What consequences should middle-aged people consider when they divorce?

I think it's the following consequences: (The following is a real case) Now it's an open era, and it's no longer like at the beginning. After marriage, no matter how good or bad, it will accompany you all your life. Now, you can get a divorce as long as you don't think both sides are suitable. Divorce is not limited to young couples. Many middle-aged couples will choose divorce when they encounter emotional problems. However, middle-aged couples should think twice before choosing divorce.

Think about whether there is no room for redemption before divorce. My wife and I are both grumpy people. We often quarrel over trifles and even yell for divorce. Every time we prepare a divorce agreement and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a divorce, I will calm down and ask myself a question: We really can't get along with her. Must we leave? Every time I calm down, I will think about it and not mention the divorce. ?

Nowadays, many people don't take marriage seriously and regard it as a joke. This is absolutely wrong. Many people are irresponsible to themselves and others when they leave. Before getting married, they should seriously think: Do they really want to form a family with each other? When divorcing, they should also think clearly: there is no room for marriage to be redeemed.

Think clearly about how to deal with the children before divorce. My husband and I have a 7-year-old child who is in the first grade of primary school, but our relationship is in crisis. Every time we talk about divorce, there will be a question in front of us. What will happen to the children if we divorce? Who will raise the children? Will divorce cast a shadow on children and be laughed at by classmates? Whenever these problems come before us, we give up divorce and want to live a better life. ?

Sometimes life is compromised, especially when couples have the crystallization of love, so they should be more cautious when they want to divorce, otherwise it will easily have an indelible impact on their children's lives. Have you ever thought about how difficult it is for a child to grow up without the love of his father or mother? Have you ever thought how sad it would be for your child to be laughed at by classmates without parents at school? If you can solve these problems, it's not too late to divorce. Otherwise, hasty divorce will bring nightmares to families and children. So this is what happens when middle-aged people get divorced.