Ode to Joy: Two Rich Second Generation's Choice of Spouses: Tang Priest or Iron Lady?

In the original Ode to Joy, there are two rich second generations.

One is Qu Xiaoyu and the other is Bao Yifan. Qu family has a great cause, and Bao family is the overlord of the family business. Children who grew up in such a family, whether Qu Xiaoyu or Bao Yifan, are more "transparent" than ordinary people. Shopping malls are ups and downs, and I have never seen a liar.

Xiao Qu-Kong has watched too many TV dramas about catching three, and she can see through a girl like Fan at a glance. And Bao Yifan was used to seeing that kind of woman running in the street since childhood, so when he first saw Fan, he didn't think she was beautiful at all, because there were too many such women around him.

Throughout Ode to Joy, no rich second generation is willing to marry Fan, even if she is beautiful, even if she is capable, even if she is considerate. But even if she is ten years younger, the rich second generation won't like her. Some women think they are good-looking, so they have the opportunity to hold on to wealth. But in reality, the real rich second generation never only looks at beautiful women or considers love. Because of their superior conditions, most of them are greedy: they want beauty, talent and family background. They don't choose among them, they all want it. Because they have more choices.

Qu Xiaoyu, choose? Zhao Qiping, the Tang Priest, was chosen. Zhao Qiping once said such a confident sentence:

The talent like me, in whose house, is unanimously recognized, and there is no suspense at all. Zhao Qiping, high flyers of scholarly family. Such a title, not to mention the woman, is inevitably looked up to by her parents. What's more, Zhao Qiping, who is extremely good-looking, turns all beings upside down.

He is extremely good-looking, but this is only the premise that Qu Xiaoyu likes him. But if Zhao Qiping had only one face, then Qu Xiaoyu wouldn't be so fascinated by him. Zhao Qiping not only has a good family background, outstanding talent and looks, but also has a good personality and an interesting soul. He has the lofty spirit of a scholar, but he also has the sophistication to sink into fireworks.

Zhao Qiping, the Tang Priest, can see his face and eat his flesh.

In the original work, the key to Qu Xiaoyu's mate selection is good character. Zhao Qiping is very suitable. Xiao Qu loves Zhao Qiping's lofty share more. Zhao Qiping won't be nice to her just because she is rich. He will only choose to leave because she is rich and feels that her self-esteem is damaged. Such Zhao Qiping is melodramatic, but it happened that Qu Xiaoyu, a rich second generation, just likes his melodramatic.

Rich second generation have money, but what they fear most is that others covet their money. If Zhao Qiping doesn't have that lofty share, if Zhao Qiping falls in love with Qu Xiaoyu's money, then his heart will be greatly discounted in Qu Xiaoyu's heart. Qu Xiaoyu in the original once despised her "vulgar" psychology. It happened that her psychology was deeply rooted.

Xiao Qu wants Zhao Qiping's face, Zhao Qiping's talent, Zhao Qiping's character, and Zhao Qiping's lofty. She hopes Zhao Qiping will not covet her money and just say a few good words to her. Very greedy. But it's not just Qu Xiaoyu who has this greed.

Bao Yifan? I chose Andy the Iron Lady. Bao Yifan and Andy got married and proudly said:

I got married yesterday, married the extremely smart woman in my ideal, and will have my extremely smart child soon. Bao Yifan is never going to marry a "weak woman". He has always wanted to marry an iron lady like Andy, with outstanding ability. Bao Yifan fell in love with Andy at first sight.

Andy has extraordinary beauty, and her beauty is the highlight of the crowd. Besides, she is not only beautiful. Andy, who combines beauty and talent, is also rich.

Like Qu Xiaoyu, Bao Yifan doesn't like people who covet their own money. If Andy is interested in his money, he will only stay away from Andy. Just like Bao Yifan's attitude towards Mei Sheng, he can see through it at a glance and stay away from it.

Most of the strong people think of strong alliances, especially in the wealth circle.

Bao Yifan's family is prominent and excellent. He has stood at that height, and his eyes are above everything else. He can only look at the women standing on the top of the mountain with dignity and prestige.

Andy, on the other hand, is someone who can stand side by side with Lao Tan. In Bao Yifan's mind, only a woman like Andy is qualified to stand side by side with him. It can be seen that Bao Yi, who is more greedy than Qu Xiaoyu, not only needs to like this woman, but also needs this woman to be beautiful and excellent, which can help her career.

The most "fishing for women?" In the eyes of the rich second generation, they are all jokes. Xibao in Yi Shu's Xibao is one of the biggest women.

She was afraid of poverty and never wanted to be poor again, so she coveted the wealth of her good friend's father with her beauty and talent. Just like her mother taught her: if someone throws money at you, kneel down and pick it up one by one, it doesn't matter. It's about your food and clothing, and a little self-esteem is nothing. Fan in the original work is painfully entangled with those rich people. She is willing to give up her dignity because of her beauty, but even if she gives up everything, she is still a pastime in the eyes of those rich people.

Xibao's "good" ending probably exists only in novels. In reality, most girls will eventually fall in love with Mei Sheng. When she dresses up beautifully, she is the dish on the rich man's plate. And when she is down and out for help, those people will disappear completely.

Those fishermen always think that pies will fall from the sky. But in fact, when she thinks she is smart and can take advantage of each other, others will not be fools. Especially those rich second generation. They are not fools, their money is hard-won, and even they love money more. Just when Qu Xiaoyu could work to earn money, she canceled her appointment with Zhao Qiping. Those "fishing girls" went to the rich second generation's money, but they actually looked down on them. They regard hooking up with women as a pastime, but it's ridiculous to think they have a chance.

The concept of mate selection, never? Everything is for reality. In the original "Ode to Joy", there is a sharp contrast about marriage: Andy doesn't want to get married, but Bao Yifan is in a hurry and tries his best to marry Andy.

Qiu Yingying gave up his dignity and friends, even made his parents beg at home, and wanted to marry Qin Ying. This contrast makes Andy and Fan feel infinitely gratified. Even a girl snatcher like Fan Meisheng has to admit the reality that no matter how romantic love is, it is still very secular in front of marriage. Economic conditions play a huge role in it and determine the right to speak. In fact, our concept of mate selection has always been related to reality. Those rich second generation, because of their "superior" conditions, have more choices, so when choosing a spouse, they will be more realistic and pay more attention to "real" things.

Bao Yifan is eager to marry Andy only because Andy has other choices besides him. And Xiao Qu Que is in Zhao Qiping's place, so it's comfortable, but she also has more choices. It is cruel, but it is also realistic.

So be realistic in reality, and don't "fish men and women". Before you set up your own concept of mate selection, look at yourself and the reality you are in. Marriage, true happiness, is never those who climb high, but those who are "realistic". Because they have grasped and have the ability to grasp the recent happiness.