Home of the Heart: Exposing the real situation of three women, it is a joke that most people want to make a comeback.

In the TV series "Heart Residence", the role of Gu Qingyu should be a glamorous representative of first-tier cities. She wears famous brands, gets a high salary, goes in and out of high-end office buildings, and lives in a comfortable and spacious mansion.

The 36-year-old single aristocrat is still surrounded by suitors. The typical image of Bai has become the object of worship of many migrant workers in Shandong.

Taking root in Shanghai and mixing personal appearance in this huge city has become the dream of countless migrant workers.

However, people who struggle in first-tier metropolises, are their lives really infinite?

Looking at the lives of these three women, you can understand the bitterness and helplessness of ordinary migrant workers living in first-tier cities.

A. Feng's distress

Feng is a veritable foreign wife. In her early 20 s, she came to Shanghai alone from the small county town of the 18th line.

Feng can "pick" Gu Lei with a clear goal: Gu Lei is a native of Shanghai. Apart from his clumsy appearance, the difficult conditions of having a house and a household are all points in marriage and love.

So Feng wants to use marriage as a springboard for her life to fight back. She launched an offensive to chase her, and finally married this honest and paunchy Shanghai local man.

After marriage, she worked as a free nanny for eight years in this big family with four generations living under one roof, and she also worked hard to treat her in-laws. However, her efforts and efforts have not been appreciated by her husband's family.

Sister-in-law secretly inquired about Feng and found that she had a son in her hometown before she came to Shanghai.

Knowing this ulterior secret, it is even harder for elder sister to have trust and respect for her. In the eyes of a sophisticated elder sister-in-law, she married her family for profit.

Feng has never been able to tear off the label of "foreigner", so she is eager to have a house of her own.

And her husband, who only knows how to eat, drink and be merry all day, can't come up with any savings to meet her housing needs.

She began to think of her sister-in-law. She tried her best to please her sister-in-law, and then earnestly persuaded her husband Gu Lei to borrow money from her sister-in-law. Who knows that the little sister-in-law who can't make ends meet is also playing her own wishful thinking.

She is worried that Feng will move out of the old house when he has his own house and cannot take care of her father and elderly grandmother.

When she found that borrowing money would harm the family's interests, she resolutely refused and warned Feng indirectly:

In this family, you are good to Gu Lei, and Gu Lei is good to the whole family!

My sister-in-law is wary of her everywhere. Nuo Nuo's husband is a pawn in her sister-in-law's hand. Family meetings that shut Feng out again and again made her feel cold from the bottom of my heart.

I overheard the suspicion and calculation behind my elder sister-in-law, and she finally got angry, so she dragged her suitcase and her son. She wants to take this opportunity to run away from home and scare her family. Feng never dreamed that this move brought disaster to her husband Gu Lei.

Because of her pushing, Gu Lei fell down the stairs and hit a piece of glass placed in front of her neighbor's house, and there was no fresh life in an instant.

From then on, Feng became a single mother who was spurned, a vicious woman who "killed" her husband by herself. Her family hates her and her neighbors laugh at her.

In the past, when Gu Lei was alive, even though this husband was a loser, she still had something to rely on and had something to discuss with him. Now that she doesn't even have a speaker, life suddenly falls into the abyss.

As an ordinary drifter without culture and background, she wants to take root, not be a rootless duckweed. She wants to use marriage to cross the class and become a veritable Shanghainese. She originally dreamed that this was a shortcut to success, but who would have expected that it was a pit that she regretted in the end and was beaten back to its original shape by life.

At this time, Feng decided to rally and become a rider, coming in the wind and going in the rain, always worried about customer complaints. Feng, who tasted the bitterness of the world, refused to help his family even when he secretly wiped his tears in the dead of night. She believes that she can raise her son Tiger.

Widowed, unemployed, without money, helpless, human suffering has not let her go. Feng has been tempered by this world, and she has completely awakened: the only person who can be trusted in this life is herself.

2. Feng's decline

Feng is Feng's first sister. After graduating from high school, she took refuge in her sister's house.

Feng has lived in Shanghai for several years. She has no highly educated packaging and no extraordinary talent. Because of her honesty, she has never found a real job.

She had been doing odd jobs at night school. She was bullied by customers when she was a cashier in a convenience store, and her meager income was estimated to be barely enough.

Fortunately, her sister provided her with a place to stay, and Feng was not too worried about sleeping on the street.

After all, the feeling of relying on others is unpleasant. After brother-in-law Gu Lei left, the two sisters became a thorn in the old lady's side and heard a lot of gossip.

The old lady often scolds her sister for cooking a small stove in front of Feng's father-in-law, and also deducts her rations, leaving all the chicken legs and duck legs to Feng. All the delicious food and drinks were occupied by Qin Xiao's sister, but his reasonable father-in-law said he wouldn't care about these daily chores.

In the face of the old lady's dissension, Feng had to submit to humiliation. Feng said angrily that she rented a house and moved out. The rent of more than 6,000 yuan a month is absolutely unbearable according to Feng's economic strength.

My sister, whose edges and corners have been smoothed by life, comforted her sister like this: "Let her speak, she won't lose a piece of meat."

I believe that anyone who has experienced floating in Shanghai should know that the rent in first-tier cities is a mountain on everyone's head. In this city full of dreams and temptations, how many people come here to take root every day, and how many people eventually flee.

Feng had the cheek to ask for a formal job for her sister.

She instructed her husband Feng Lei to pray for her sister, and then entrusted Zhan Xiang to please her cousin Ge Yue in order to find a decent job for her sister. With the help of Zhan Xiang, Feng finally became a clerk in the bank.

The humiliation of the boss and the ridicule of the customers made her taste the hardships and helplessness of people living in other places.

A big city is not a beautiful paradise. When the bubble of dreams will eventually disappear, all efforts will be in vain. You can only feel the weakness and paleness of reality in endless darkness. You have to dry your tears at dawn and choose to move on.

3. The cruelty of forcing my sister-in-law

Strong sister-in-law is a typical bitch as soon as she appears. She followed her husband and dragged three young children to wander in Shandong. Compared with those single and free teenagers, the life of the Qiangsao family is more difficult and tight.

She didn't want to be a left-behind woman or her children, so the whole family came to economically developed Shanghai from the border town of her hometown.

There are many employment opportunities, high wages and quick money in big cities, which may be the most fundamental reason why most people choose to leave their homes.

But are the first-tier cities really Duran peanuts? When the reality is in sharp contrast with the ideal, you will suddenly realize the cruelty and ruthlessness of life.

In this big city with high housing prices and high prices, it is really not so easy to gain a foothold.

Two young daughters and a starving son, the daily expenses are not a small sum. Guo Qiang runs a small restaurant, forcing her sister-in-law to go in and out of the rental house and vegetable market unkempt, and to take care of three children.

They have been in arrears with the landlord's rent for a year because they are not well off. Every time the landlord urges for rent, Mr. and Mrs. Guo Qiang either refuse to open the door, or use hooliganism to drive away Zhanxiang.

Living in someone else's house and paying the rent on time on a monthly basis is a matter of course, but for Guo Qiang and his wife, they can live in a free and spacious house by virtue of their rogue ability.

Zhan Xiang came to the door to forcibly collect rent, and she got into a fight with her man. She hugged Zhan Xiang's thigh, and the whole person collapsed on the ground, crying and grabbing the ground, and then stood in the corridor and shouted.

In the end, the couple also complained to the wicked first, reported the matter to the old man, the director of the industry Committee, and slandered Zhan Xiang for hitting people, which was extremely cruel.

Faced with such a living Lao Lai, the nouveau riche Zhan Xiang was completely helpless.

Strong sister-in-law simply transformed the rogue into a righteous image, and her insolence became her top secret weapon in this city.

I remember a saying: you can be incompetent, incompetence is not your fault, but you can't be a hooligan!

As a strong sister-in-law living at the bottom, he can only pretend to be shameless as a magic weapon to settle down in this city.

A writer once said: Everyone's path is different. I walked on my wild road and she walked on her main road. As long as I don't take a crooked road, every road is worthy of blessing.

But I think no matter which way you choose, you should live this ordinary life with an open mind and aboveboard.