What kind of existence does the stepmother have after she strangled her stepdaughter and fled with her own son?

It's sad to see the news. A stepmother who does such a thing must be cruel.

Stepmothers have a special family status. She is a new member of this family. If she wants to integrate into the family, she must make more efforts than ordinary people.

First of all, children will keep their distance from their stepmother.

No matter why parents are not together, in the eyes of children, there will always be only one parent. In the eyes of children, stepmother is an "intruder", who will occupy the position of mother in the family, take away the love of father, make herself left out in the cold and worry too much about her situation.

Children will keep their distance from their stepmother and will not be close to their stepmother. Some children may also provoke the feelings of adults and let the stepmother retreat. If you fail after trying, you will accept the fact, but you will still reject your stepmother in your heart.

If the stepmother wants to get the respect of her children, she should try her best to care for them, let them feel your sincerity and love, feel that you treat them as your own children, and let them regain their maternal love. The distance will naturally be shortened.

Secondly, children are particularly sensitive to their stepmother's words and deeds.

A child without maternal love is a wounded hedgehog. He will long for more love and attention, and he will care more about his stepmother's attitude towards himself.

If the stepmother takes care of the children, it depends on whether the stepmother can hold a bowl of level.

If the stepmother is partial to the children, the children will think that the stepmother is a bad woman, thus becoming hostile to the stepmother, and then closing their inner world and not accepting the stepmother.

Stepmothers should pay attention to their words and deeds, treat him as their own, and be partial to him in front of children, which is easy to get his favor.

Finally, if the child is not good to the stepmother, the stepmother will know how to guide.

Children are children after all, and their thoughts are certainly not as mature as adults. Don't get angry when children express their dissatisfaction with their stepmother. They should know how to guide their children and not intensify contradictions. Let time prove your love, let the children feel your love, and naturally regard the stepmother as their own mother.