The feudal thought that men are superior to women in the old society, I wonder if it will poison our generations?

In old China, due to the widespread idea that men are superior to women, women are discriminated against in society. Girls have no right to education, no right to their own names, and no autonomy in marriage. Their fate is completely out of their own hands.

I am a girl who came out of the mountains. I also have a brother at home. My brother has been loved by my parents since I was a child. Their parents are still feudal in the old society, and they always think that girls are going to marry sooner or later. Even if they achieve great things, it has nothing to do with their parents' family. Therefore, my parents always put their hopes on my brother. My brother did not disappoint his parents at the beginning.

Later, after my brother went to high school, he studied in the county town. Perhaps he couldn't bear the prosperity and obsession in the city, and began to enjoy himself slowly, and his academic performance began to decline slowly, and his personality became more arrogant. And I, who has never been valued by my parents, always study hard silently. In order to get out of the mountain village, I only have to study. Through my own efforts, my academic performance is still passable, and I have always maintained a medium level in my grade.

My brother who graduated from high school didn't get into the ideal good university as he hoped, but with the efforts of his parents, he exhausted all his financial resources and managed to get into an ordinary university at his own expense. After my brother went to college, the family's economy was also very tight. My parents discussed with me and planned to let me drop out of school and go out to work, making every effort to ensure my brother's smooth graduation from college. I know that it is absolutely difficult to survive in the future society without knowledge. Under my repeated entreaties, my parents reluctantly agreed to let me go to a vocational school, although I can be admitted to a first-class university.

After graduating from vocational school, it's still very smooth to find a job. My brother, Brother, spent four years in college and wandered around the society for several years before finding a stable job. He started as a real estate agent. It is because I heard that the salary of real estate agents is very high, and I can earn more than 1 thousand every month that my brother stepped into the real estate industry. But my brother is not good at communicating with people, so his salary has always been ordinary, and he can only barely make ends meet.

Later, we all got married separately and had children of our own. Because I was a girl and I was born with a girl, my parents even reduced their contact with me. Fortunately, my parents-in-law family loved this little granddaughter very much, and really became the apple of their eyes. My brother's family is a boy. He has been as smart as my brother since he was a child, and he has great ingenuity, which makes my parents almost happy from ear to ear, and even praises everyone.

Maybe it's because of my parents' doting that this child has become as pampered and arrogant as my brother. Whenever I play with my daughter, I often belittle her, and some words are simply unacceptable to me. Later, I really felt that what he said was a little too much, so I took the children straight home.

I didn't expect this incident to disturb my parents. They scolded me on the phone and said that I didn't give my brother face. This will have an impact on my nephew's future and have a psychological shadow on him.

In this way, my contact with my brother's family is almost cut off. If there is nothing important, I will not contact at all. Later, after my nephew's college entrance examination results came out, I was also confused at that time. At the beginning, after the college entrance examination, their family could get more than 6 points, but I didn't expect only 4 points after the results came out. Later, everyone learned that after each mock exam, my nephew was afraid of being criticized when he went home, and he always revised his grades secretly, and my brother and his wife lacked communication with the school, which caused them to have no understanding of their children's learning.

No matter how bad it is, they are also my relatives. When I went to see my parents and brother with fruit happily, I was thrown out of the house. My mother scolded me and said that I came to see their family jokes. This is my real mom and dad, and I don't think I will go back except for the Spring Festival.