Cancel the sky-high bride price, but rural bachelors are unwilling to take this "shortcut" to get married, for fear that others will look down on them?

This shortcut is to go to the woman's house as a door-to-door son-in-law There are many bachelors in the countryside now. Because of family reasons, they have no money to marry, but they don't want to take this shortcut for fear of being laughed at. In fact, it's not just a joke, because if you go to the woman's house as a door-to-door son-in-law, it means that you don't have to prepare anything, that is, food and clothing are hers. As the saying goes, using other people's things will definitely make you feel wronged, so no one wants to do it. After all, although a man can't afford a wife, he still needs dignity.

In other words, if you really become a door-to-door son-in-law, then all the right to speak in their family is not your call, but the woman's call. In other words, although you didn't pay a sky-high bride price, you gave all your right to speak and freedom to the woman, so that you won't be too timid for a lifetime. And my parents, parents raise their sons to prevent old age, and don't want their sons to go to other people's homes at all, so they will be laughed at and looked down upon by others in the countryside. And if they do, the children in the future will take the woman's surname, so there will be no one in their family to carry on the family line, which is a great shame in ancient times.

Moreover, just as people don't recruit a son-in-law, they will make such a decision unless their daughter is sick or disabled. Not only that, these wealthy families are also qualified when choosing a son-in-law. There's a good chance that you'll just be a coolie after that. It is precisely because of various reasons that many rural bachelors would rather be bachelors than take this shortcut.

I think rural bachelors should visit cities and improve their skills instead of staying in the countryside all the time. If you have the ability, you may not need such colorful gifts. After all, only capable people can create wealth, and not all families need sky-high bride price.