Generally, girls from other places don’t like to find boys from Tianjin. Why is this?

Actually, it was the boys from Tianjin who made such a fuss. Tianjin has always been the hometown of folk arts. We grew up listening to cross talk when we were young. Mom, please bring the big wooden basin quickly, but the thief broke it. , someone took our bedding sheet, who? The jokes to tease you may be more familiar than the Tang poems we have memorized. People like Ma Sanli, Gao Yingpei, and Su Wenmao are more friendly than our Chinese teachers. If you listen to this cross talk for a long time, you will have a better understanding of our outlook on life and how we treat others. It has a great influence. I originally said in that diary that Tianjin boys still like to be with Tianjin girls because they are easy to communicate with, and Tianjin girls are also used to it. For example, when we were in our junior year, my brother and his girlfriend were in our During the break in the lecture hall, my buddy saw his wife eating an apple. He patted her on the shoulder and said, "Xiaohu, do you have something to eat?" Her wife was quite cooperative and said: Apple! Come on, come on, give it to uncle (sound baibai) Cangcang (have a taste), that buddy said shamelessly. His wife ignored him, and then he snatched it away. After snatching it away, he said: Oh, what an unlucky kid, protecting the food and having no future! His wife pushed her down on the table and beat her wildly. (PS: This section is from Ma Sanli's cross talk "Qigong Practicing". Please listen to it if you have time!) Tianjin girls know that he is joking. If girls from other places don't have this kind of folk art that they grew up with, they would probably have read it long ago. Come on, the reason why Tianjin boys like to be with Tianjin girls is mainly because they are related and can cooperate tacitly at critical moments. The reason why women from other places don’t like Tianjin boys is that they feel insecure, because they don’t know which of the Tianjin boys’ words are true and which of them are joking. It's a lie, right? I've wronged someone. This uncertainty about my pulse is the most depressing thing. In fact, as everyone knows, Tianjin boys are quite down-to-earth at heart, because the tradition of Tianjin people is to be down-to-earth, well-educated, and well-spoken. To use the words of the young master, Tianjin people have bad mouths but bad hearts. No matter how they criticize you, in the end, when you meet When faced with difficulties, Tianjin people will still lend a hand. If you encounter trouble on the street, Tianjin people will generally come up and say a few words to you, but generally they will not criticize you in vain. They will try their best to smooth things over for you, no matter what happens. When things are unfair, you have a strong sense of justice. If you don't believe it, wait until you fall into the river one day and see if someone can save you. There will definitely be someone. Sometimes we all want to push people into the river and fish them out again. Since childhood, parents in Tianjin have taught their children to be kind, honest, and down-to-earth. Similarly, when teachers and parents generally praise their children, the first thing they say is: This child is honest and kind! Even if you are an idiot, at least you can be labeled as honest. Similarly, when parents of girls in Tianjin ask their daughters to find a partner, regardless of whether they have money or not, the first thing is that the boy must be honest and down-to-earth. This will please the parents and put them at ease. So when we were growing up in the circle of friends in Tianjin, the first thing we needed to do was to be honest, respectable, decent in public, and to be courteous. The court actually means being loyal outside, so that we can stay together for a long time. Otherwise, No matter where you go, everyone will get involved with you. Once this person is labeled as unrealistic, he is not far away from being expelled. Therefore, whether it is in the general environment or in the education of parents, being honest and honest is actually rooted in the deepest moral bottom line in the hearts of our Tianjin boys. As for our usual use of words to fool people, it is purely for fun, because Tianjin boys just like vernacular, and we like the feeling of being the center of attention. Usually the highest level of vernacular is called Dali, and bragging about Dali is bragging. Without him There is no one he doesn’t understand. People from the Northeast are called Dabai, and people from Beijing are called Kanye. But in general, what we say in vernacular is definitely not serious business, but casual. Tianjin people just like vernacular. Indeed, this will make girls from other places feel insecure. The reason is because they are not used to the way we speak. In fact, you can think about it, if your boyfriend He is from Tianjin. I can guarantee that he will never deceive you on serious matters, but will complete it in a down-to-earth manner.

Because if he lies to you, first of all, his friends and parents will not let him go. There is a friend around me who cheated on his girlfriend, which aroused public outrage. Now everyone ignores him. The reason is that he It's not true. No one wants to be with him. In Tianjin, if a person's reputation is bad, he won't be able to hang out here. So usually, Tianjin boys will have a little humor with you, make you laugh, and be nervous because it's boring. It’s not a bad thing to add a touch of relaxing color to your life, right? Tianjin people are famous for their love of face. If Tianjin people fight outside, 90% of them are caused by fighting for face. For example, when playing on the basketball court, collisions are inevitable. As long as something goes wrong, you should speak first. When it comes, I basically can’t start a fight. I’m just afraid of those who are arrogant and gibbering. They are most likely to be hit by a crowd of people. Be honest, don’t talk nonsense, the words have come, and you have been in front of them. Go, Tianjin boys don’t get into trouble. In fact, Tianjin people are relatively timid and rarely fight. Ninety percent of the major cases in Tianjin every year are committed by outsiders. Our buddies from the Northeast complained to me. : You boys in Tianjin like to talk before they fight, and they don’t start until they say they don’t want to be caged. If this had been the case in the Northeast, we would have had beer bottles on them, and we won’t talk about it until after the fight! In fact, Tianjin people are very rational when fighting. They usually don't take action when something happens. Instead, they talk about it first and mention the person first. When two people meet, they first ask, do you know who or who? If you catch up with the right person, the next scene will probably be drinking at the dinner table with each other's back. Even if you are fighting, you will have to book a place, number people, and see who calls more, and they rarely fight one-on-one. In fact, you don't know that this kind of Method, the more people code, the harder it is to fight. Because Tianjin is such a big city and everyone knows each other, this method is often laughed at by boys from other places. They joke that Tianjin boys are not bloody. However, take the fact that we often hang out outside. A comrade said that if young people all have families, it would be bad to fight. Is there anything that cannot be reasoned with? (Oh, I’m afraid the gangsters are educated!) In the final analysis, it’s because Tianjin boys attach too much importance to family. Tianjin boys are very family-oriented. They try their best not to cause trouble for the family. If they are damaged, they spend money on medical treatment and look after the family. It's troublesome, so Tianjin boys don't cause trouble easily and tolerate it as long as they can, but when trouble comes, they are not afraid of it. Tianjin boys are afraid of their wives.