Widowed Parenting: How to Rediscover Your Father’s Existence

The so-called widowed parenting refers to the obvious lack of one parent in family education. This phenomenon is common in today's society. In many families, the father works outside to make a living, while the mother stays at home to take care of the children. This is the situation in our family, so what should a widowed mother do?

I think, first of all, as a mother, you should not over-extend this point of view, just treat it as a cold joke and laugh it off, even though only you know the hard work and grievances of raising a child. Otherwise, I will feel more and more that my fate is not good, I will blame everyone, and I will be surrounded by negative emotions. It's bad for the mother.

Secondly, when educating your children, don’t overemphasize that the other person is not around, and don’t give your children the feeling that they lack fatherly or motherly love. This is also detrimental to children.

Our baby’s father goes home at most once a month and stays for two or three days. When she was young, the doll had little influence on her father. Every time her father held her, she would cry endlessly. Later, when I knew that I recognized the person, I remembered my father. I would video chat or make phone calls every day when I had time, so that the children could keep in touch with their father. Now, the little guy is less than two years old. Sometimes he takes my cell phone and says he wants to call dad. He was holding a toy phone and pretending to be on the phone with his father. If my father comes back, I can't wait to show off to him. Every time I leave, I tell my children that daddy has gone to work.

What a mother can do is to make herself stronger, stronger and braver. Let the child establish a good parent-child relationship with his father. When the father returns to the family, create more opportunities for the father and the child to be alone, so that the child understands that both father and mother love her. Complaining blindly, or even instigating the relationship between the child and the father, is not good for the growth of the family. This is especially worthy of the mother's attention.

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