Kou Zhenhai & Li Ting: Earnestness is the key to luck.

In the face of couples with a 20-year age difference, I thought age would be a taboo topic for them. But as Li Ting said: This is an obvious fact. Neither of them refused the topic.

Frank people are happy. In their view, as long as they have true love, they can overcome all trivial and even difficulties.

To this day, they have never said' I love you' directly. This seems to lack a little romance and enthusiasm. But when it comes to children, I can't help but get excited.

The two met while filming the TV series "Flowers Fall" in 2003. For the original intention of falling in love, the two men maintained an amazing tacit understanding: his (her) earnest strength touched me the most.

Kou Zhenhai: I look quite young in my life. I look like I am in my twenties.

Li Ting: Hey, that's disgusting. I always say that he is not 55, but 54.

The first encounter between them originated from a scene in the car. Li Ting said, I just found out that I want to play a couple with someone 20 years older than me. I don't think it's possible. He was wearing a suit that day. Hey hey hey? I don't like men in suits. I think, isn't this the old man who was caught in the rain?

But soon, Kou Zhenhai's humor and happiness made Li Ting forget the age gap. Kou Zhenhai is famous for his serious acting among actors, and he put words into the play from beginning to end. On one occasion, it was a shot of Li Ting. He wrote lyrics for her, hitchhiked, and accidentally fell into the sofa. The lighting engineer has covered his face, and he is still there. Li Ting admitted that he admired him at that time and thought he was really a serious person.

"Just entered the crew that day, we hit a car into the crew, I sat in the location, Li Tingze sat in the back seat. Along the way, I talked with her very speculatively, and she also hit her head on the car glass several times because she was talking to me by the neck. " Kou Zhenhai said that after filming the drinking scene, Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting said half jokingly: We did it! Unexpectedly, the generous Li Ting swallowed the whole glass of wine as soon as she lifted her neck. As a result, she fainted before the play was over and made a lot of jokes.

It is this real strength that deeply touched Kou Zhenhai.

Although Kou Zhenhai "doesn't want to touch emotional things", the most undisguised thing in this world, besides coughing, is love.

Li Ting: Even the other cast members can see it. They say Mr. Kou likes you. I said I didn't see it.

Kou Zhenhai: That's just an appreciation.

Li Ting: Well, Hou Tianlai from the cast could see that he liked me.

Kou Zhenhai: What I liked at that time was also the need of a role. Because we should cultivate a relationship between the characters in the play, we should communicate more and take care of more in our lives.

Li Ting: At that time, he always invited me to dinner. At eight or nine o'clock in the evening, he asked me to eat.

Kou Zhenhai: I invite everyone to dinner, which is very common in film and television circles. Before shooting, the more familiar, the better. No matter who it is, try to invite you to dinner.

Li Ting: Anyway, he always invites me to dinner alone at night.

Kou Zhenhai:?

Li Ting: Why does it have to be like this? Why do you have to explain that I'm chasing you? Will I like you if you don't chase me? You are so old! Hey hey hey?

Kou Zhenhai: Ha ha ha?

To this day, they have never said "I love you" directly. For Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting, those three words had better be deeply buried in their hearts, take root and grow sturdily.

Perhaps this shortcoming is poetic and romantic, but it has a sincere and strong simplicity. Love should not be a heavy burden in life. True love, there will be a tacit understanding and induction between each other, and there is no need to express it in too many words. But when it comes to children, I can't help but get excited. They acted more like children when discussing this topic.

One day, Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting had nothing to do, and suddenly fell into a longing for the future. The dialogue is as follows:

What will it be like if we have children in the future? What's your name?

How about "Kou Jiabao"?

The two of them happily went to buy two sets of children's clothes, and solemnly wrote on the clothes: Jiabao, we really want you to come into this world. I hope you are a sensible child, and we will take care of you and train you? And carefully signed the names of two people at the back.

Kou Zhenhai: Born in 1954. National first-class actors have created many screen images. It was once a "Zhang Xueliang professional household". In 2000, he played the role of Lu Zhenhua in "Heavy Rain" and later became a "professional master". His main works are "Golden Powder Family", "Clouds in Beijing" and "Manchuria Tiger Action".

Li Ting: Born in 1975. Famous artist. His main works are Kucaihua, Flowers Falling and Falling, legend of bruce lee, Heroes Without Regret, Station 5 1, etc.

Li Ting: At that time, I thought I was old enough to get married. Anyway, our children should not be ugly when they are born. Let's get married, haha.

Kou Zhenhai: Let me add that what she wants to say is that Kou Zhenhai has a good race.

Li Ting: Hehe, and he can cook. Marry an unmarried person, just marry him.

Kou Zhenhai: She loses her temper, complains and squeezes people. It's a common occurrence, just like breathing. I know her. It's over.

Although they have been in love for several years, Kou Zhenhai never mentioned this marriage. He felt that at his age, he had no right to ask Li Ting to get married. Getting married was Li Ting's idea.

The reason for wanting to marry him, according to Li Ting's informal answer, is: "I want a child. If you marry him, the child will definitely not be ugly. " In fact, according to her understanding, pure love is the purest. It should be just a simple flower, and disorderly decoration will only make people unrecognizable.

While looking forward to it, Kou Zhenhai urged her against her will: You should find a peer who is more suitable for you in career and physical conditions. Li Ting was introduced to several people, including entrepreneurs, filmmakers and other successful people. But she still stubbornly hopes to be with Kou Zhenhai, accompany him to his old age and take good care of him.

In the face of such a lover, Kou Zhenhai is naturally too happy to refuse. Kou Zhenhai used several "hens" to describe Li Ting: "She is kind, polite, generous and honest. She always pays for the parties with relatives and friends at ordinary times, and she is very grateful. She never forgets to visit those who have helped her during the holidays. After having a son, things at home have increased. Because I am usually busy going out to film, she dedicated herself to this family and sacrificed many good opportunities for filming. "

Like all "laity", in order to have a "golden pig baby", I want to have a baby before I get married. On August 5, 2007, they officially got married, and "Baby Pig" was born in June 5438 +2008 10. So, there is the following tongue twister:

Mr. Kou, is this your grandson?

Kou Zhenhai said, yes, this is my grandson's father!

Mr. Kou, are you this child's? Grandpa?

Guan Zhenhai said, no, I'm his son's grandfather, hehe. ...

The reason for wanting to marry him, according to Li Ting's informal answer, is:' I want a child. If you marry him, the child will certainly not be ugly. "In her view, pure love is the purest.