I am a straight man of steel. How can I change?

To put it bluntly, steel straight men lack emotional intelligence! Emotional intelligence is not innate, and it is related to the living environment, but more importantly, it lies in the acquired learning and experience, understanding and discovery. Steel straight man means straightforward and not rigid. Can be changed from the following aspects: read more books, increase knowledge and connotation. Watch more news, learn about current events and fashions, learn about recent major events, sensitive things and hot topics, and chat with others.

Get to know more about how popular people are in life, what they usually do and how they do it. Listening to more music, watching more funny sketches and jokes, and then quietly using them in life will at least make people feel a little humorous. Keep a modest and low-key attitude, be friendly, generous, sincere and not glib. In fact, these are already very emotional expressions.

People like steel guides are easy to "talk to death". So we must avoid these similar situations when chatting. For example, a girl says that an actress is dressed in a "fan", but a boy says that a certain Hong is her michel platini. If a girl plays with a boy all day and lives in a room with a bed, the boy plays games, and the girl says it's cold in the middle of the night, the boy immediately brings the quilt and continues to play games until dawn; I don't understand some popular things, and my aesthetic standards are seriously lagging behind. I am obviously a young man, but I have a feeling that there is an obvious generation gap with my peers.

Boys put themselves in others' shoes, such as their cherished shoes, and will certainly not be trampled under their feet. Girls will also cherish their wallets and lipsticks and put themselves in others' shoes. Many things are not that girls are angry for no reason. You should express your words clearly, be more patient and take more practical actions, which is more important than anything else.

I saw an example before. A girl had an accident outside at night. Her car broke down and she was fine. I won't go if the girl's boyfriend says you're okay. So the girl must be very sad, even if she is lazy, she should go over and ask her how she is, give her a hug and take her home for dinner. Let girls feel warm.