Zhang Yining's story: Marrying a 20-year-old husband who is older than himself is not optimistic, but now it is blessed by God-

Table tennis is the national sport of China, and the national players from generation to generation have gone wave after wave, creating a great reputation in the international table tennis arena.

A string of familiar names all shine with the aura of champion. Of course, Zhang Yining, known as the "cold-faced killer" and the "big devil", is absolutely indispensable here.

Speaking of Zhang Yining's winning record, it can be written into a book. She won 19 world champion medals alone. This is a simple girl who has devoted all her thoughts to table tennis. However, if you gain, you will lose. Her excellent performance in playing ball left her lacking in other aspects.

Because almost everything is handled by a special person during the play, it can be said that it is a life of making a living.

Results After retiring, Zhang Yining found that his self-care ability was very poor, especially when he went to the United States to study soon after his marriage, and her husband had to stay at home because of his work.

Zhang Yining, who has no one to take care of, is on her own.

She overcame all difficulties with tenacious perseverance, exercised her life and learning ability from scratch, and grew up in the separation from her husband, like an eagle flying freely in the United States.

Zhang Yining 198 1 was born in Beijing. She is a standard post-80s generation. However, this girl has won four Olympic champions, which makes her feel like a woman. In the first decade of 2 1 century, she occupied an unparalleled position in China table tennis, and was called the first sister of China women table tennis.

But no matter how tough a girl is, when love comes, she will also show a gentle side. Her head coach Li once commented on Zhang Yining's character: "She is very simple. She is good to whoever she is good to, and she will not be fake or artificial. "

Perhaps it is this simplicity that has created her image as the "big devil" in table tennis. At that time, she just wanted to play every cricket game well, and she would try her best to play it. Of course, those who didn't lead an honest life and even stood aside couldn't cope.

In this regard, her mother once used a derogatory term "short-sightedness" to visualize the state of her baby daughter's playing, that is, she only focused on playing every ball in front of her, regardless of the situation behind her. This concentration is unparalleled.

Perhaps it was her simplicity, or should I call it pure mind, that made Xú Zhēng, who was known as the "bachelor of diamonds" in Hong Kong's financial street at that time, shine at the first sight when he saw her, and he was also used to the so-called melodrama of all kinds of beautiful women. This girl with pure style broke his heart instantly.

Coupled with the glittering prize money of the world champion, Zhang Yining's image in Xu Wei's mind is very bright. As a former mathematical genius, after graduating from Nanjing Audit University, Wei Xu went to Japan for further study, got a doctorate in mathematics from Waseda University, and then found the first pot of gold on Wall Street in the United States.

After returning to China, he successively served as the president of China District and 8848, the online trading website "Online Curiosity", and then left his job freely to start a hedge fund. His personal assets are directly calculated in billions.

It is this rich life experience, coupled with similar personalities, that makes them extremely low-key and casual, and the two who are in harmony with each other quickly fall in love.

Zhang Yining, a 29-year-old world champion, and Xu Wei, a businessman 20 years older than her, met and fell in love for more than a year and held a low-key wedding in Beijing.

Their marriage has been blessed by relatives and friends, but it has also been criticized by many people. Zhang Yining marries an old man for money, wants to be a rich woman and so on, and sometimes speaks.

There is no denying that Xu Wei's wealth is definitely an important factor in their marriage, but more importantly, they appreciate each other, and more importantly, they are congenial, and more importantly, they are eager for home and attached to each other as lovers.

After marriage, Zhang Yining accompanied Xu Wei to settle in Hongkong. At this time, the stubborn old wounds left by years of war began to invade her body. The attacks on both ends in three days made Xu Wei feel very painful. He made up his mind to find the best doctor for his wife and completely cure the injury.

So Xu Wei drove Zhang Yining to the hospital twice a week. After returning home, he massaged his wife by himself according to the techniques taught by the doctor. After several months of systematic treatment, Zhang Yining's old injury has basically healed.

Seeing that his wife can kick, bend over and run freely, Xu Wei smiled with relief, and Zhang Yining smiled sweetly back.

Because Xu Wei specially hired a nanny, Zhang Yining, who was all right and light, once again led an idle life, but this was obviously not what she wanted.

Every time a current team member calls to talk about her new job and life after retirement, she will be stunned for a while. After all, after fighting for more than 20 years, she still misses the tense and fulfilling days.

She has been playing ball since she was 6 years old, and her culture class is relatively weak. And since she has formed a family, she will try to run this family for a long time, but she also knows that her previous championship qualification only represents her past achievements, and she will make changes from now on and completely shape herself.

Speaking of doing things, Zhang Yining and Wei Xu discussed: "I want to go to colleges and universities for further study and improve my cultural quality." But this time, Xu Wei wants his wife to practice well. On the other hand, he thinks that the biggest thing for them is to add a baby. After all, he is almost fifty years old.

Zhang Yining, who loved Xu Wei deeply, had to give up, but this matter always lingered in her mind, so that she didn't think about tea and rice. Xu Wei couldn't bear to worry his wife, and finally agreed to let her go to school, and said affectionately, "I will be happy if you are happy."

On September 20 10, after nearly one year of marriage, Zhang Yining returned to Beijing again and entered the postgraduate class of Beijing Sport University for further study.

In order to take care of his beloved wife, Wei Xu rented a high-class apartment in Beijing with a monthly rent of more than 60,000 yuan, and shifted his focus to Beijing, so that he could drive his wife to and from Beijing every day.

More than a month later, the school arranged for a group of world champions to go to the University of Wisconsin for further study. Zhang Yining, who refused an opportunity, decided to study in the United States, and Xu Wei could no longer follow her because of her work.

Although he was reluctant to part with Zhang Yining, he already knew that loving his wife was doing his best to make their families more harmonious and happy, so he restrained his reluctance and said happily to Zhang Yining, "We will live a lifetime, and there will be plenty of reunion time in the future."

20 1 1 In March, 30-year-old Zhang Yining and 14 other world champions flew to the University of Wisconsin-Madison to start studying abroad. She shares a dormitory with swimming star Shi Xin.

Both players and wives are taken care of, so there is no need to worry about it at all, but in America, eating, studying and traveling need to be done independently.

Everyone else is 30 years old, but Zhang Yining began to learn all kinds of life skills at the age of 30, as if a child was growing up.

The first thing Zhang Yining has to do is to eat. The first day of cooking, because she didn't adjust the temperature of the induction cooker, a fireball came out as soon as the oil was cooked. The fearless "table tennis queen" stepped back in fear.

As a result, it is conceivable that the fried tomatoes with eggs were made dark and unpalatable by her, and Zhang Yining was obviously unhappy.

Secondly, language barriers. In the classroom, American teachers have been teaching in English. The amount of study in six classes a day is hard for Zhang Yining to cope with. There are too many things she doesn't understand, so she has to record the whole process. After returning to the dormitory, she will make up her classmates' notes and look up the dictionary for memory understanding. As soon as she learns, she gets 10 at night.

What makes Zhang Yining more miserable is the separation from her husband. After all, they separated after just over a year of marriage. Missing makes them communicate only through the internet. Xú Zhēng chose Zhang Yining to accompany her online video chat during her lunch break every day, but it was already one or two in the morning.

In order to create an atmosphere, the two set up a "love hut" on the Internet. No matter who goes online first, they will turn on the lights in the whole house, and change the colors of curtains and floors every once in a while, where they trust and guard each other's feelings.

Zhang Yining gave Xu Wei good news every time, but after cancellation, his heart was different.

Because she was cut with a fruit knife when she was a child, Zhang Yining used a knife especially, but when cooking and peeling fruit, she used a knife everywhere, so she overcame her inner fear and insisted on practicing cutting vegetables and peeling apples. Practice makes perfect. Gradually, she became more and more skilled with knives, and her knife skills were extremely good.

Two months later, Xu Wei accompanied her mother-in-law to the United States to visit Zhang Yining. Everything is still bleak in Zhang Yining, but the news from Shi Xin made Xu Wei feel sad: "Zhang Yining's English can't keep up. In order to catch up with English, he almost ate instant noodles for dinner. "

Especially when I woke up the next day and saw a lot of hair that my wife had dropped on the pillow, Wei Xu handed her mother-in-law a bank card with a sum of money in it, hoping that her mother-in-law could stay in the United States to take care of her wife, and her mother, who was also distressed by her daughter, decided to stay.

However, two months later, Zhang Yining sent her mother back to China. She said to Xu Wei, "I can't always be taken care of by you all my life, but I must learn to live independently."

In the following days, the two continued to resume online video chat. Zhang Yining told an interesting story that she volunteered to teach table tennis in the community and clubs on weekends. She also took photos of her own mushroom sauce and spaghetti and sent them to Xu Wei. Xu Wei told some humorous jokes to help her decompress and adjust her life.

Zhang Yining also got a driver's license in the United States, and then cheerfully rented a car to take Shi Xin and other students to the scenic spots in Ontario. She designs her own travel routes and buys bread, fruit and so on. When they got home safely, Xu was relieved that they had been worried.

/kloc-at the beginning of 0/0, Zhang Yining returned to China and took a 20-day vacation. When the couple reunited, she showed her life skills to her family. The use of microwave ovens, vacuum cleaners and automatic washing machines is self-evident. She is still cooking Hawaiian and Italian pizzas in the kitchen, and she can iron her shirt neatly in five minutes.

During this period, Zhang Yining also independently hosted her mother-in-law's birthday party. She methodically booked hotels, served dishes, entertained guests and prepared cocktails with unique flavor for her mother-in-law. She is completely a standard hostess in the hall, and her relatives and friends greeted her with warm applause.

Later, Xu Wei accompanied Zhang Yining back to the United States to continue his studies. He witnessed his wife's Excellence, and her academic performance was A+. She has been able to talk with people fluently in English and give enthusiastic speeches. The tutor gave Xu Wei a thumbs up: "Congratulations on having such an excellent wife!"

Xu Wei's heart is mixed with happiness and excitement. In this difficult separation years, Zhang Yining has been honed and promoted in psychology, study and life, and she has really grown up!

20 12 On April 2nd, Jojo, the daughter of Zhang Yining and Xu Wei, was born in Hongkong. Five months later, Zhang Yining returned to the University of Wisconsin to continue his studies. At this time, she had another concern in her heart. To this end, she studied hard, even if she took a long vacation, she didn't rest, and made every effort to finish the credits as soon as possible.

In order to accompany his beloved wife, Xu Wei took her daughter to visit her in America. Their family of three ate in the college students' canteen, and she sat at the table with her daughter in her arms, waiting for a delicious meal.

Zhang Yining's popularity here is still very high. The scene of her dining with her husband and daughter attracted people's onlookers, and Zhang Yining's extremely grounded behavior made everyone appreciate it.

When Jojo was two years old, Zhang Yining decided to go out to work. At this time, her tutor Shi Zhihao became the dean of China Table Tennis Academy, and he strongly invited Zhang Yining to be his assistant.

Zhang Yining told Xu Wei: "Without the encouragement and carving of guidance, I wouldn't be where I am today." Wei Xu was moved by his wife's gratitude. From then on, Zhang Yining worked in Shanghai five days a week and returned to Hong Kong to reunite with her husband and daughter at weekends.

When Jojo was five years old, the couple took her to practice table tennis, but Jojo was not interested in it. Xu Wei lamented: "The daughter of the table tennis queen doesn't play table tennis. As a father, it's hard for me to let go."

Zhang Yining retorted humorously: "Do world champions also engage in hereditary system?" Her wit made Xu Wei laugh.

So from then on, whenever Zhang Yining is at home on weekends, she will send her daughter to study piano and painting with her husband, just like many ordinary parents who want her to succeed.

On October 30th, 2065438+09/kloc-0, 19, Zhang Yining gave birth to another healthy baby boy. Since then, the two children have formed a "good" word, which makes Zhang Yining braver and stronger than before, more responsible and more responsible.

At her son's "Hundred Days Banquet", she smiled and said to her husband, "When you are old, I can take good care of my son and let him grow up healthily and happily."

Xu Wei stood there with her son and wife in her arms and smiled with relief.

Shi Zhihao, former head coach of the national team, commented on Zhang Yining: The players are excellent, and their EQ and IQ are superb. Therefore, she can create an era in international table tennis, and get another successful life through self-transformation during her suspension from school after marriage.

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