.

At the same time, when clinking glasses with them, the glasses should be lower than each other's glasses.

Thirdly, when relatives and friends are chewing food or drinking, don't propose a toast first, which will make them feel in a hurry.

Also, unfamiliar relatives, when toasting, say something to thank them for coming to your wedding, and show your elegant and generous side.

Finally, when toasting, the glass must be held firmly on your chest at all times. Don't dangle the empty glass in one hand, which will disrespect your loved ones.

Once again, adjust your mentality and believe that your loved ones come for blessings.

Finally, Bamei wants to tell everyone: Can you be an elegant and calm bride? Mentality really plays a very important role.

Because many brides will feel that their relatives are only coming because of the constraints of secular etiquette, they will have a psychological instinctive alienation.

And this kind of emotion will obviously affect the bride's behavior, making you obviously unnatural and even impatient.

In this regard, Bamei suggests that you look at this problem from another angle.

Although relatives don't know themselves as well as friends, they will be happy to see themselves married.

But as an elder, watching the younger generation get married will definitely have heartfelt joy.

This joy is true, but because their ideas are traditional, the way they express themselves may not be liked by newcomers.

But there is no denying that this feeling is sincere.

Therefore, trying to understand their starting point will help to eliminate your psychological burden and make you more calm when facing them.

Tips:

At the wedding, the bride can't keep fiddling with her hair or things.

Because these little moves will make friends and relatives think that you don't like weddings and appear impatient on your wedding video, remember!

Well, that's basically it. Don't you think it's hard not to?

In fact, can you handle the whole wedding gracefully and calmly? You really just need to keep a relaxed and happy mood!

So baby, don't worry, Bamei believes you! Let's go Oh!

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