What is the biggest disadvantage?

A person's misfortune begins with envy of others. If you always try to be an imaginary person, the problem comes. People are tired because they cannot be themselves more and more. You know, God gave you this life for a reason. Living your own life is the only shortcut to happiness.

No matter how sincere you are, it is a lie to meet someone who doubts you; No matter how simple you are, when you meet complicated people, you are all calculating; No matter how naive you are, it is a joke to meet a real person; No matter how professional a person is, it is a blank when he meets someone who doesn't understand. So, don't care too much about what others say about you. All you need is to do your best.

Don't pay attention to the slander and slander of others. You know, people who are better than you don't care about you at all and won't take you to heart. Only people who are weaker than you will vilify you, belittle you and vilify you. Sometimes you are slandered and belittled, which shows that you are better than those people. Be content!

The most hypocritical thing about people is that they always have to live with your least favorite face. Even if you are alive, you can find that, finally, after you are exhausted, you have to be brave enough to take off that mask and taste the happiness on earth. Happiness with a mask is the happiness of others, and happiness without a mask is your own happiness. How much youth does it take to get the true meaning of life?

If you are a kite, you will involuntarily drift with the wind; If you are duckweed, you can only go with the flow; If you are a tree, the direction of the tree head can only be determined by the wind and sunshine. But you are a person, judging you, it is a breeze at most, and it should be a wind that leaves no trace. Laozi said: "The sage gives one to the world." You and I are not saints, but we might as well keep the truth in our hearts and let the north wind blow, and I will never waver.

Don't live in the evaluation of others, otherwise, it is a sign of unconfidence. In a word, you are in charge of your world, regardless of his white lips and red teeth. Besides, if we think about how we evaluate others at the same time, it is not difficult to solve the knot in our hearts.

Maybe you still care about other people's eyes and think about how to please others. In fact, we don't have to care about other people's eyes when we are alive, and we don't have to be recognized by others. As long as we have a clear conscience, our life can be more relaxed, and there is no need to bear the eyes of others and increase our pressure.

We never have to rely on other people's expectations to live our lives. Life has always been a beautiful existence, and only we can create its unique splendor.

As Bi Shumin said: I don't believe in fate, I only believe in my own hands. Because it doesn't belong to any unknown power, it only belongs to my heart. I can control it and do whatever I want.