Parents "show love" in front of their children and are accused by passers-by. Bao's answer is admirable.

Parents "show love" in front of their children and are accused by passers-by. Bao's answer is admirable.

Mr. Wang and his wife, Ms. Liu, have been in love since college. Even though they have been married for 5 years and their son Bobo is 4 years old, Mr. Wang and his wife still love each other very much, and they are famous loving couples in the circle of friends and family.

Usually, Mr. Wang and Ms. Liu will not hesitate to express their love to each other at home. They often talk about "I love you" and do some intimate actions such as hugging and kissing on the cheek in front of Bobo. Bobo has long been used to it.

What Mr. Wang didn't expect was that on Valentine's Day, when he and Ms. Liu went shopping with Bobo, because the shopping mall created a strong Valentine's Day atmosphere, he and Ms. Liu couldn't help hugging each other.

But the two passers-by who passed by disagreed with their husband and wife's behavior of "showing love" in front of their children. One of the passers-by also deliberately loudly say:

"In front of children, if you don't converge, aren't you afraid to teach bad children?"

Hearing this, Mr. Wang directly replied: "My child will be very happy to have parents who love him and let him live in a loving family!"

Indeed, under the subtle influence of Mr. Wang and Ms. Liu on weekdays, Bobo will now express his love for his parents. "Dad, I love you" and "Mom, I love you" are also commonplace.

Later I saw my grandparents, and so did my grandparents. Every time the old man is amused by Bobo.

What adults around me like best is that Bobo is particularly warm and cheerful. When you meet an adult you like, he will say something like "I like you" directly, and everyone can see Bobo's preferences and emotions at a glance.

Earlier, American psychologist Hugh Hartshorn and his team found after investigating 1000 children:

This proves that the deep affection of parents makes children feel love, and the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm, which has a positive impact on children's physical and mental health and can grow into better people.

1 to make children feel more secure.

Parents love each other, and the family atmosphere is full of warmth and love. Children will not feel unloved, and naturally they will not feel insecure.

So his understanding of the world and others will be full of goodwill, and the whole person will be positive and sunny.

However, if parents have bad feelings and get along very coldly, then children can't feel love and are always worried that their families will split, so they feel insecure and become inferior, introverted and sensitive.

2. Higher EQ is easier.

Parents know how to care about each other and have good communication, which will inevitably affect their children, let them learn to love, get along with others and communicate with others, and greatly improve their emotional intelligence. Children can have high emotional intelligence, which is very beneficial to their interpersonal communication and work.

3. Have a healthy view of marriage and love.

Children's initial cognition of love and marriage basically comes from their parents. If parents can properly show their love in front of their children and make correct demonstrations.

Children can know how to get along and communicate with the opposite sex, and what kind of love and marriage views are healthy. This has a great influence on the children's future feelings and marriage life.

As we all know, the popular actor Du Jiang and his wife Huo Siyan often show their love in front of their sons, so their sons know how to love their mothers.

How to love your partner in the future and be good at expressing your emotions and feelings? This is the best example of parents showing love in front of their children.

Of course, parents should also pay attention to the scale when showing their love in front of their children and set a good example for them.

1, guide children to understand the difference between love and friendship.

For children who are young but have strong imitation ability, if they don't understand the difference between love and friendship, they can see some actions of their parents showing love.

Such as hugs, kisses, etc. Imitating these actions to all friends who play well with themselves will not only make jokes, but also mislead children.

Therefore, parents should guide their children to understand the difference between love and friendship, what behaviors are not suitable for being friends, especially friends of the opposite sex, and pay more attention to the way of getting along.

2, grasp the scale

Even if parents love each other again, they should pay attention to the scale. Don't show excessive movements in front of children, lest children be too young to imitate.

Parents may wish to change the way of expressing love, such as giving each other enough care and care, and often preparing some gifts to let their children feel love through these daily details.

Although parents show affection and harmony, it has many benefits for children's body and mind, personality and emotional intelligence. However, when expressing goodwill, we should also pay attention to grasping the scale. Don't be too affectionate when showing love, so as not to have a bad influence on children!

We China people have always been reserved and reserved, but parents occasionally show their love in front of their children, and creating a warm and loving family atmosphere is more conducive to the growth of children!