How to coax a girl to calm down Zhihu

1. Resolve conflicts sooner rather than later, and explain sincerely as soon as possible.

It is inevitable for two people to have conflicts together, but once conflicts arise, they should be resolved as soon as possible, otherwise it will not only hurt the body but also hurt the emotions. Even if a woman is angry, as long as you explain sincerely and confess why you made her angry, she may seem unwilling to accept it when you explain it, but in fact she is listening attentively. As long as you are truthful Explain sincerely and she will forgive you quickly. For a woman, what she actually needs more is your sincere attitude of taking the initiative to explain.

2. Use your sense of humor to make her happy and calm her down.

Humor can resolve embarrassment and conflicts. After a conflict occurs, a woman will always raise all her sharp edges and assume a "don't talk to me" attitude, but her heart really needs you to take the initiative to step down for her. Some conflicts can be solved naturally with a smile that makes you laugh, and this is when your sense of humor is needed. While making her laugh, it also calmed her down, and invisibly gave him a step up.

3. Take her out for a delicious meal. Appetite can cure sadness.

Delicious food can bring people pleasure and can also heal people's pain. This is definitely a great trick for foodie girlfriends. If she is having a fight with you and you two are having a cold war but don’t know how to calm it down, why not try to let delicious food heal the awkward atmosphere between you? Take her out for a delicious meal. Appetite is the best cure for sadness. After eating and drinking enough, people's physiological functions will be restored and their emotions will gradually ease.

4. Women naturally like shopping. Take her shopping.

Some women are born shopaholics. For something, it is always up to her whether she likes it or not, regardless of whether it is practical or not. Therefore, taking her out to buy something is definitely a good way to quickly relieve a woman's anger. When she buys something she likes, her mood can easily change from bad to good. Take advantage of her being in a good mood and take the initiative to admit her mistake. Are you still afraid that a small conflict will hinder your relationship? Spend some money and let the relationship between you slowly warm up, which is very convenient.

5. If a woman is unreasonable, give her a warm kiss.

When a woman is angry, she cannot accept any explanation or reason. Therefore, instead of arguing with her, it is better to give her a warm hug. Wait until she calms down before explaining slowly. You can even let her hit you a few times and then pretend to be in pain. When she sees you like this and feels sorry for you, she will easily lose her temper. A man's occasional tender act of coquettishness will make a woman irresistible. Naturally, when she receives the message that you love her, she will soon be able to get over it and forgive you.

6. Stop with silence and let her be alone. Be prepared for tenderness.

When she is sulking quietly, don't say too much. Instead, take action and prepare a dinner for her, or pour her a glass of honey water. Women often get angry just because they feel that you don't love her and value her enough. The love she hopes to get from you is not met, or the love she gives does not get the response it deserves. Therefore, using your actions to convey your love to her is actually more effective than any verbal comfort.

7. Whatever she cares about, change it to make her feel at ease.

A woman needs to constantly verify with you whether you still love her in order to gain a sense of security. Therefore, when a woman keeps complaining about your small shortcomings, it is definitely not that she is looking for trouble, but that she hopes you can become better or love her more. If you want her not to be angry, then change whatever she cares about. After you make her feel at ease, she will feel safe enough with you and the love she needs in her heart will be satisfied, she will no longer be unreasonable. You are angry.