Why do rural people always like to talk and are afraid of jokes? Afraid of others gossiping? Why do they care what others say?

This is the life of China people. Rural people are not like this, it is a human habit. Young people may be better, but getting married and having children will become such a habit with age. In fact, people live for themselves, so why care about other people's feelings? If you have money, others can't take it away. If you have no money, others can't give it to you. It has nothing to do with others, but why take care of others first? Make yourself so tired and unhappy. If a person has to consider the feelings of others when doing things, he will never be self-centered and live in other people's thoughts forever. I can say that, although he is a good man, he is certainly a little successful and unhappy.