Which of the three stages of humor are you?

Funny, that is to say, this kind of humor itself does not express anything, just funny, such as many cross talk works. In Degang Guo's cross talk, there are often jokes that ridicule his partner Yu Qian:

Degang Guo: "Introduction mainly introduces him (Yu Qian)."

Yu Qian: "Why do you mainly introduce me?"

Degang Guo: "This person is called Yu Qian."

Yu Qian: "It's me."

Degang Guo: "My idol!"

Yu Qian: "Well, I can't say."

Degang Guo: "Famous people!"

Yu Qian: "No."

Degang Guo: "Great, that's it, hey!" "

Yu Qian: "That's it."

Degang Guo: "How energetic, look at this face, with eyes like meatballs, ears like jiaozi, nose like garlic, hair like a fan, beard like kelp, tofu mouth and broad bean teeth. This head is stewed in the northeast."

Yu Qian: "A pot of food ..."

Although the humor in this paragraph doesn't have much connotation, it doesn't mean it's unimportant. Because being funny is meaningful in itself. It's like you have mastered a set of boxing. Although there is no internal force at all, the battle is still very fierce. After all, everyone's life pressure is relatively high now, and even simple entertainment will make people feel very relaxed. This kind of joke makes people have no ideological burden. After listening and laughing, the purpose of relaxation is achieved.

Middle position of the stage: comfortable

The intermediate stage of humor is to make the listener feel not only funny but also comfortable, which is a sign of high emotional intelligence. As American psychologist Herb Tru said, "Humor can lubricate interpersonal relationships, eliminate tension, relieve mental stress and make life more interesting. It pulls us out of our own small world and makes us feel at home and find friends. "

Jia Ling is recognized as a comedian with high emotional intelligence. In many programs, she can be seen helping her peers, especially actresses, who are embarrassed. Jia Ling itself is very festive. She can put down her figure and dare to be dark, low-key and warm, which makes people feel like a spring breeze.

There was a backstage interview with Mango Golden Eagle. Because of the organizer's arrangement, the original interviewee was temporarily changed to Jia Ling. As a result, the reporters were unprepared, and no one asked questions for a long time. The scene was embarrassing.

Jia Ling said, "No problem? Am I not so angry anymore? Don't you have anything to ask? "

Jia Ling's words enlivened the atmosphere. What reporter doesn't love such a star who knows how to relieve the pressure of others' work? Therefore, humor that is sensitive to people and makes others comfortable is a higher level of humor than humor.

Senior positions: attitude and influence

Humor in high-level paragraphs can reflect the speaker's attitude and three views on people and things.

For example, Ma Yun's well-known golden sentence: "Today is cruel, tomorrow will be even more cruel, and the day after tomorrow will be beautiful. But most people will die tomorrow night. " No one can succeed casually, only those who can persist and survive the cruel today and tomorrow can finally succeed. Ma Yun also said: "There are still dreams. What if it is realized? " Encourage people to set clear goals and dreams as the direction and motivation of their efforts. This sentence aroused the enthusiasm and confidence of countless people and started their own dream-chasing journey.

High-level humor coincides with various social emotions, in which ideas can sneak into people's subconscious and even change the listener's cognition, behavior and world outlook. We call this humorous attitude influential humor.

Just as some ideas in the talk show "Seven Pa Shuo" will ignite social hotspots and trigger social thinking, some jokes have the same effect.

These are three pieces of humor, from the shallow to the deep. In daily life, you can start by amusing others and bring happiness and smiles to others. Then, you can kindly use humor to help others solve some difficult problems in interpersonal relationships. When you have more ideas, you can use your humor to influence and change others at a higher level and make the world a better place.