My daughter’s disappointment with her mother

1. The biggest lie in the world is: parents love their children. I grew up with my parents quarreling, and I also hated my parents. Why did they give birth to me and bring their pain to me. I asked them why they still wanted to maintain this marriage even though they hated each other so much. They said, "If it weren't for you, we would have divorced a long time ago!" I hated them even more and wanted to die.

2. I also thought that because I feel pain, I shouldn’t get married, don’t have children, don’t bring this pain to others, and let the pain end here.

3. I have read this sentence: Many times, living is not because you are attached to life, but because you don’t have the courage to die. It is true that I have lived until now because I did not have the courage to die. At that time, I wanted to die, I wanted to get it over with, and I thought about euthanasia, so that at least my death would not be painful.

4. Now, it has been many years since I graduated from college and left home. I have been working for several years. I live alone and live a very ordinary life. Indeed, the pain of the past is indeed etched in my heart, a scar that can never be erased. However, I am living well now, although there are times when I am happy and times when I am unhappy.

5. Now, I use my own money to support myself. During the holidays, I occasionally pamper myself with some sweets and buy some clothes. Although I can't be a big shot, I think this is good. There are colleagues around me whose parents are very harmonious, but not all of them are happier than me. Sometimes, if you have not experienced pain, you will not know how to cherish happiness.

6. After more than ten years, when you look back at your past, you will feel very peaceful. After all, for us, our parents are in the past tense, and our lives will be very, very long in the future.

7. It turns out that I thought that as relatives, you were my dependence and support. I waited again and again, and suffered pain again and again. What I got in exchange was only disappointment. The ending always left me disappointed. I have no words to answer.

8. Sometimes I am very disappointed with my parents, and the thing that keeps changing in my heart is that I cannot tell them that if I have a next life, I don’t want to have such parents.

9. Too It’s disappointing. You don’t even have basic respect for your parents. What talk about filial piety! Bullshit.

10. Children's love for their parents is so instinctive that they are disappointed and disgusted while loving them with all the cells in their body.

11. Do not accept yourself, complain to your parents, be disappointed in your lover, worry about your children, dissatisfied with your leaders and colleagues, and be misunderstood, deceived, accused, disrespected, disapproved and even attacked by others.

12. Children with a good parent-child relationship are less likely to become bad. Parents are the child's entire world. If a child is disappointed with his parents, the child will be disappointed with the entire world.

13. The disappointment with your parents is nothing more than that when you need comfort, they keep hitting you with a mocking tone. Yes, this is the generation gap. I'd better find a book to read, my thoughts are too depressing.

14. In these years, I have practiced alone, slept when I was tired, watched comedies when I wanted to cry, lived a simple and ordinary life, and just tried my best to be good to my parents and friends. Not being in love doesn't mean that I'm unattractive, it's just that I feel that my fate with the previous person is still lingering, so I stay single until I'm completely disappointed.

15. I hope I can treat my parents and people around me calmly, and not always be easily impatient. In fact, sometimes when you are disappointed with yourself, you are often the most impatient with your parents.