What kind of understatement can hurt you into a dog

? "Why are you so ugly?" This sentence can be said to be very hurtful Perhaps many people will inadvertently use this sentence to tease you in life, but it is undoubtedly fatal to those who really feel inferior and care about their own face value. We should still pay attention to our words and deeds. It is very likely that your words will be a wound in others' hearts.

? I am a person who is not confident about my appearance. I don't mean how ugly I am, but I value my face value and don't like my appearance type, so every time my friend inadvertently wants to laugh at you and say that you are not too ugly, I will be unhappy. After my friend refused this time, I will deliberately look in the mirror to see what I look like. It seems that the more I look, the more I feel as ugly as my friend said, and immediately the whole person is as sad as a dog. ?

? I have a friend who has the same experience as me, but she is a very beautiful girl with several moles on her face. Once in the dormitory, she was suddenly asked by her roommate why you have so many moles on your face. It's not very nice. She felt particularly uncomfortable after listening to it. She began to get angry with herself for being so ugly and told me that she wanted to go to Dot mole. Fortunately, after I persuaded her, she became rational and faced her shortcomings again.

In fact, you really don't need to care too much about face value. Saying you don't look good is just teasing you. If you don't do great harm to others' words and deeds, choose tolerance and understanding. After all, the other party didn't mean it, but don't pay too much attention to those words that really hurt us. Let go, even if we have been sad and angry about it, we will only be angry with ourselves in the end. Only by letting go can we really let go and be more calm.