What books are suitable for women to read?

What books are suitable for women to read? There are many! However, a woman who has not read Minions's life is incomplete.

In every youth movie, a mushroom quietly goes to a small hospital for an abortion. For example, in To Our Dying Youth, Ruan Wan is in awe of love.

At the age of 30, I realized that any woman who left her body on the cold obstetrics and gynecology equipment in the name of love was a fool; Men who wear condoms to save time in the name of passion are assholes.

I remember when I was in high school, I turned off the light, hid in the mosquito net in my dormitory and watched the Norwegian forest with a flashlight. Watanabe and Naoko's brief description of sex made them blush and their hearts beat like thunder.

At that time, I didn't really know how my body was formed, so I just played around and suffered, which was both sad and ridiculous.

This book should be read by all women. If you have a daughter, you must read and guide her to understand her body.

I want to ask all my female friends a question first: Do you know your body? If so, how much do you know?

From a little girl to adolescence, to adulthood, middle age, menopause, and finally to the twilight of life, a woman's life is undergoing physiological and emotional changes.

From naivety to ignorance, from the joy and panic of being a mother for the first time, to the calmness and heaviness of middle age, from the anxiety and confusion of menopause, to the decline of physical strength and energy of the elderly, and all kinds of unpredictable variables that may occur at any time in life, our bodies and spirits are being tested all the time.

Women play a variety of roles in the survival and reproduction of human society, such as gestation, nurturing and education. Women's health status and a mother's concept of treating health problems directly affect individuals, families and even the whole society.

Day after day, we carry a heavy load, and we cry from the heart: be kind to yourself and love yourself more.

If every woman can gain new knowledge of health and self-protection at the least cost, clear away your physical and mental obstacles and bless her health, is this the way to love herself the most?

Today I'm going to recommend Zhang Yu's "Only doctors know! Series.

The title of the book sounds a little chicken blood, but after reading it, she calls out to women and life all over the world with her heartfelt voice. Especially when the second child is coming, I hope those thrilling stories in the book will make you realize yourself and wish you happiness.

She said:

I haven't had a sip of water all morning, I haven't gone to the toilet, and I haven't left the clinic for a moment. At most, I only saw dozens of patients. But in fact, I hate that most of the time we are repeating our work, saying repetitive words, explaining our illness and doing repetitive operations. I hate being tired. Although I try my best, there are still so many patients, which seems to be endless. Similar injuries, like nightmares, continue to happen to generations of women.

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When recommending this book, Ma Yili said, "As a mother, this book makes me feel reunited after such a long separation. In the future, it will be the best textbook for my daughters in adolescence. "

The famous writer, screenwriter and Weibo red man said naughtily, "I dedicate this book to Wang".

Is it a pity for me, a married woman who is in her fourth year, to regard this series of books as textbooks for adolescence, so as to know and understand her body? I made up for what I missed, but I regret it a little, but I don't hate meeting you late.

Every pregnancy of a woman hides many risks, and there is an undercurrent behind every seemingly calm delivery. After reading this book, I finally understand where these risks come from, which can be avoided and which even doctors can't do.

Not every pregnancy deserves congratulations. Similarly, not every abortion is worth mourning. Many times, we don't want to "go against the sky and have fun", but to "do our best and resign ourselves to fate". At the top of the cover of the book, there is a big word "even if you are an intellectual woman, you may not know enough about your body." Never overestimate your knowledge of the body. After reading it, you may even find that you may not even reach 1%.

Through this book, you will understand that the impermanence of life, the complexity of human nature and the impermanence of disease are infinitely magnified in the doctor's world. Sometimes, in the face of diseases, doctors are as powerless as patients.

In Zhang Yu's works, we see the dignity and redemption of medicine, as well as trial and service. In her works, there is no privacy and distortion, only science and warmth.

Similarly, through her pen, we found the way and strength to fight against impermanence, that is, to respect life and doctors.

The ancients said that "reading thousands of books is better than taking Wan Li Road", and Changyu said that "reading Wan Li Road is better than seeing countless patients". The so-called well-informed, the so-called superb medical skills, but countless patients, countless families, countless fresh lives.

Talking about the original intention of writing a book, she said that it came from her own heart.

Having been a doctor for more than 20 years, in the clinical practice of 15, she deeply felt that many gynecological diseases could have been prevented and many tragedies could have been avoided. There are so many moments that could have been reversed that were wasted by the unwitting "we". Finally, we left a helpless sigh.

What she wrote in the book is that the 14-year-old girl complained of a stomachache and her family called an ambulance. The doctor in the car opened his clothes and saw fetal movement in his stomach. Knowing that this was no ordinary stomachache at all, he was about to give birth and casually said, "Is this child pregnant?" As a result, the girl's father slapped him and shouted, "My daughter is very pure. She goes to school during the day and sleeps at home at night. How could she be pregnant? " Is there any medical ethics? If you talk nonsense again, I'll waste you. "As a result, before the ambulance arrived at the hospital, the fetal head was exposed from below.

Some mothers heard that the child was ectopic pregnancy. They didn't discuss with the doctor what to do next, but jumped up and beat up their daughter lying on the examination bed. While grabbing her hair and hitting her head against the wall, they screamed like a madman, "I'll kill you, just as I didn't raise you, and I don't want to live." Tears welled up in my eyes until the child was beaten to pieces and bleeding.

We will eventually become mothers and have children. Our responsibility and nature make us always protect and take care of our children in our own way. However, in China, where adolescent education and physical health knowledge are still deeply popularized, there is no doubt that the mother has an extra responsibility on her shoulders.

We should clearly tell children at what age what to do and what not to do, and how to protect themselves and others. The difference is that if one day the child is really in trouble, even if he loses face and has nowhere to go, he should choose to forgive the child and not ruin his life because of his reputation.

In addition to fascinating stories and popular medical knowledge, the writing style of the book is humorous and pungent, which truly, accurately and touching describes the conflict, joy, despair, confusion and struggle between doctors and patients.

I almost laughed when I read the chapter "When Lao Dou found a condom to give a patient a B-ultrasound". My father came over and turned the pages curiously, just turning to the chapter of "plastic surgery for private parts". He even said contemptuously that I was reading pornographic books and yelled.

Thank you for having such a book, which is not boring but has temperature. While telling stories, we should popularize medical knowledge and even physiological common sense to help women truly understand their bodies, know how to care for themselves, and let women really control their bodies, destiny and life direction to avoid unnecessary harm. What reason do you have to refuse it?