Tea and wine life, happy life

Sit alone in a corner every afternoon, drink some tea, listen to music, read some books, and occasionally close your eyes and take a nap. This is the lifestyle that an octogenarian should have. But I, an old man who is less than fifty years old, am already enjoying it in advance.

Drinking, what you drink is the excitement of changing cups and cups; drinking tea, what you drink is the loneliness where the whole world is drunk but I am alone. I chose to stay away from the hustle and bustle and enjoy this solitude.

There is a popular saying that "the older you get, the lonelier you become." I agree with this. As I get older, I feel more and more like this person is like a small planet in the vast universe. It seems like people are coming and going and it is very lively. In fact, each planet has its own orbit. , sometimes they seem very close, but in fact they are thousands of miles apart.

In fact, every planet is lonely, and so are people.

Sometimes I think that someone is running on the same track as me, and when they meet, they will vibrate because of the same frequency, so I open my heart and talk a lot, thinking that the other person can understand. I was heartbroken and understood, but later I learned that although chickens and ducks are both poultry and can live in the same yard or even live in the same nest, "chickens and ducks talking" is a cold joke that is not funny.

The older you grow, the lonelier you become; the older you grow, the more you understand. Later, I stopped blindly expressing to others and outwardly, and began to try to focus on my true inner needs. I slowly discovered that I was the one who understood myself best. From then on, I no longer feared being alone, but learned to enjoy being alone.

People who always avoid being alone have no time to have in-depth conversations with their hearts. A person who has to talk a lot to others every day has an extremely empty soul. Hongxing will be cheated by the bustling temptation outside, and her soul will be cheated by the loneliness. A body that has lost its soul, its life is a kind of sadness.

Drinking is a kind of material enjoyment to reward oneself; drinking tea is a dialogue with one's own enlightenment practice. There is a saying that "Three cups of wine for the world of mortals, and a pot of tea for the great achievements of the ages." A life of tea and wine will lead to a happy life.