Words to help your children do homework

When communicating with their children, parents should see their children’s shining points and give them a sense of accomplishment. When the child gets the test paper back, don't focus on the score, but look at the questions the child answered correctly, and say to the child: "That's great! You answered so many questions correctly! You have a good grasp of knowledge!". Hearing parents' affirmation of his efforts, the child feels a sense of achievement, and his efforts are not in vain, and he regains confidence.

Then the parents will focus on the wrong questions in the test paper and say to their children: "These wrong questions are a bit difficult, and this is the room for learning and progress. Understand these wrong questions thoroughly, The child will definitely improve in the next exam!" When the child hears these words, he will definitely regain his confidence and courage and understand the wrong questions carefully, because he sees the hope of progress and the dawn of victory.

When a child is procrastinating on homework, first observe and understand, and then find the areas where the child deserves recognition. Parents can say: "Not bad! Two questions have been completed for the homework." Or: "After studying at school for a day, you can still sit down and do homework. You are quite determined." When children hear such words, they will If you feel the recognition and understanding of your parents, you are likely to do what your parents expect.

On the contrary, if a child's test results are not satisfactory, he will feel very uncomfortable. At this time, the parents will criticize and nag, such as "Why are you so careless? Why did you do so poorly in the test? You deserve our help?" Will you pay?" These words will definitely make the child's frustration more serious and even produce strong resistance.

If a child procrastinates, some parents will say: "Can you finish your homework quickly? You are always so slow, let's see when your homework will be completed!" Children also want to complete their homework on time, But even if he couldn't control himself, he was helpless and distressed. At this time, parents should work with their children to find a solution instead of blaming them from above.

Everyone wants to be recognized and appreciated, and the sense of accomplishment is what drives people forward. Therefore, in the process of children's learning, parents should give their children more care and patience, and affirm them promptly and accurately, so that they can gain the strength to overcome difficulties.