Chat with girls

As a boy, you will always meet a beautiful sweetheart, but you don't know how to approach her. Even hitting on girls is always rejected, which makes the majority of boys very headache. In order to solve this problem, I have prepared some words for you to chat up girls, hoping to help you.

Words of hitting on girls 1 Several opening remarks of hitting on strange girls.

1, simple style chat-up opening remarks

Features: Direct and simple, suitable for beginners. Not suitable for use in nightclubs; There's a good chance of standing up. Example: "Hi, I want to know you." "Hey, I think your skirt is very nice. What's your name? " "I pass by here and think you are very elegant. What's your name? "

2, brave style strike up a conversation opening remarks

Features: direct, powerful and powerful opening remarks. Usually, sexual elements are directly brought into the chat-up language, which is suitable for nightclubs such as bars. People say that this kind of chat-up opening usually has a low hit rate. According to my experience, about 1/5 women will react. Although the hit rate is low, the advantage is that it is a very time-saving practice if you want to find it. Of course, there are many restrictions and few application opportunities. Although this method doesn't work for most people, it doesn't mean it doesn't work for a few people. I have used it several times in nightclubs (for girls brought out by friends), and the effect is very good, which is a bit purely masculine. They all thought I was joking. Never used it on strangers; I think there is a better way to chat up strangers in nightclubs.

3. Opening remarks about location mode

Features: Humor, very high success rate, suitable for chatting up individuals or groups. This is one of my favorite styles, low risk and high return. They can't leave at once, and they can't kick you out without courtesy. As long as you can catch one of the women's interest points (not necessarily the target's interest point, but also her friend) in a minute or two, then you can integrate into their group. The only reason why I don't like this practice is that it costs money. It's not cost-effective to buy drinks. If your goal is to receive 30 calls today, you will be in trouble.

4. Humorous opening remarks

Features: social identity, showing value immediately. Opening remarks require opportunity and flexibility. The advantage is that with enough experience, opportunities and flexibility can be controlled. In nightclubs, this is my favorite style!

5. Opening remarks

Features: It is natural and can be used in daily life and nightclubs with high click-through rate. This is a common example of skill: in Hong Kong, I once accosted a girl in a cosmetics store in Gonghuan. I went to see cosmetics. There are many beautiful women in the cosmetics store. Seeing a customer who scored 9 easily, I said, "Hello, I need advice." A friend of mine in new york asked me to buy her a box of facial masks, but I don't know much about these things, and the salesman seems to just want to sell expensive products. Do you know which brands have reasonable prices and good quality? Subsequently, the woman introduced the brand she used. We talked about Hong Kong's bars, local culture and so on.

Beginners had better not talk to girls who have boyfriends. If you really want to strike up a conversation with a man, you have to say hello to that man first, and you must make good use of the occasion. For example, in a milk tea shop, you see your sister's boyfriend has a cup of milk tea, so you go over and ask him curiously and politely, "Hello. What is the name of your milk tea? It seems quite delicious. I want to order one, too. " After buying milk tea, you said, "Your girlfriend is very beautiful. You are really something. " Or: "Your boyfriend is very handsome." If the other person answers "He is not my boyfriend/girlfriend", you will have a chance. Then you can chat with them happily ~

What if the girl who accosted has a boyfriend?

1, follow the sister first.

You'd better follow up and observe before chatting up. After all, it's not good to be found harassing your girlfriend. Follow a girl for no more than three minutes.

2. When chatting up girls with friends, don't just accept one person's number.

For example, if you want to hook up with a 7-point girl who walks with a 5-point girl (xíng), you should not only accept the number of the 7-point girl, but also accept the number of the 5-point girl. If you ignore the five-point girl, the five-point girl will take the seven-point girl away. When facing a combination, you should attract the whole, not just the individual. As long as one person in the group rejects you, everyone in the group will reject you.

3. What should I do if my boyfriend suddenly appears?

When hitting on girls, don't panic if your boyfriend suddenly appears. Say hello to him before you go, or say, "No, I think your girlfriend is pretty. Are you afraid that you are not attractive enough? Are you afraid that your girlfriend will cheat? " If the other person says he is not afraid, then you can ask him for his girlfriend's micro signal. Be kind to others and be polite to others. People talk to you the way you talk to them.

How to chat up a girl for the first time on WeChat?

1, great opening

For example, I saw a beautiful photo in a circle of girls' friends.

Catch a cute girl with big eyes!

Why do your eyes talk?

Damn, I've never seen such a pure girl. I seem to be fascinated!

There are ever-changing ways to open it, such as from the head portrait, from the direction of conversation, etc., so I won't say much here, just remember the general framework: mobilize girls' emotions and put myself and those who just ask "Are you there?" "What are you doing?" "Have you eaten?" Distinguishing between frustrated men and women is a good opening remark!

Step 2 open your mouth with an expression

Just send expressions directly from your WeChat emoticon package, such as smile, cuteness, cuteness, hello and so on. There are not many routines, and you can also test whether the other person is interested in you. If you are interested, the other party will reply to you. You know that girls can't take the initiative in chatting, and then you need to provide a topic for chatting.

Step 3 start with interest

If you apply to add a sister's WeChat, don't rush to chat. You can look at the dynamics of her circle of friends first and see if you can find her hobbies. If you find it, you can start a topic around her hobbies.

Step 4 start with a circle of friends

After adding to the other party's WeChat, first look at the other party's circle of friends, have a basic understanding of the girl, and then find a topic according to the content of the circle of friends. The content of a girl's circle of friends must be of interest to her, otherwise it will not be displayed in the circle of friends.

For example, her circle of friends often takes fitness photos. You can say, "Girls who like fitness are very self-disciplined."

Or her circle of friends often takes work photos, then you can say, "I caught a workaholic."

For example, if she often takes selfies, you can say, "So you are a selfie lover."