Eight manifestations of men's jealousy

Jealousy is not a woman's monopoly. As long as you care about each other, like each other and love each other enough, most boys will be jealous. But some boys, although jealous as hell, eat Shanxi old vinegar, but on the surface, they have to pretend to be smart, have a very rational appearance, and even show a careless appearance in front of girls. In order to protect the face of big men, they don't want to be laughed at by girls when they find out, and they don't want to inadvertently expose their jealousy.

Usually boys are jealous in the following eight aspects:

1, showing a strong possessiveness. If you talk to your boyfriend about another man who is better than him, usually the performance of men will vary from person to person. Most men will warn their girlfriends: "Don't talk to him." And it will interfere with your occasional contact with a man more and more strongly, whether at work or in daily life. You said he was jealous, and he immediately turned his back on you.

Comments: Jealousy is mostly caused by insecurity and self-distrust, especially when there is a stronger competitor in front of you. For the sake of self-protection, in his opinion, the easiest way is to separate the competitors from the women he likes. Therefore, gentle men sometimes show unreasonable rude behavior.

2. Always pretend to be irrelevant. Sometimes girls will try their best to test whether boys like themselves or not, so they deliberately praise other boys in front of them. Usually, a boy will warn you as a bystander: "He has ulterior motives", and casually talk about his shortcomings and privacy. Perhaps, you didn't see any jealousy surging from his facial expression at all, or even you just saw a nonchalant expression.

Comments: Men sometimes just want to save face and suffer, often because they want to kill each other's men, but they have to pretend to be indifferent in front of women. In fact, women can observe whether a man is jealous, just to see if his relaxed expression is fake. After all, the average boy will not have the acting talent of an excellent actor.

4, suddenly acting particularly accommodating. Usually, your boyfriend's attitude towards you is not very positive, but when you brag about a boy's advantages in front of him, he may seem calm or even dismissive, and sometimes he will say, "Since he is better than me, why don't you go to him?" But you can gradually feel that he is trying to change himself, especially when you praise the advantages that other boys can inadvertently find in him.

Comments: Most men will refuse to admit that they are jealous because of their face. Even if they are eating thick vinegar, they still have to pretend that they don't care, or even stop talking to you, and they are particularly indifferent. In fact, this just reveals that you already exist in his heart, but he doesn't want you to gain insight into his psychology.

5. Deliberately talking and laughing in front of you. Some men will smile, pretend to be relaxed in front of the woman they love, be particularly talkative in front of you, and love to laugh. But on the topic of discussion, he will try to avoid people and things that are easy to stimulate him, or sensitive topics that can make him jealous. However, no matter how carefully he pretends to be flawless, traces of jealousy will still show up inadvertently.

Comments: Laughter in jealousy obviously has the color of forcing a smile, which is also one of the methods that most men who think they are smart often use to hide their inner anxiety. They use laughter to force themselves to forget their inner unhappiness, hoping to achieve the purpose of diverting each other's attention.

6. The speech is bitter. Some men usually feel uncomfortable when they see their favorite girls or their lovers getting close to other men, and they will subconsciously have strong xenophobia and strong desire for possession. Most of them will express their jealousy in different languages. Common is particularly sarcastic, which shows that its language is rich.

Comments: Smart men will try to cover up their gaffes after being jealous, or take other ways to understand a woman's heart more thoroughly and understand her loyalty to love. However, it is really difficult to control your emotions when you are jealous. Talking too much or making the other person uncomfortable is actually telling the other person your strong dissatisfaction.

7. Avoid you consciously. The deeper you love, the stronger your jealousy. The less confident a man is, the stronger his desire to control his girlfriend. However, once he feels that his girlfriend is no longer under his control, he will play hide-and-seek with his girlfriend and try to avoid being alone with you. In the words of jealous men, this can avoid embarrassment and even change jobs.

Comments: In real life, a man who is usually introverted and full of jealousy will be very concerned about your attitude towards him. He will try his best to imprison a woman's heart, and he has the psychological trouble of treating her as his private property. Therefore, once a man's language is sharp and mean, it is usually a manifestation of jealousy, and crimes caused by jealousy or passion often come from it.

8. Extreme physical conflict behavior. There are obvious differences between men's jealousy and women's jealousy. Men's jealousy reaction is usually stronger than women's and they are more likely to go to extremes. If they have a little doubt, they will fight and even be more likely to attack, especially for other men who are too close to their sexual partners, they will show strong revenge, which often leads to irrational physical attacks.

Comments: The strong externalization of male "jealousy" psychology is mostly the attack of bad passion. They often lose their minds and complicate things that could have been properly handled. The psychological root of men's "jealousy" is a strong desire for possession (that is, monopoly) and control.

"Jealousy" is a manifestation of selfishness. Since ancient times, women are jealous, and men are jealous. Therefore, don't think that men will be open-minded and have deep feelings. In fact, men have learned to be jealous for a long time, but they are generally good-looking, and jealousy cannot be easily shown. But through careful observation, you can still find clues, such as saying angry words from time to time, or suddenly ignoring you, or pretending to be indifferent, but his acting skills are usually very poor, which can be seen by anyone with a discerning eye at a glance.